IKRS Friday 8th July 2016 ep 299 My Take ~ Coughing up the answers!
We live in times where as law abiding citizens we are accounted for the purpose of statistics. We are also required to share personal details and information for a wide range of reasons. Over all we belong to a new age culture which promotes our desire readily to disseminate, cascade or share personal information with friends and family on networking sites. The intent is to keep bonds and connections strong. This stems from our need to be curious and thus update both others and ourselves about what's going around. In doing so, many people feel socially accepted but the bottom line is that it's in an individual hands alone how much information they are prepared to give and when and to ? The episode highlights making known information that has a bearing on one's life. It's about letting go off past trauma's, moving on.. and if granted a chance, making amends for past mistakes. Its about two women a mother and daughter withdrawing vital information from their child. for some information transcends the law, societies obligations , and becomes a moral obligation.. A child's right to its father !
Striking an old connection, will it create a spark? Dhani was and still is Viplav's most desired burden.. A piece of paper cannot alter that. She hurts he can sense it, as he drives her away from her fathers house. Speak to me my love.. he had said he will be there for her and he stands by it. Maybe he needs to break up her silent sorrow..Dhani, where blood ties exist, a sense of connection comes naturally..There is an affinity here that Viplav feels, as he himself felt that way when he first saw Vidha . he wants to know if Dhani could sense any such connection as a child that he was her father? Dhani recalls allergic reaction to spray, touching his feet quite naturally.. receiving blessings from him.. Dhani sobs she's not sure if he is or not her father? all she can think is his face, eyes ,his mannerisms made her feel emotional , like there is some bond between him and her..for the first tme in life she felt like someone provided a shade for her on a scorching day! But Dhani only muses silently . How can she tell Viplav that today she felt a strange kind of tranquillity. Viplav had hoped that she would share her feelings with him, she always did in the past..But her silent weeping tells Viplav whether he accepts it or not something sharp happened between them five years ago that now makes him into a stranger for her. He has a sense of rejection. Wish he knew why ? but she clearly holds whatever it is, against him.But for the minute he has to respect her reluctance to confide in him.
The rain once again gives them both a reason to somewhat extend their sentimental interaction. He fancies a cuppa tea at a well known wayside tea stall.. he concludes, she too certainly could do with lifting her low spirits with a relaxing cup of chai..the tea stall arrives, orders placed, Dhani ducks from the rain!seeks cover! he tries to lighten things since when has she begun to avoid rain? Well times change.. she wants to reply.. but instead Dhani quips she knows this place as Vidha came with her and played about.. only seems yesterday.. The passing of time is sensed.. Viplav picks on the association , Vidha as a little girl brought up without a father.. connects it to Dhani as a little girl who too missed out on being brought up her father..
Viplav is blessed by the gods to come across this situation of uniting Kashyup with Dhani for it will have an impact on his own personal case of getting ownership of his fatherhood! Identification is the key to getting through to Dhani ,Viplav reasons with her and echoes his own sentiments, reflects , it's hard to accept a person whom one assumes as nonexistent suddenly turn up as real! He possibly refers to Vidha.. it caused him joy ,but also a degree of pain as Dhani kept her existence from him! He outlines the possibility of Dhani being proactive in getting her parents together.. such is Viplav's positive pragmatism.. tells her, the strategy would be Dhani works on her mother and he'll work on Anushman kashyap, this way Viplav keeps the colors of their Ishq deep ,vibrant and lasting..working as a couple with Dhani! Dhani confides in Viplav. It will be far form easy to speak to her mother as she's not sure why her parents in separated? But Viplav applies her parents separation to his situation where Dhani deprived him from his flower fairy! tells her about the time he yearns to cuddle his daughter and cannot.. due to their separation..then the crucial question she can feel coming! comes.. why did she leave him??
The question is easy to answer but Kamini's manipulative words singe and smolder Dhani and to cool off she ventures forth in the rain! stands before the bumper of his car! Five years ago he had stood by his jeep before Maata's temple and given his verdict about their marriage.. end off!! and today..here she is before his car ready to face him again! the rain cools her.. Viplav follows her, pleads to hear the answer why did she leave him..? he hurts today to find out answers, like she does as she wants answers about her father... tell him! he begs her his desperation seen.. suddenly! Dhani feels herself scream her whole existence away at him! Her wounded heart and spirit accuse him of cheating her! her own eyes found him in kamini's arms! She didn't need anyone manipulating her.. she could see! he betrayed her trust! That's why she left him never to return him!!.. the rain soaks them..and the moment flows away like water.. as Dhani s spirit never really verbalized.. nor did Viplav hear her answer! Dhani holds her piece so Viplav can return to his wife and son.. thus committing a wrong against her own child Vidha..what manner of righteousness is this??
Dhani has no sense of guilt, let Viplav prove himself right! and she refuses to reply to his question..her goodness again takes the better of her! her lofty ideals want him to return to his wife and child. Viplav backs off! but still wants her to ask her mother.. Dhani pushes his efforts, bids him to keep away from matters that are personal to her..besides her mother never referred to her father, its pointless to churn up issues that will distress her mother. But Viplav is not one to throw arms and he badgers Dhani she needs to find out the issues that cause her maai stress so he can try to alleviate her problems.. he needs to know what made her live like a widow whilst her husband is alive?Viplav is clearly trying to win back his lost trust back with Dhani too..but Dhani walks away with too much on her plate! But it's not going to stop him from getting answers both from her and her mother, he'll break Dhani's stubbornness with his own! He vows!
Walking on eggs shells! Dhani returns home.. its going to be hard asking her mother about her father.. Viplav as promised does turn up as her back up if she runs out of spirit. Dhani decides to begin with her fathers picture.. wants to know who the man is? Dulari suddenly feels trapped and seeks to play on the defensive! feels her privacy is encroached .. her personal belongings have rummaged through!after being defensive she lashes in anger at her daughter ,gives Dhani the guilt trip ,she never asked her what happened between her and Viplav!than why is Dhani asking her questions? But Viplav supports Dhani,her asking questions is no mistake on her part as it was his idea to bring up the subject! In answer to that dulari snubs him , and she certainly will not be answerable to outsiders.. Viplav is far from offended.. he can only see it as great anxiety that is causing kaki to be abrasive! Like a trapped animal she begins to break down! why should she answer questions about one who is dead for her! Dhani challenges her mother! why is she calling him dead ? dulari's insecurity kicks in!why all these questions now? Besides she won't reply. Dulari screams and pays Dhani by the same coin! Why should she answer, when she can't give an answer to Viplav's question!! Dhani looks at Viplav and clamps up for the moment.. But Viplav is a good man at heart, as much as he wants Dhani to give him an answer for their separation, he genuinely believes in setting things right with Dhani and dulari too. He sees them wronged, wants to know as much as he can to assist them gain what is right fully theirs..as such he humbly apologizes for what dulario and Dhani see as their internal familial affairs..but still maintains to kaki ,that every child has a right to know about its father. He asks Dulari it baffles him ,that whilst her husband is alive , she dons the grab of a widow..what could be the reason? Dulari finally breaks down! reveals it was no easy ordeal for her to go through. She appeals to Viplav, for a woman, one of the most debilitating thing is to face the ugly truth that her husband is unfaithful to her! yes she screams and visibly hides her face in shame! She is woman whose trust has been betrayed! Betrayal is enough to sever relations and shatter a marriage! Dhani and Viplav are terribly hurt. Dhani hugs her mother and Viplav's flower fairy comes in the room presses herself against nanny! Somehow.. dulari feels her strength return.. Viplav watches his flower fairy in the middle of a mother and daughter..Vidha is the bond of reconciliation! always a message of good will and love.. Viplav' s eyes well up and his heart swells with pride for his flesh and blood! like him, his daughter too is into reuniting people, mending broken hearts... Viplav vows, he will bring Anshuman Kashyab back into Dhani and Dulari lives..
The most hyped up scene turns about to be imaginary.. Viplav has a great opportunity to voice off many of his fears. The episode to me belonged to dulari. It was a tough scene, being quizzed by he daughter and Viplav too! Although Viplav and Dhani seem cruel and heartless in their interrogation.. at least they got an answer from Dulari.. but Viplav meanwhile waits for his answer.. never mind as long as he gets to interact with his dhani and flower fairy! both mother and daughter have husbands who are two timing and disloyal! Mishal, Sanjeeda , garima were great hamlet53, 9. 7.16
Precap: Anshuman visits Dhani's shop orders a bouquet.. pays ,Dhani refuses the money, he tells her she can't be giving freebies.. she'll incur losses. Dhani replies he called her daughter that's enough remuneration..
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