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Hello All,
I am back again đ
As I introduced myself last time that I am Akshara/NaKsh/YRKKH fan, so my point of view will be most likely be inclined towards Akshara but I will try to be neutral and try to analyze the situation from everyone's perspective.
I would like to clear that, I don't think anyone is wrong in this situation. I understand a fans perspective also, Akshara's fans will see the situation from her side and same goes for Naira or Gayatri's fans. So it's Ok guys to have a different Point Of View and have healthy discussion rather than terming anything against ones Favourite Character as "NEGATIVITY". Just put forth your views rather than demeaning others views. Enough of Moral Policing đ
Akshara - She had a situation where she needed to be present at the same time at two different places. No matter how much godly Akshara is presented by the CV's (Hina calls herself female Krish jokingly đ ) but she is human after all. This situation arised cause Gayatri's exhibition got preponed, If not for that everything would have gone smoothly (but as its a show there needs to be some drama đ ) So Akshara thought she will manage both the events of her beloved daughters with her extra ordinary time management skill but god was having different plan. Lots of unexpected hurdles made it difficult for her to reach at Gayatri's exhibition before time. But She was there in time to be the show stopper. So finally, she was available for both Naira and Gayatri.
Now some would say, why she went to Naira's Dance competition when Naira clearly said she don't want anyone specially Akshara? If we think from Akshara's point of view, She is a mother ( actually that's enough a reason to be there for Naira) that too of child who was away from her for so many years. Naira was striving hard to fulfill Naitik's dream so it was double bonanza. Akshara still holds herself responsible for Naira's situation so there is guilt as well. If Naitik was available than probably Akshara would have taken a back seat but in his absence it was her responsibility as a Parent to be available for her child no matter how negatively she thinks about her. It happens with us as well no matter how much we fight with our mother but end of the day she will come with the food plate and make sure that we don't sleep hungry. She knows Naira well enough to understand that she wont be able to manage on her own. Why would she ask Varsha or any other lady of the house to help Naira when she herself is available to do so. She waited to fix Naira's duppatta as any other mother would when she saw her daughter in trouble.
Coming to Gayatri, Akshara knows her that she is mature and strong enough to manage situation. This is not her first exhibition, she has been in the business for some time. If not her than there were other members of the family to calm her down till the time Akshara reach the venue. From what I see, Akshara has more trust in Gayatri that she will manage crisis situation. She trust her ability to overcome hurdles as she sees herself in her. Also Gayatri claims lot of time that she is second coming of Akshara đ. We have to understand Naira is her daughter and Gayatri is like her daughter. Maternal instinct always over powers though unintentionally. Loving your daughter/son more than anyone else cannot be termed as selfish. I think it happens in most of the cases, an elder child is always taken for granted as parents think they will manage...đ
Naira - She is troubled child of the house. She has lived a life of orphan in spite having a whole village as a family đ. Jokes aside, she had a troubled childhood and teenage years, lot of it was self inflicted and some due to situation. But still she managed to live a dignified life. Developed a close knit bonds with the people she lived. She makes a lot of effort like Akshara to be on the right side always, their ways may be different but intentions are same. She is not rude and arrogant to people intentionally except her mother. She has trusting issues which is quite understandable and evident in her actions. When she told everyone to be with Gayatri does not mean she don't require them. It was a nice gesture from her to think about Gayatri rather than herself. She has lived alone for most part of her past five years or so. So she thought she can manage all alone and won't require help, Also, she was not aware about the dressing time and all. You can say she was little over confident to think so but not arrogant. Though Naira said she don't want Akshara around but I am sure deep in her heart she wanted her mother to be around, when she was giving the most important exam of her life till date, we all do. Naira was there to fulfill her father's dream in his absence the only one who can take his place is her mother. She was cribbing, throwing tantrums and all like a child do in front of their parents. An adult can be child only in front of his/her parents, Naira was no different. She allowed Akshara to help her says it all. End of the day they are Mother-Daughter, the bond cannot be described in enough words.
Gayatri - I am watching YRKKH since beginning so can probably understand her life and predicaments more than the new viewers. When she was few years old, her father left her mother for some other woman. She has grown up without father figure in her early childhood as Naitik & his family was away in Cape town. When Naitik was back in India, she got closer to him but this didn't go down well with Naira who was not used to sharing her father's love and affection with anyone. Though Naira understood later on but still Gayatri had to let go that security of father figure. Then, when her mother remarried to Sameer. She was happy that finally her family was complete. But the fate had other plans. As we all know post leap that she lost both her parents. Naitik-Akshara has brought her up as their own daughter. She tried her best to fill the void which was created due to Naira's absence. She somewhere found her lost parents in them. They treated her like their daughter, gave her love, nice up bringing, good education and a secured environment. Which every child should be entitled too. Gayatri for all these years had no one to share this love, attention except for Duggu. She always wanted Naira to come back and Naitik-Akshara should unite with their daughter but she never thought how she will handle this sudden change in equations. She has no malice in her heart for Naira or Akshara for that matter. She is little insecure as she is seeing her world changing little by little which she had never thought about. She is not evil sister, who is planning and plotting. She is human after all and her emotions are going ups and down like a roller coaster ride.
I don't think she was completely wrong in what she said about her feeling for Akshara. If we keep our self in her shoes we will understand she wanted the most important person in her life to be closer to her at the time of her need. Though in normal circumstances she would have fixed the necklace in no time but reason for her to panic was more to do with Akshara being with Naira and not her. The incidents prelude to this like she saw Akshara praying for Naira, she spending most of her time with Naira though Naira never valued Akshara's presence played important part in her outburst in front of Kartik. Though she never said it loud in front of Akshara but she calls Akshara as "Maa" and not "Mami" in her mind. So she expects Akshara to be there with her always like all children do and their is nothing wrong in that. Anyone would feel hurt if the person who you value the most, love the most don't think you as a priority. It was more to do with the feeling of losing your mother/loved one again. Problem is Gayatri don't voice her opinion/feelings in her attempt to be good to all. She need to speak about her feelings and sense of emptiness with Akshara and everything would be sorted out.
Kartik - Kartik is a chilled out guy. So far he seems to be more sorted among the young generation. People think he got angry with Gayatri and never reacted to Naira was more due to his love for Naira. But I would like to differ, from my understanding it was more due to his knowledge about the history related to Akshara-Naira and Akshara-Gayatri relation. Kartik respect Akshara a lot and admire her as a good human being. He knew about the tension between Akshara-Naira. He knew they had a worst and painful past so there was some kind of reason/justification with the way Naira was behaving. Moreover, he don't know whether Naira would take his advice in a right way or not as they are not friends yet. But with Gayatri, he knew she was never treated badly or indifferent by Akshara. So as a friend he tried to give a friendly advice for her own betterment.
The moral of the story is everyone is right or wrong depends upon from where are you looking at.
No offence was intended at anyone...
Cheers
Asawari đđź
I am back again đ
As I introduced myself last time that I am Akshara/NaKsh/YRKKH fan, so my point of view will be most likely be inclined towards Akshara but I will try to be neutral and try to analyze the situation from everyone's perspective.
I would like to clear that, I don't think anyone is wrong in this situation. I understand a fans perspective also, Akshara's fans will see the situation from her side and same goes for Naira or Gayatri's fans. So it's Ok guys to have a different Point Of View and have healthy discussion rather than terming anything against ones Favourite Character as "NEGATIVITY". Just put forth your views rather than demeaning others views. Enough of Moral Policing đ
Akshara - She had a situation where she needed to be present at the same time at two different places. No matter how much godly Akshara is presented by the CV's (Hina calls herself female Krish jokingly đ ) but she is human after all. This situation arised cause Gayatri's exhibition got preponed, If not for that everything would have gone smoothly (but as its a show there needs to be some drama đ ) So Akshara thought she will manage both the events of her beloved daughters with her extra ordinary time management skill but god was having different plan. Lots of unexpected hurdles made it difficult for her to reach at Gayatri's exhibition before time. But She was there in time to be the show stopper. So finally, she was available for both Naira and Gayatri.
Now some would say, why she went to Naira's Dance competition when Naira clearly said she don't want anyone specially Akshara? If we think from Akshara's point of view, She is a mother ( actually that's enough a reason to be there for Naira) that too of child who was away from her for so many years. Naira was striving hard to fulfill Naitik's dream so it was double bonanza. Akshara still holds herself responsible for Naira's situation so there is guilt as well. If Naitik was available than probably Akshara would have taken a back seat but in his absence it was her responsibility as a Parent to be available for her child no matter how negatively she thinks about her. It happens with us as well no matter how much we fight with our mother but end of the day she will come with the food plate and make sure that we don't sleep hungry. She knows Naira well enough to understand that she wont be able to manage on her own. Why would she ask Varsha or any other lady of the house to help Naira when she herself is available to do so. She waited to fix Naira's duppatta as any other mother would when she saw her daughter in trouble.
Coming to Gayatri, Akshara knows her that she is mature and strong enough to manage situation. This is not her first exhibition, she has been in the business for some time. If not her than there were other members of the family to calm her down till the time Akshara reach the venue. From what I see, Akshara has more trust in Gayatri that she will manage crisis situation. She trust her ability to overcome hurdles as she sees herself in her. Also Gayatri claims lot of time that she is second coming of Akshara đ. We have to understand Naira is her daughter and Gayatri is like her daughter. Maternal instinct always over powers though unintentionally. Loving your daughter/son more than anyone else cannot be termed as selfish. I think it happens in most of the cases, an elder child is always taken for granted as parents think they will manage...đ
Naira - She is troubled child of the house. She has lived a life of orphan in spite having a whole village as a family đ. Jokes aside, she had a troubled childhood and teenage years, lot of it was self inflicted and some due to situation. But still she managed to live a dignified life. Developed a close knit bonds with the people she lived. She makes a lot of effort like Akshara to be on the right side always, their ways may be different but intentions are same. She is not rude and arrogant to people intentionally except her mother. She has trusting issues which is quite understandable and evident in her actions. When she told everyone to be with Gayatri does not mean she don't require them. It was a nice gesture from her to think about Gayatri rather than herself. She has lived alone for most part of her past five years or so. So she thought she can manage all alone and won't require help, Also, she was not aware about the dressing time and all. You can say she was little over confident to think so but not arrogant. Though Naira said she don't want Akshara around but I am sure deep in her heart she wanted her mother to be around, when she was giving the most important exam of her life till date, we all do. Naira was there to fulfill her father's dream in his absence the only one who can take his place is her mother. She was cribbing, throwing tantrums and all like a child do in front of their parents. An adult can be child only in front of his/her parents, Naira was no different. She allowed Akshara to help her says it all. End of the day they are Mother-Daughter, the bond cannot be described in enough words.
Gayatri - I am watching YRKKH since beginning so can probably understand her life and predicaments more than the new viewers. When she was few years old, her father left her mother for some other woman. She has grown up without father figure in her early childhood as Naitik & his family was away in Cape town. When Naitik was back in India, she got closer to him but this didn't go down well with Naira who was not used to sharing her father's love and affection with anyone. Though Naira understood later on but still Gayatri had to let go that security of father figure. Then, when her mother remarried to Sameer. She was happy that finally her family was complete. But the fate had other plans. As we all know post leap that she lost both her parents. Naitik-Akshara has brought her up as their own daughter. She tried her best to fill the void which was created due to Naira's absence. She somewhere found her lost parents in them. They treated her like their daughter, gave her love, nice up bringing, good education and a secured environment. Which every child should be entitled too. Gayatri for all these years had no one to share this love, attention except for Duggu. She always wanted Naira to come back and Naitik-Akshara should unite with their daughter but she never thought how she will handle this sudden change in equations. She has no malice in her heart for Naira or Akshara for that matter. She is little insecure as she is seeing her world changing little by little which she had never thought about. She is not evil sister, who is planning and plotting. She is human after all and her emotions are going ups and down like a roller coaster ride.
I don't think she was completely wrong in what she said about her feeling for Akshara. If we keep our self in her shoes we will understand she wanted the most important person in her life to be closer to her at the time of her need. Though in normal circumstances she would have fixed the necklace in no time but reason for her to panic was more to do with Akshara being with Naira and not her. The incidents prelude to this like she saw Akshara praying for Naira, she spending most of her time with Naira though Naira never valued Akshara's presence played important part in her outburst in front of Kartik. Though she never said it loud in front of Akshara but she calls Akshara as "Maa" and not "Mami" in her mind. So she expects Akshara to be there with her always like all children do and their is nothing wrong in that. Anyone would feel hurt if the person who you value the most, love the most don't think you as a priority. It was more to do with the feeling of losing your mother/loved one again. Problem is Gayatri don't voice her opinion/feelings in her attempt to be good to all. She need to speak about her feelings and sense of emptiness with Akshara and everything would be sorted out.
Kartik - Kartik is a chilled out guy. So far he seems to be more sorted among the young generation. People think he got angry with Gayatri and never reacted to Naira was more due to his love for Naira. But I would like to differ, from my understanding it was more due to his knowledge about the history related to Akshara-Naira and Akshara-Gayatri relation. Kartik respect Akshara a lot and admire her as a good human being. He knew about the tension between Akshara-Naira. He knew they had a worst and painful past so there was some kind of reason/justification with the way Naira was behaving. Moreover, he don't know whether Naira would take his advice in a right way or not as they are not friends yet. But with Gayatri, he knew she was never treated badly or indifferent by Akshara. So as a friend he tried to give a friendly advice for her own betterment.
The moral of the story is everyone is right or wrong depends upon from where are you looking at.
No offence was intended at anyone...
Cheers
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