Why boys become spineless when it comes to marriage demands in India

Why in Indian TV they show boys as spineless when it comes to marriage proposal and demands?

Ya, its kind of indirect dowry.

Cause boys lack spine when it comes to opposing their mothers 🤢 m
It's one thing common all over India

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

Cause boys lack spine when it comes to opposing their mothers 🤢 m
It's one thing common all over India

Agreed

Well, I know it's strange but even i wud not like my brother to marry a girl whom my mom doesn't like...not that she might not be good...but coz i won't want my family to be fighting all the times...But mothers in General need to become a little less possessive about their boys...Goddamm...You are his mother and there's definitely a place for an another woman in is life that is definitely or most commonly not be similar to you...Your son is a man..not a kid anymore...kaun samjhaye hamari maaon ko ki unke laal peele puttarjis are not that innocent as they behave in front of them😆

Originally posted by: HayemeraSarun

Well, I know it's strange but even i wud not like my brother to marry a girl whom my mom doesn't like...not that she might not be good...but coz i won't want my family to be fighting all the times...But mothers in General need to become a little less possessive about their boys...Goddamm...You are his mother and there's definitely a place for an another woman in is life that is definitely or most commonly not be similar to you...Your son is a man..not a kid anymore...kaun samjhaye hamari maaon ko ki unke laal peele puttarjis are not that innocent as they behave in front of them😆

Honestly men lack the spine when it comes to tackling family issues. They just wanna run from family problems. 90% of men want to marry for just one thing - The Girl (and ofcourse the perks that come along...sex, company and kids) Baki sab jaye bhaad mein. They forget that parents, both your and a girl's are an important part of any relationship.It's important you tell your parents in advance what you want out of life and a relationship and incase the things dont match up, you dont end up messing it up for the girl and the family. And that I feel is the difference b/w Shravan and Pushkar here. I loved that they showed the parental issue for both kids in same week. Where Shravan made a point to sort out the mess before hand so that it doesnt cause any problems later especially when he has committed himself to Suman, Pushkar had been just taking all this so lightly and didnt even care to think about how her mom will react when the Tiwaris come for rishta. Thats the difference b/w a careless boy and a responsible man.

I don't blame only the boy...even the girl...being a woman ..the girls shud say NO for this type of Alliances...most of boys like that..when it comes to their mom/family they behave like chicken...for myself respect none can build it in u...u hv to ... ppl like Preeti n Puskar are not only selfish...don't hv self respect..when Kamini asked for status n money y'all ..it shud be preeti who will say no to this...
srsly I don't know how cud a girl cud marry a man like Puskar..who is spineless..only one thing he wants from his wife is sex.. 🤢

Yaar this is so true!! I hate guys who are spineless. I can never marry a guy who is spineless and who doesn't have guts to admit it. If he is like this then he has no right to love bcz guy knows his family and they know whether they will accept it or not!!

I know right... not just indian.guys... I think we south Asiand do hv similar mindsets even now...