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Posted: 9 years ago

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It was an awesome episode

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

From my pov, he looks simple & straight forward who is currently living in his happy bubble. Dev thinks his mom will be with him in all his decisions & Eshwari thinks i know my son in & out very well. Firstly they need a blow badly to come out from their bubbles and to see the reality. I am eagerly looking forward to see Dev's reactions in the future track. From their initial promos, i always felt there wont be any confrontation/confession scene between Dev & Eshwari about Dev-Sona realtion. But without bringing out their relation before her how he will understand the gravity of Eshwari's unhappiness towards their relation. Seeing the attachment between their souls, any of them thinking of separation wont be a small thing. There should be a really strong reason to think about that extreme step.

Neha..Such a interesting character. I respect her for the way she brought up Rhea & Nikki so well & the way she supported Rhea when she want to take up job. I am sure in future she will be a very good mother. From starting, i felt her problem is not with the materialistic things, it was more to do with the lack of identification & acknowledgment of her efforts in their journey. I can understand dev here because he is always devoted & dutiful son/brother towards his family & he himself never felt that he did something great for his family. But i really can't support Eshwari here for her biased nature.

Coming to Dev-Neha-Ranveer, the last proper personal conversation Dev-Neha had was about her request to Dev to make Ranveer rich. I think dev is still going by those words. He may be very good in understanding his sisters needs but as we all know how good he is when it comes to understanding their emotional needs( i really liked his baby steps in Dev-Rhea-Nikki icecream convo). At the same time, i am expecting Neha to convey/assure her brother about her trust on Ranveer(if she really trust him) so that Dev can relax from his guilt. He really need to give Ranveer some time and Ranveer needs to show in actions instead of just saying trust me & i will make everything right mantra all the time.
Dev & Ranveer both are very good at promising their partners but lets wait & see how much they will live up to their promises. 😊

Not a great fan of Neha character but I can understand her stand and would want to see her growing 😊... While Ishwari acknowledges Dev as the pillar of the family she fails to acknowledge the same about Neha🤔.. That's Ishwari's shortcoming and no two way about that... Biased for what - I can't say anything about it unless there is a clear flashback about what made Ishwari take that decision... Till then I am not going there...

I've seen parents who are biased and have their own favoritism... I myself have many times felt that I am the least favorite child to my parents among the 5 kids that they have 😆... Sure it brings out the rebel in you.. But using it in the right way is a choice that any one can make... What I really don't relate to her is the way she puts herself down in acknowledging her own contributions... She only cribs about not being recognized and has never acknowledged others' contributions as well... So she's been ignored as a whining kid.. Just like Radharani... Neha has beautiful little sisters for whom she's everything and they come running to her for anything🤗... I don't thnk Neha hates them... But sure she had hated her role with them... Unknowingly she had mothered these kids and for her own reasons she never wanted to be proud about herself in doing that🤔!!! She refused to grow from where she is... Hoping to see her learning curve and her journey progressing without further depressing taking down Ranveer as well...👍🏼

Ishwari is consciously aware that she has not given the due attention to Neha🥱.. The halwa that she made for Dev with great efforts and didn't even bothering to include Neha in that party, is a very simple evidence about it... Is Dev liking to enjoy all the attention to himself? Or is Dev now getting into the zone where he thinks that Ishwari will never be able fill the void that Neha has created in herself.. And Ishwari's way of telling and doing things are not going to help Neha and not in alignment with the goodwill for Neha😕..

That's what he must have seen and he believes from Neha's point of view.. And may be that's the truth too... Now that he has the ability to take care of his sister in a way that she wants to be taken care, he's trying all that he could.. Yes, he need not jump into his own conclusions about what Neha needs/wants... But he is only going with his own instinct... He himself knows that he may be wrong.. Now it's not too late for him create a connect with his sister and get to know her without being shadowed by Ishwari... Even when Neha came home to her room, he wanted to strike a convo with her.. But Neha wanted to be left alone in the solace of her comfort zone... Hope there will be a next time and Dev will succeed in breaking the ice between them and get to know what she thinks...😊

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...
Such a good read 😳 And what a lovely episode.

Loved how they showcased the extremities in a mother & child relationship here. Asha is a mother who is open to the fact that her daughter is wise enough to make/take decisions on her own. Whereas, Ishwari still needed to control her bechara son's decision making ability.😕 Thank god, on the professional side, Dev had a sane mind. But if you think of it...Asha falls under the league of mothers, who must have encouraged the 'letting her' aspect in her child. Letting her choose things, letting her make friends, letting her play the games she wanted, letting her bond with her brother & cousin and letting her have a love relationship. Where as in Ishwari's case, if you remember, there was this flashback scene, when Dev was playing football with his friends, and she was upset that he wasn't studying, so she intentionally broke a vase so that she would get yelled by her employer & that would get his attention. She manipulatively got his sympathy. And Dev like an obedient child went back to study. I understand it was the situation which forced her to behave like that.. but at the same time she robbed him of so many things. Even Neha said that Ishwari would never let her daughters come between the mother & son. Ahhh...Sona had such a lovely bond with her mother... 😳

So agree with this The more the mother holds back the reigns the more the children try to run away from it.. Waiting to see how Dev is going to create that space between him & his mother...🤔 If Ishwari & Dev are going to be the same way they are, then there's no room for a third person in their lives at all. And Dev can forget having a relationship with Sona or any other girl..

Oh, that good morning Auntij scene was so good...waiting to see if that scene continues into today's episode. 🤪

One of the best things about Sona is that she doesn't pester too much. Loved how she gave him his space. Share if you want to or else leave it. Love the openness that she has towards this relationship...

Exactly.. Ishwari wasn't in the luxury to 'let' them do for fear of letting them make mistakes which could mean very costly to their survival!!! She must have had the need to prove herself for some reason to come up and fight through the evils of her life... And she had to make it all about herself... That's the sad part... And she must have even struggled through the 'mom' vs 'woman' challenges... She must have had to make hard choices to achieve great things.. And must have missed the small things in that process... She's stuck there... Not wanting to move on... And any change might mean she losing her basement which she thinks is her strength to hold her motherhood and womanhood intact!!!🤔 I really hope the writers have a proper story backdrop for Ishwari and not corner her to be a regular woman with insecurities...

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