why did arpita stop posting msgs - Page 2

Originally posted by: whistleblower

she must be feeling very depressing after reading all comments abt her.and u know i have come across one of her fren who is in my tution class.She with her group of frens were standing near mine group and i m my fren were discussing abt this forum and all negative comments written abt arpita .Her fren heard this that how could people be so mean to her just bcoz she was a little rude towards qazi.She has visited the forum and after reading all comments abt her she took a brave act of actually writing a post and trying to connect with the people.she was trying to find out her mistake but except for few people all the members were very rude to her.they even didnt believe that she was Arpita.bcoz of all this arpita got so disheartened that she just lock her up in a room for whole day and didnt communicated with anybody neither ate anything.
When i came to know all this i felt very bad though i even use to hate arpita.but now i feel r not we treating or judjing her very harshly.After all she is a human being and they learn only by mistake.shouldnt we give her a chance.i m sure she must sometime again read this forum so we can write something to cheer her mood or persuade her to write in this forum.what say.

agreed !!!

its true that the reaction was tooo harsh

she has just expressed her views openly which became her biggest mistake

enough is enough, I think u are all getting a cruel pleasure to target only one individual arpita, what harm she has done to u all, [discussion and debate ,teasing each other is common and is part of life they are experiencing in the gurukul ] simply targetting only one individual is not fair . Are u trying to make somebody happy at the cost of hating her, please tell. I like everybody in the gurukul but I cannot isolate any particular individual. behave like a matured person and criticism is a healthy trend but maintain the lakshman rekha.even qazi has harassed the new boy sandip but i didnot take this issue seriously on qazi bcos that is his style of talking, that doesnot mean that i shd hate qazi, everybody has their own style to talk gradually they will learn when they come out of house and interact with others. please stop writing in indecent way like she must hv committed,sui. is this the way of expressing your angry on anybody. I think your parents never guide how to be good with others and not to hurt anybody in a filthy way. Like other contestant Arpita's turn has come to leave gurukul and she has left why such a hating comments on her so many have left gurukul when their turn came so as she also left. who knows next whose turn will be to go out,. it is all a part of competition proceedures. nothing special to make a great comment to on anybody who ever leave the fg. sorry if I hurt anybody's feeling. asha aunty

Originally posted by: whistleblower

she must be feeling very depressing after reading all comments abt her.and u know i have come across one of her fren who is in my tution class.She with her group of frens were standing near mine group and i m my fren were discussing abt this forum and all negative comments written abt arpita .Her fren heard this that how could people be so mean to her just bcoz she was a little rude towards qazi.She has visited the forum and after reading all comments abt her she took a brave act of actually writing a post and trying to connect with the people.she was trying to find out her mistake but except for few people all the members were very rude to her.they even didnt believe that she was Arpita.bcoz of all this arpita got so disheartened that she just lock her up in a room for whole day and didnt communicated with anybody neither ate anything.
When i came to know all this i felt very bad though i even use to hate arpita.but now i feel r not we treating or judjing her very harshly.After all she is a human being and they learn only by mistake.shouldnt we give her a chance.i m sure she must sometime again read this forum so we can write something to cheer her mood or persuade her to write in this forum.what say.

arnt u the same person who was posting as arpita b4? what a joke. yeah some stupid ppl will fall for the trap .whatever!!

Arpita sucks
she is so selfish