Hypocrisy

Today all are bashing Shivaay but no one bashed Anika for what she did previously.

Originally posted by: Dia33mahanta

Today all are bashing Shivaay but no one bashed Anika for what she did previously.

1 She broke his car windshield. Seriously if he is rich doesn't mean you will keep damaging his property just because he can easily afford another one.

2 She threw gobar at his car. They were just verbally arguing. I find this very offensive. If I was in Shivaay's place i would have definitely landed her 5-6 slaps.

3 She threw water at his face when Shivaay called her brother apahij. What Shivaay did was wrong. She could have scolded him but no she was women handling

4 Also Shivaay was beating the news reporter or whatever. Is this not wrong.

5 Anika pushed Shivaay first then Shivaay followed

Shivaay alo did same things with her but in his own way. When she cannot behave decently i see no reason why shivaay should. Both are equally abusing each other. If Shivaay is man handling Anika is no less

Originally posted by: Dia33mahanta

Today all are bashing Shivaay but no one bashed Anika for what she did previously.

1 She broke his car windshield. Seriously if he is rich doesn't mean you will keep damaging his property just because he can easily afford another one.

2 She threw gobar at his car. They were just verbally arguing. I find this very offensive. If I was in Shivaay's place i would have definitely landed her 5-6 slaps.

3 She threw water at his face when Shivaay called her brother apahij. What Shivaay did was wrong. She could have scolded him but no she was women handling

4 Also Shivaay was beating the news reporter or whatever. Is this not wrong.

5 Anika pushed Shivaay first then Shivaay followed

Shivaay alo did same things with her but in his own way. When she cannot behave decently i see no reason why shivaay should. Both are equally abusing each other. If Shivaay is man handling Anika is no less

It's not the manhandling that most of us have problem with, it's the equating it to romance or making it the path to romance that most of us have problem with.
For once I am glad the heroine is giving back what she gets, be it windshield/cow dung/ gaaliya. No complaints there. But please do not play the romantic bgm for the scene. Most sane women or men do not fall in love with people who previously manhandled (or woman handled) them.
Also I think why most of us are fine tuned towards Anika is because technically she is on the right side. Shivaay is using his power to get anything done not minding what happens in the way or what collateral damage occurs. He does not believe her simply because she is middle class. That kind of irks many here including me.

It's not the manhandling that most of us have problem with, it's the equating it to romance or making it the path to romance that most of us have problem with.
For once I am glad the heroine is giving back what she gets, be it windshield/cow dung/ gaaliya. No complaints there. But please do not play the romantic bgm for the scene. Most sane women or men do not fall in love with people who previously manhandled (or woman handled) them.
Also I think why most of us are fine tuned towards Anika is because technically she is on the right side. Shivaay is using his power to get anything done not minding what happens in the way or what collateral damage occurs. He does not believe her simply because she is middle class. That kind of irks many here including me.

Ya i also don't want any romance. I want to see pure hatred from both sides. And Anika being technically right doesn't give her right to do anything she wants. And Shivaay use of power and money is what really rich people do. The difference is he will change where in real life these people remain same

How does any of this amount to man-handling other than perhaps number 5? Just because someone isn't behaving ''decently'' with you, it doesn't mean you can go around slapping them or twisting their hand. Anika's actions are immature that don't amount to physically hurting someone but what Shivaay did is absolutely wrong and disgusting.[/DIV]
So when do people slap any person. I dont think Anika has done less to him. First point try this with anyone you will end up in jail.. In real world 2 and 3rd will really frustrate any person to a extent that they may physically assault you. It really depends on the psychology of person.

Originally posted by: Dia33mahanta

So when do people slap any person. I dont think Anika has done less to him. First point try this with anyone you will end up in jail.. In real world 2 and 3rd will really frustrate any person to a extent that they may physically assault you. It really depends on the psychology of person.

Originally posted by: Nym.

But one can surely judge whether it's right or wrong without needing any insight.

Ya.. These things are purely done to take story forward with good trp. I don't want it to be turned into a saas bahu saga due to low trp.

Originally posted by: Cshafkat

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3" color="#ff3300">I dont understand why these people are bashing Shivaay! It's Anika's fault for starting everything in the first place and obviously Shivaay would insult an idiotic woman who shows him attitude despite being lower in status. Anyone would behave the way Shivaay behaves with Anika. In fact I believe Shivaay is way too generous. After all that she did to him, he should shut down her canteen business or do something that makes her cry very badly!!</font>

Ya exactly thats what I was trying to say. Anika started it first. Both are equally abusing each other. So its not fair to bash only Shivaay just because he should behave nicely with Anika just because she is a girl. When Anika did the wrong things first everyone was enjoying saying uff anika's temper... Bechara car.. Whatever

good post