IKRS Tuesday 5th July 2016 ep 296 My Take ~ the beauty turns into the beast
Too much self righteousness, sometimes taints a persons ability to focus upon the people around them.There is is thin life between fighting for a good cause and becoming militant and baised.There is danger of being compartmentalized in mind set and instead of standing up for the right issue one might end up with a tunnel vision where in one is likely to impose one's own will upon others without giving them a choice or an option. It's called becoming rigid , without taking into account others needs and being totally immersed in personalized stance. For the first righteousness god wants human's is serve their family with commitment , dedication and faithfulness. During the present track Dhani is surrounded with moral issues of doing the right thing. She is concerned more about giving joy to others, which is an admirable thing to do , but so intense is this sense of goodness in her ,that she fails to see that she may be doing great disservice to her immediate family, her child vidha.. denying her the knowledge that the child's father is none other than demon uncle! towards whom the little girl has formed a natural affinity with .. which is growing..
For Parshiya to lose Dhani as a friend , mentor love interest matters a great deal. He is aware, perhaps he reacted badly to Viplav coming to stay here. Hence his justifications to Dhani , she may be to a bit too nave when it comes to Viplav, wants her to know, and see to it the guy doesn't take her be a mug! He wants her to confront Viplav .To me it's yet again parshiya in a roundabout way appealing to Dhani to share what really occurred between Viplav and her.Far from that, what's in Dhani's heart stays there festering! Instead confesses, the greater cause that matters to her, ensure she is not the cause of messing Kamini and Atharva's life. Parshiya also wants reassurance , how things fare between her and Viplav, and lucky for him when Dhani tells him Viplav being here in the ghetto matters not the least bit to her she'll pretend Viplav's not here!.But Parshiya,has to do his potential suitor bit! woos Dhani by warning her if Viplav makes her cry! he'll regret it!!
On his crusade against vice the knight as expected is spurned by his lady love! The flower queen. But her subjects mostly ladies folk as they are home managers, turn up to offer settling in assistance to the dashing young suave knight! Once more he is empowered by the faith this vulnerable community has in him , by calling him their protector! He is touched by the neighborly generosity of the humble ghetto ladies. To sooth his wounds given by Dhani, sneaks in the first lady of his life too! his flower fairy! Ahh yes.. a daughters concern for her dad! She hasn't given him anything.. well what would the father of this gorgeous lady like? he goes to her level and asks from her that he used to beg her mother for, five years ago! A kisss! Vidha with all the love in the world for him, plants a smooch on his stubble cheek! Ahhh.. her kiss restores life in his wounded spirit, he becomes whole again and tells her , hers is the best gift he got today! But Vidha being a child associates giving her demon uncle something to mean an article that can be seen as others have done! Intelligent as she is , she suggests bringing him a plate and spoon! But as a sensible father he doesn't mind, as long as she asks her mums permission first !he explains half jokingly though, for if she doesn't than her mum will tell her off, plus she'll drag him into the matter too! Vidha covers up for her mother, her mum's very generous she gives stuff to every one! With deep bitterness , vilplav replies under his breath ,but he is excluded from the category of every one. There is clearly hurt in him for Dhani reducing him into a nobody ! and why she hates him he fails to understand Viplav muses, as the little lady slips away and goes home!
The clatter and bang! between mother and daughter! Vidha is a determined young lady like her mum. Knows what she wants, reaches above her head for the metal thalli! it crashes down on the floor , a foreboding that altercation is about to transpire between Dhani and vidha! Dhani runs to her child, checks if her child is hurt... Dhani needs to handle this impressionable age daughters of hers with care as it is, Dhani was sharp with her this morning! Once thing is clear the run in between her and vidha revolved round Viplav! Seems it'll be Viplav again who'll create sparks between vidha and Dhani! Yet again..but Dhani knows she is the mum , not Vidha ,thus she has the reins in her hand. So when vidha says she wants to give demon uncle a plate and spoon, also he said ask your mum's permission! Dhani gathers, now this is another opportunity for her to, show him how angry she feels at him so she tells Vidha! Did he now? well in that case she says spitefully , she will not give Vidha the permission!! She brushes it aside , Vidha needn't worry someone will provide that for him too! Vidha tries to make sense of the usual impression ,that her mum helps every one ,then why not demon uncle? Beside how is expected to eat? Dhani admonishes her, and diverts the children by asking her to learn her x tables ! Dhani will have to face the fact ,that her daughter is not an infant any more. She is fast progressing into a clued on child. She notices things being said and done around her, and is likely to question Dhani if she finds discrepancies between what is instructed and what is done! A battle of wills happens between Dhani and the flower fairy who goes into a strop when her mother wants her to learn her tables loudly and she shouts instead! Dhani obsessed with Viplav being in her face ,begins to scold Vidha for being down right rude! and there is no need for that! things get worse as Vidha tells her mother straight she doesn't want to study! Then challenges Dhani , why does she teach her to help others when she won't let her help demon uncle? how sincere children are, how easily they make known the reason for their anger! As Vidha does , but in comparison Dhani fumes against Viplav but bottles it up ,instead takes it out on other people! In this case her daughter! Children are hyper sensitive to atmosphere and emulate adult behavior!so Vidha does too, chucks her book on the floor!dhani stands to nearly strike her! Dulari intervenes and calms Vidha down.. tells her to respect the muse of knowledge ... children are always willing to try other options.. her mother refused so she taps her nanny's affection.. tells her, she promised demon uncle that she would get him a plate and spoon! But her mum won't let her but not before Dulari points the child's mistake to her tells the flower fairy to say sorry to both the book and her mum! Vidha does and her moms heart softens..
Dhani goes to the kitchen, with the intent she will send the plate and spoon.. doesn't want her flower fairy to feel that she breaks a promise given to.. Dhani looks at the metal plate, its shine mirrors her face.. her as Vidha's mother, but in the next instance she sees the person ,Viplav too! the person who is the man Vidha wants the plate for! The plate stands between Viplav and herself as a good will gesture! Which in actual fact their little flower Vidha is making... why is the color of Ishq so hard sometimes.. my beloved weeps Dhani..five years ago they would eat from the one plate, feed each other.. but he ended it all! Dhani sobs silently.. best no one sees her tears, what she feels, a scorned woman.. she sobs, why can't he see ,she feels having him here before ! why can't he see she's learnt to survive on his own! He needs to go back to his wife and child and let her get on with her life, she weeps, and relieves herself off her emotional wounds at then goes back to Vidha and gives her the plate and spoon, and tells Vidha to return immediately . Children love to have their own way and test the limits with adults so flower fairy says asks could she stay with him for five minutes! Dhani gives her the look! and Vidha lowers the time one minute! well Dhani gives in and Dulari can't keep a straight face!try as Dhani may, she cannot separate blood from blood! the bond is beyond explanation.
Dhani like a good parent watches her child go to her demon uncle's house and fulfill her promise.. but Dhani to her disbelief through the ajar door Dhani catches sight of Viplav's broken promises! Interestingly enough Viplav catches sight of a prying Dhani..Well! concludes Dhani, not before her daughter!!he will fornicate! Dhani marches over! demands for her daughter to come out! orders Vidha to go home who complains why is she being asked to leave's? hardly got a minute to spend with monster uncle! But Viplav wonders what's got into Dhani ? who barges in accuses him he can do whatever he likes! but not before her daughter! that he is shameless Viplav tells her to shut up !explains the lady present is Riya an architect from the builders who was unaware that the builders were demolishing the ghettos homes. Dhani feels a complete fool and worse still! when the architect asks Dhani is she was Viplav's wife.. for Viplav the answer would always be yes and for Dhani by the looks of things the answer would always be a no!she sneers no his wife and child are at banaras! Once his business is over Viplav goes down memory lane with his beloved teases her is she jealous seeing him with another with another woman? some things don't change not even in five years she was always a jealous hen when she saw him with other girls! Viplav wants to remind her of past times to strike a emotional reunion with her.. but Dhani has a residue of bitterness in her hurt and keeping what he did to her in the past kamini FB.. she calls him a man without character! For whom she cares not for one bit ! and he is welcome to lead his life as he pleases and she storms out. Viplav will not stand for her accusation! He kept her alive for five years in his life only and only loved her! he goes after her in the street and demands an explanation from her why she calls him immoral? Dhani throws it back in his face! He'd better ask himself that question? he made the same mistake five years ago! he'll have his answer and she storms off back into her house! Viplav full of rage wants to follow her , he certainly wanted his answer why she called him characterless! Dhani's other knight in shining arm accosts Viplav, warns him to back off or else! he'll regret.. but Viplav never had anything against Parshiya ..the man supported Dhani and Vidha over the years.. besides Viplav is here in the ghetto to win a law suit.. but it's hard not to win her back! muses Viplav and drives off..walks away.
It's like Viplav comes across a similar situation where a wife /mother fails to tell her daughter about her father too..in fact keep both mum about.. a collision with a man , a drop of the stranger's wallet shows Viplav a photo of young woman seemed familiar.. back at home Vidha is doing a home work assignment of make your family ..the tree has a mind map of family members with their pictures.. the flower fairy looks at a black white picture of a young dulari calls her pretty .. dulari shares with Dhani ,it was taken when she was expecting her.. admits her mistake could never tell her father, and he too never bothered to find out.. but she feels that Dhani due to that was denied of her fathers love.. Dhani empowers her mother and tells her the truth that it was only her that she knew both as father and mother rolled into one..dulari points out to Dhani the importance of both a mother and a father in a child's life.. she is desperate that Dhani takes on board the mistake that her mother once made.. Dhani may not take it seriously.. but seeing her daughters family tree mind map certainly renders her speechless her vidhu includes her demon uncle in her family .. Dhani sees the beauty in what her flower fairy draws.. Dhani will have to do something about the beast in her.. hamlet53 7 .7.16
Eid mubarak to all.. tuesday's episode is late because I was busy with family.. much love hammie
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