shagun and me these days *update on pg 3*

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Shivangi Agarwal

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Posted: 9 years ago

#41

missed ur posts gan and for ur main post🤣 too good

and for ur edited post i wud say bang on 👏

wen ishu married raman she did not take shagun's place but created and cemented her own place in raman's life and her heart soo damn strongly that he got over shagun completely😉

and now wen shagun feels ishu is trying to take her place again its wrong again as in all these 7 years raman never gave ishita's place to shagun even for a second in his heart of mind so shagun is wrong as the place she is talking abt is and was always ishu's place never hers 😳

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-K.13-

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Posted: 9 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Wonderful thoughts Gan.

I am not sure if my perspective of Raman's love would make sense to you all.

As for me, I am pretty confident that Raman never loved Shagun with all his heart in the first place. Their marriage was arranged by their parents, where Raman developed an instant liking for Shagun. He was attracted towards her external beauty and infact bowled over by her external beauty. Post marriage, when shagun started throwing her tantrums around, he had to put up with the demands of shagun, not out of immense love, but because she was his wife and the mother of his kids. He wanted to keep her happy as any good husband would want to. Even after she left him for Ashok, Raman pleaded her to come back with him not because of his love, but for his kids and the family. He even avoided talking to Ruhi because of the mole which reminds him of how foolish and disgusting he has been in judging the goodness of a woman with her external beauty.

That is not the case with Ishita. Despite the fact that his relationship with Ishita started as "sirf ruhi ke liye" note and with bitterness, he gradually began to understand and admire the beauty of Ishita's soul. He actually started understanding the meaning of love after Ishita came in his life, he understood that love is not materialistic, he understood that love is not one-sided with one person taking benefit of the other always. He understood that love is about give and take and that gives immense happiness mutually. So his love for Ishita gradually developed and became deep-rooted with in Raman. He loves her with his heart and soul. Ishita is Raman's lifeline and reason of existence in the world, not even his parents and his kids. This truth reflects even today in every action of Raman. Yes, he is impulsive and blunt many a times, but that is what RKB is all about and infact Ishita is in love with that RKB only.

Raman is nothing without Ishita and he needs Ishita with him to actually live. Shagun is literally non-existent for Raman. Then comes the question of Ishita taking shagun's place in Raman's heart.

I may be wrong, just my POV.

Cheers
Priya

Priya - this was honestly beautiful & a treat to read!

I always felt what Shagun and Raman "had" was superficial yet out of obligation. The rage Raman experience after being left by Shagun was not out of a loss in love, it was because he was ridiculed as a man by Shagun and deemed unworthy.

When Ishita "left" Raman...Raman raged out of a loss a true love. What in life was worth it other than his and ishita's last mark?

Raman is Raman because of Ishita. His time with Shagun only gave him the opportunity to appreciate what and who Ishita was all the more so.

But this is my perception of the show & its dynamics to date...even if they've tried to force a "triangle," they never can sell it bc Raman and Ishita's bond has been built as one of the most intense on TV

Edited by -K.13- - 9 years ago