Tough times dont last, tough people do !!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The quote ...Lets not be surprised when we have to face difficulties. When the wind blows hard on a tree, the roots stretch and grow stringer, let it be so with us. Let us not be weaklings, yielding to every wind that blows, but string in spirit to resist...holds true.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. Whenever a problem arises people should immediately look at the problem and find out its solution and learn the lesson from it. When life puts you in tough situations don't say why me..just say try me.

The quotes...A bird sitting in a tree is never afraid if the branch breaking. Because her trust is not on the branch but on her own wings. You always knew that one day you would stand up for yourself...that one day you would raise the standard of your life...so never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, define yourself...hold true.

Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone. There is no strong person with an easy past. Don't let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you. Family is not about blood. It's about who is willing to hold your hand when you need it the most. Some if the most poisonous people come disguised as a family. Blood makes you related. Loyalty makes you family.

The quote by Archarya Chanakya ... Never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you...holds true...If you can't keep your secrets to yourself, never expect that somebody else will. Be careful who you share your weakness with. Some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against you. You never know when you won't be able to trust them anymore, so be mindful of who you share your darkest secrets with.

Each member of the Ayodhya Nivas were against Dhani including Viplav for the time being...Dhani has no choice but to stand up for herself...she is becoming stronger than before and able to look out for solutions on her own.

She just needs to stop allowing the people of AN to bully her...her family is Viplav over there, Viplav who he considers family have done such heinous crimes that it's unpardonable...his family eventually is Dhani herself who always stood by him through thick and thin.

When Dhani got the phone call from an unknown stranger, she rightfully started doubting the people there...internal enemies are indeed dangerous, they leak the information about the happenings of the house to allow outsiders to attack them.

Sometimes it is better to keep secrets within yourself, you never know who might misuse it against you...Dhani is right in concealing the information from Km who will take advantage of it. She wanted to share the information with viplav but he had no time to even listen to her. Sometimes even strangers turn out to be well wishers when one's family is against them.

Poisonous family is nothing less than a nightmare...to deal with them is a very tough job...when one person has no choice to deal with and stand alone to safeguard themselves then so be it...they will eventually turn out to be much stronger and a winner.

Do share your views.😊

I dedicate this post to pyari Hammie and pyari Ratna who always were stood by Dhani even during her worst phases.😃


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swathi , thx for the special mention and yes I still stand up for Dhani . She like Viplav is so transparent that everyone takes advantage of her .

Who said she was perfect . In fact lately she has been more silly than sensible . Viplav reprimanding her was correct. She is really in an hostile environment . Everyone hates her . That force feeding scene I felt like slapping Kanak .

She stands up for what she thinks is right and does right by everybody . Viplav knows that ... Will he remember this in the coming days . May maybe not .

As you say tough times come and do and only the strong remain standing .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Ratna...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Sometimes I wonder whatever she becomes a bad person how long will it continue...Yes she is not perfect...both viplav and dhani are making blunders day by day...Kanak is horrendous person..now that TP is back hopefully she will know her place..I somehow want this truth to come out in open.

Ratna Viplav is not in a state to think anything right ...so somehow I feel may be dhani needs to solve her problems on her own...we know that whenever his family is involved he gets all emotional and doesn't listen to anyone...remember I made a post regarding DT's truth coming out and had asked what shall be viplav's reaction...he is already in denial, he needs to gulp more than he could he can imagine...that phase has started ...dhani will remain strong this time...one by one she is discovering the truth...DT, km, kanak days are going to be numbered...Till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello wise pearl.
How things r going ?
I am back from evening duty.ughhh so tired.missed d epi.how was it ?
Beautiful quotes used by u dear.thought provoking n inspiring.
D war becomes tougher when ur family,ur own people stand up against u.thats what happened to dhani.with all d dreams of being a good DIL n serving family she entered tk AN but d way she is humiliated everyday, feel sad for her.
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Hello Dr Joy...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Everything is fine dear...take some rest dear you need it...DT is has another enemy added to his list 😆TP is back...and guess what dhani found out that DT did steal the bags...she informs viplav and you know he doesn't believe her...as this is related to his dada...suvarna is back ie her voice 😆 she needs to stand up for herself yaar aur kitna sehlegi...day by day their torture is increasing...but I feel she is the first one to know all their secrets and she will be the one to see them get punished one fine day...true when family becomes poisonous it becomes very difficult to deal with it...so many emotions are linked to the family...Till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi pearl...😊😊
well said...even i m a supporter of dhaani...
joh bhi hota hai uski galati nahi hai...thats d way her mother nurtured her...to help others n she is such a selfless sole...who believes anyone easily...n the going track i m sure..
dhaani is going to learn a lesson on whom to believe...n not...going to make her much independent n she is goin to be a tough person...😊😊
absolutely loved ur title...tough times dont last tough people do...!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Revathi...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Yes dear she better learn from her mistakes ...these people wont spare her at all...and she needs to know where to put a full stop to all the torture she is inviting..uski galti nahi hain magar usko un logo ko sabak sikhana hi padega...all are dead against her that's so pathetic...I miss DL hopefully she would have given her strength along with BA...I hope she is the one to punish KM like the way she did Raja 😆...Till then take care...Its like you are running this forum dear...sab aapka comments dikh rha hain 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swati waah waah... loved the totd dear.. very well written as usual.. today's episode belong to Dhani fr dure.. n Dhani proved once again she's the real queen.. how she bear all these crap attitud frm ANwasis.. n still remain firm n intact on her belief n her stance.. although she knew she has lost the onli support in AN in the form of Viplov's trust.. still she was not afraid to state wat she believes the truth is..!! Viplov's reaction was not at all surprising.. we all knew already Dhani wud come to kno abt DTs truth first n Viplov wud never believe her..!! Bt Dhani didn't even once tried to manipulate or hide abt DTs truth n I'm really happy fr her atleast.. I'm glad she didn't chicken out in the end.. pariwaar pariwaar jaap shru kar dety na tou fir it wud hav been doomed fr sure.. Viplov dun want to remove that blindfold of DTs love n he want to remain in fool's paradise idk kab tak.. 😡 although the dumbest lawyer of the universe ws busy searching for the chor in the AN that very night.. the gold medalist viplov ka naqli gold medal gangaa mai bahane ko dil kar raha hai..😕 I guess they've succefully erase every damn sympathy frm viewers heart today fr Viplov.. I want to slap him hard so that he open his eyes n stopped dancing on that witch's tune..😡 😕 n as per spoiler he ll be butchered some more.. like seriously..!?!?! Abhi or butcher karne ko kuch bacha hai kameeno..!!??!! 😡 😭

Thnks re fr writing yarr.. agar dekha jaae tou tha ye positive epi.. new trip is horrible.. I hope isko dekh k KT khud ko hang kar le.. banaras pe bojh kahin ki.. su is trapping Dhani with her pati.. may be they'll trap dhani bt again how in hell ths wud benefit TP.. it's beyond me..!! 😛
Chalo dekhte hain Viplov! ! The clown..!! aage kis kis k isshaaron pe dance kare ga.. 😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Welcome Nuss 😆 ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Yes she is the only one to support herself in AN...wahan toh danav rehte haina.

Yes Viplav and his degree along with his medal is of no use when he can't see what's happening round him...lawyers are meant to observe everything carefully... doc's patient ko sahi dava kaise dete ho sab kuch monitor karke , diagnose karke dete ho na aise hi hain...nahi toh patient gaya kaam se 😆 ... Good thing is that she is getting to know everything very quickly ...if you leave it on viplav even after many years he wont find out.

Yes very glad she spoke what she saw and she stood by herself 👏this is a brilliant step infact...sadly sometimes people listen to outsiders more than their loved ones...yeh stress main kya kya kar rha hain yaar Nuss aapke paas bhejde kya 😆 thapad mat maro 😆

Haan iska huliya accha nahi hai TP ka yeh Ashoka main tha Nuss ...aur apna TP ashoka main chala gaya 😆😆 Suv may not be with TP yaar..she is well wisher of dhani...suv and viplav are similar ...doosron pe bharosa karte hain...sachai pe nahi 😆 Viplav ki mati bramith hogayi hain kripaya thodi prateksha kejiye 😆...Till then take care.
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Isi liye tou maine Viplov ko andha or behraa kaha hai...🤣 dmagh ki dahi kar di hai.. case k naam pe bina prep k bus black coat pehn k aane ki jaldi hoty hai..🤣
Uss k kaale coat se ab mje panic attack aata hai..🤣 uss ko zara b yaad nahi ki uss raat jab AN m woh khidki se gya tha somebody was in AN n also they close the door frm outside... itna bara gadha vakeel maime aaj tak nahi dekha bhai.. I hope leap aae.. viplov ka memory loss ho.. or usko fir kabhi yaad naa aae k woh lawyer tha.. 🤣 I dun want him to ever remeber he used to b a clown lawyer..🤣
Ohh bhai yeh Ashoka walon ne compensation mai hume kesa cartoon trip diya hai.. hamara hot trip rakh liya ye namona hume dedya.. 🤣 iski awaaz bht ajeeb hai..🤣

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