Apprehensive about the upcoming Pooja

Yup..let's just wait and see..

Yup..let's just wait and see..

Right now we have no clue that he is atheist or he is angry with God..we can't judge epi..plus we don't even know why he will sit in Puja..we need to wait and watch...having no religious belief ..or having anger and betrayed feel from super power is different...sp let's wait for epi..because we don't know why in first place Dev is not interested on god

Originally posted by: GoodyTwoShoes

Right now we have no clue that he is atheist or he is angry with God..we can't judge epi..plus we don't even know why he will sit in Puja..we need to wait and watch...having no religious belief ..or having anger and betrayed feel from super power is different...sp let's wait for epi..because we don't know why in first place Dev is not interested on god

As we have already seen Ishwari is no good when it comes to convincing or making her children's understand the value of rituals, take example of Neha. She rather forces her belief's on others without considering the person in front might have an valid opinion/reasoning/a story behind, about it. Ya she opts for emotional blackmailing when it comes to Dev, though it doesn't work on someone like Neha since she knew Ishwari to the core.

Also, sitting in the Puja doesn't make a person atheist. You are right no one changes their belief's in a day or two and I believe cv's had before n even now would keep things realistic in the show. That's why our KRPKAB is different.

A person might just do it for it would make his close ones happy for the day and we know Dev would do anything for his family. Perhaps Sona made him understand in a better way. I wouldn't call it convincing him but making one understand what one could do without changing ones belief or hurting others is important here. Remember Sona never forces her opinion on anyone but gives it as a suggestion with logic n patience which Ishwari lacks. Moreover Sona's view doesn't change from person to person like Ishwari's does. So what Sona says has more substance.

A change in perspective, a different approach, situations presented in different light... Are usually why people generally go ahead and do things they would otherwise not do. This is how when people debate or want to reach a conclusion over something talk and dicuss... Showing a different perspective which the person may not have thought of does the trick... No matter how old the problem is... If we r able to see how and why the other opinion is good I don't think anyone takes time to abide by it.
The CVS have already done this earlier... Dev was opposed to his mom's fasting... During the Gujrat deal she kept a fast and hid it from him... Sona not only went ahead and told Dev that his mom was fasting and that he should let her.. He got angry so she just said to him this was a way of his mom of being connected to him... To be able to do something for him coz now he is grown up and she can't tend to him like a young child so he should let her do what's in her hands still for him... And Dev complied... I don't see anything V drastic that took him to get convinced then but sona showed him a different perspective of looking at the same issue. The outcome was Ishwari cd keep a fast for him... Let's just wait and watch what the CVS want to show us... But it is not going to be some path breaking thing for sure... Just a different approach.. That's all.

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

A change in perspective, a different approach, situations presented in different light... Are usually why people generally go ahead and do things they would otherwise not do. This is how when people debate or want to reach a conclusion over something talk and dicuss... Showing a different perspective which the person may not have thought of does the trick... No matter how old the problem is... If we r able to see how and why the other opinion is good I don't think anyone takes time to abide by it.
The CVS have already done this earlier... Dev was opposed to his mom's fasting... During the Gujrat deal she kept a fast and hid it from him... Sona not only went ahead and told Dev that his mom was fasting and that he should let her.. He got angry so she just said to him this was a way of his mom of being connected to him... To be able to do something for him coz now he is grown up and she can't tend to him like a young child so he should let her do what's in her hands still for him... And Dev complied... I don't see anything V drastic that took him to get convinced then but sona showed him a different perspective of looking at the same issue. The outcome was Ishwari cd keep a fast for him... Let's just wait and watch what the CVS want to show us... But it is not going to be some path breaking thing for sure... Just a different approach.. That's all.

Even if it's just too sit there not actually start believing, it won't matter. Ishwari was asking for the same for years..-

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Even if it's just too sit there not actually start believing, it won't matter. Ishwari was asking for the same for years..-

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Hey can't u put across ur view without being sarcastic??? Are any of us being sarcastic even though we don't agree on all that we r discussing . I can understand u have different views and u shall share them but why always so so sarcastic... The makers won't go as per any of our wishes whether we like it or not... We can think as much as we want... It's not gonna change a thing.