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Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

I just wish Ishita thinks sensibly and instead of getting in to the ever-sacrificing and self destruction mode, she uses her brain and thinks the following :- If Ishita feels that shagun has been a real good mother for Pihu for these 7 years, has sacrificed a lot, has changed, loves Raman and she deserves a place in Raman's life, then even she has given the love of a mother to Alia and her brother for 7 years and Mani loves Ishita a lot. So it only valid that she marries Mani. If she can see the hurt in shagun , why does she not see the hurt in Mani ? Very simple. It is because she loves Raman to death and none except Raman can be the love of her life. The same applies to Raman. He loves her to death and Ishita is his lifeline.

Now he has started opening up to her, clarified that shagun just had her clothes in his room for sake of Pihu, by which he means that shagun does not have any other rights in his life, spoke to her about the loneliness and pain he went through for 7 years and even yesterday he went on to question her as to why she did not try and even contact him in these 7 years, while he was just waiting for her with the guilt of killing her and above all the assurance that he gave saying that he would never change and would continue to be the same. With so much of hints from Raman and his views, if she still is in denial mode, thinks Raman has moved on and wants Raman to be with Shagun, then what does she want to prove? Her love for Raman is pure and divine and Raman's love is nothing in front of hers? Raman does not know her side of the story still and she knows almost everything that happened in Raman's life in these 7 years. Now what is Ishita waiting for, when she understands that Raman is insecure of Mani and has a wrong assumption that IshMani are getting married. It is high time she opens up to Raman. She has to get back to JKR mode to even make Raman sit back and hear her POV. I don't mind she demanding an answer from Raman for his actions and words. She has every bloody right to confront him. But then it is never going to happen.

I really want Ishita to stand up for her rights w.r.t Raman and Pihu. She does not have to lose her self respect and pride whenever Shagun taunts her. Yesterday, she was even saying that she and shagun can team up and love Pihu equally. So Unless Shagun is going to shed off her devi maa and abala naari avatar, Ishita is not going to come back to her JKR mode.

Just my POV. Don't know if it made sense.

Cheers

Priya

Originally posted by: kras

seriously yaar if ishita is doing all this intentionally to push raman towards shagun

Second thing that spoiler that ruhi is doing all this intentionally to bring ishra and bhalla and iyer family close to each other

And these two things r true then I must say

Ishita raman ruhi sab apna dimaag daan kar aaye kisi ko

Aur usse bhi bade stupid honge creative

If they will show ruhi anger as a plan of her

If they will show ishita intentionally ye sab kar rahi h raman ko shagun ki taraf push karne ke liye

Then I have no words

Main nahi chahti ruhi ka anger uska plan dikhaya jaye

Originally posted by: sunitas123

great but who will bell the cat? Ishita is still haarwaali aunty, Bhallas still kept it that way. So how will Ishita do anything to tilt the cart?

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Sorry to budge in the conversation Sunitha.

Do you agree that both IshRa are at fault for their respective deeds and both have to take the onus to resolve the differences and sort them out? If so, do you see raman taking the initiatives, opening up and putting forth his points? If yes, should Ishita also not do that ? If her silence and denial is going to be the answers for all his anger, frustration and pain, and that too when she knows how insecure is Raman w.r.t to her and Mani being together, how do you even expect the Bhallas and raman to take initiatives to inform Pihu? Ishita has always been stressing since her arrival that she will be back after Ruhi comes back. Now if they open up the secret to Pihu, who is going to convince Pihu if Ishita decides to leave forever sacrificing everything?

I feel that only after Raman gets to know what happened all these years with Ishita, her suicide attempts, mani's accident, Ishita rejecting Mani's proposal, Alia lying about the marriage, he is going to gain that confidence to even take charge of the situation to win Ishita back, reveal the truth to Pihu and get Pihu-Ishita closer. For Raman to do that, he needs the confirmation and assurance from none other than Ishita.

Just my two cents and opinion.

Cheers

Priya

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Priya, i am again telling you this is not about just IshRa. Ishita knows Raman loves her so also Raman cant be dumb- Ishita is living in his room with him, why will she do that if she wants to marry Mani? Right now her priority is Ruhi. The minute she even talks to Pihu Shagun has a problem.

I will look at it the other way, if Pihu gets to know ishita is her mom, Pihu and Ruhi have a better chance of stopping Ishita. But who will deal with Shagun? Ishita wont. Ishita is guilty that she cud not be a mom to Pihu for 7 years, so she is grateful to Shagun, so she wont push her out...

Originally posted by: swatica

It seems ishita n mani r happy together dancing... ishita is kinda happy n ok...

Bt on d other hand raman is jst ghurofying ishita n nt even a glance at shagun...

Raman is getting jealous its clr...

Originally posted by: kras

So a different forum is so quiet because ishita is smiling and dance with mani

But agar yehi par raman shagun ke saath smile karte hue dance kar raha hota to forum mein aag lag jati thi

Kam se kam ab tak 10-15 post to ban hi chuki hoti raman ko jute Marne ke liye😆

I can never understand this indifference of people😕

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Well, I'm also making it clear that I'm not talking about IshRa, I'm talking about IshRa getting back together as a couple is the only solution for all the mess that has been created. Ideally it should not be Pihu or Ruhi or Adi who should take care of stopping Ishita or pushing Shagun out. They are kids and they should remain as kids. It has to be IshRa together along with the family who should work out a solution for this. Because IshRa are as a couple responsible for this mess in everyone's life. Period.

For these to happen, Ishita has to come out of the sacrificial mode. I'm sorry to say Ishita is acting dumb now and not Raman. If Ishita is grateful for shagun for the sake of Pihu, why cannot be Raman grateful to Shagun for bringing up Pihu in the absence of Ishita? Why is that now Raman alone is expected to get shagun out when Ishita is equally responsible for this situation? Now, When Raman comes to know that Mani saved Ishita 7 years back, can Raman also feel grateful to Mani for having saved and taken care of her and decide not to stop Ishita from leaving? Will that be considered OK from Raman's side?

Raman has to get to know that Shagun thinks Ishita as an insecurity and threat and taunts at the sight of Ishita with Pihu. Without him knowing all these, how would you expect him to handle things now when lot of things are unclear among themselves and when Ruhi getting back is their priority?

I just don't understand why is that there is always an expectation that Raman has to explicitly talk to Ishita to express his views and love for her, whereas actions of Ishita are just considered enough for Raman to know her love and her thoughts.

Anyways, opinions differ. I rest my point here.

Cheers

Priya