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Posted: 9 years ago
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The mother knows truth abt her child, instead of making her self reliant, strong, independent, she marries of her child to someone who is not aware of her reality. If Rashmi Desai wanted to make it something very diff, she wld have shown a stronger mother. who fought for her child, moved heaven and earth for her child, so that her child cld have had atleast basic education.
and that same old marriage theme.

Reshmi Desai has turned marriage into some sort of joke, every time we hear experts say a boy and girl who r getting married to each other must be aware of each others personality, or hide nothing from each other. but then this is serial.

The central character of the show is made out to be so dumb dat she is not aware abt the Biology of her own body. But then is a Serial. Sensible thinking can never be expected in a serial. baki toh future mein hai

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Posted: 9 years ago
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nimmi didnt want her to marry
but that marriage happened by force she tried to stop but she couldnt

we cant blame her totally may be thats all she could do
even in real life ppl do mistakes but when u realize that its too late

and its a show it wont be perfect but we can learn from it

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeh sab toh thik hai but what does Rashmi Desai has to do with this show?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..yajnaseni..

Yeh sab toh thik hai but what does Rashmi Desai has to do with this show?

Exactly 😆😆 rashmi sharma hy woh 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dear it's Rashmi sharma not Reshmi Desai If I m not wrong you r talking about producer of show .She has history of bringing best concept and then make it worst at the end .SSK is worst show created on Indian TV.Talking about this showing the show story has become family drama where everyone is talking of SR and having babies.FL is not aware of her true indenity which is another stupid thing that person is not aware of her body till 21 when she has sister and mother . if we go by Rubina 's interview it is high time third gender should be respected and they shoud have their own idenity.But making a person identity doesn't means only marriage and childern.Astitav could be related to whom person chooses herself to become.These days when third gender ppl r making their in various professional field .Rashmi and colors r busy in showing nonsense.They could have shown third gender after knowing her identity fighting for his or her astitav and against all odd of society making her place instead of this mellodrama which looks like more Saas bahu drama This issue is really senstive I hope RS realise it and plz for god sake don't make it mess like SSk The show shuld take some tips for real stories like this-
http://m.indiatvnews.com/politics/national/shabnam-mausi-india-first-eunuch-hijra-politician-mla-inequality-18963.html. We want them to treated equally so these kind of examples will give social message ,inspiration and courage to society and their community too.Not saas bahu marriage drama.

Well I conclude my post saying Rubina have really chosen something different and for that salute to her ur role is quiet challenging than any other character on this show and other ongoing shows so far .Best wishes
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You have a point and I do agree with what you're trying to say. Few things about this show could have been better but yeah no show is flawless!

I think RS carrying the serial like this because she wants to show the emotional side of a kinnar life and circumstances based on reality!
I think in real life there are many mothers like Nimmi, only a few dares to fight against the world for her daughter and give her proper education! Especially in India where being a kinnar is a taboo let alone kinnar even talking about sex openly is considered a taboo! So for the sake of society they hid Soumya between 4 walls and never told her anything! Her upbringing is done blindly! That's the difference between a modern independent strong woman and a emotional majboor mother like Nimmi.

If Nimmi was independent strong she would have never stayed with Maninder instead left home and took her daughters with her! But she didn't do this (eventhough she tried many times but failed).

So the audience especially elders (TRP aunties) aren't ready to see a strong independent mother taking care of her daughter! Because nowhere in India that happens so easily! Many kill the baby right after they're born, they send their daughter to kinnars community and they disown her etc etc Women have so much responsibilities in their life that sometimes they endup making weak illogical decisions (Nimmi for not giving proper education to Somu just so she can hide her at home to avoid society talks).

Watch Sarbjit movie! Oumang Kumar could've easily made this movie like Mary Kom about a strong woman!
But he made Sarbjit in a way that it has lots of emotions drama and sensitivity to show us the pain of real Sarabjit and his Sister Dalbir! This way Shakti is happening RS want the viewers to have sympathy for kinnars!
This cannot happen if it wasn't done with so much emotions and drama! Serials like this can never be made from a modern point of view and direct to the point! It has to show the sides of both world. Otherwise audience can never feel for the kinnars! That's the main aim of this show! RS wants audience to feel sorry for kinnars have sympathy for them and give them equal rights and respect they deserve like common people!

I just hope they improve the story and handle it with care! 👍🏼



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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is an intriguing concept -this unawareness that Soumya has.
We take our idea of normal or abnormal from the society.
In a world full of hermaphrodites,would someone with normal sexual organs be abnormal?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have the same point. How come the girl who is completely grown up does not know her own biology. Hermaphrodite (intermediate gender, or sex organ is not defined) does not have monthly cycle, she is going to marry and she is not aware of that fact? Strange!!!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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plot of story is wrong. soumya doesnt look transgender she looks like girl only. and she behaves as girl.
makers should study first and then bring such kind of drama.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all its rashmi sharma...rashmi desai is an actress ...i agree somewhat on somya not knowing herself or if anything different in her body than her sister or mother...but this is a show n they r showing reality in some ways...though its also not flawless but many emotions and feelings and societal norms r related to this sensitive subject and they donot wanna offend anyone

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