A MARRIAGE IS NOT A GAME VIPLAV!

Hello everyone,

whatever I am going to write next, are just my opinion! No offence!

I have read the new Article which Nandhini posted on the Forum, couldn't stop myself by opening a new Topic about it.

I just want to ask one thing,

IS A MARRIAGE REALLY A GAME? Is it really soo easy like they show?

I see soo many people marrying in just 16-17 ages and they look like just kids.
Ok, keep this topic asight and come straight to the Topic of Viplav's marriage!

In the Article of Nandhini posted writes that Dhani will give the wrong medicines to Sushma and Viplav will blame her for Sushma's condition.

But wait...

just few hours ago before all the police came, didn't Viplav say he is gonna teach Dhani how to write and read, but he didn't yet! So, it's obvious she could give the wrong medicines. As she had 2 kind of medicines means it was 50% she would give the wrong medicine.

But, do we really have to blame Dhani for her -not knowledge?

No! Of course not! But there was one option she could do! She could have showed the two tablets to Kanak but I understand, she was in panic so gave any of them.

Viplav is gonna blame Dhani? Areyy Viplav!!!! He should blame himself for marrying someone who can't read or write. He had to be fast by marrying her... haan baba haan...
You can marry someone without loving him/her but you can't marry someone or keep the marriage when you don't trust him/her. And this time Viplav is going to loose his trust for Dhani, what will this marriage mean then?

Ok, I will give a cut to the Topic before I am getting really frustrated!!!

First thing Love is Blind!

Second thing Viplav shud stop giving love lessons to Dhaani & Start teaching some basic things like Medicines, Rest room, Even we saw Car Accident becoz Dhaani couldnt read the Danger!! Also @ restaurant she was insulted by DB!

Else Viplav shud be her Body guard 24/7 as there is full of evils @ AN!!

..Now coming to the show,. I guess I wont blame Vipu or dhaani but the circumstances they r in...Vipu might be irked,angry, frustrated but he wont dare mean to hurt her in his dreams...its the situations that are created...He might shout,scream but its that an outlet of helplessness n tension that he is releasing,seeing his daddis condition n Dts trapped in jail...WE all do wen things r not in our control, but do we really mean it...I guess we need to watch the episode before we judge him!

I don't think Viplav will really blame Dhani. That blaming thing is something given only in spoilers. At the heat of the moment, seeing his Dadi's condition he may burst out(after all he is human and uder emergency we do things without thinking sometimes) but in his heart of hearts he knows that it is really not Dhani's fault.

But somehow I get irritated with Dhani-she takes things a bit too far for e.g I found her action of running to the police without consulting Viplav too rash. Also when she knows that she can't read, shouldn't she make it a point to be doubly sure and show the medicines to someone before she gives it to Sushma!

Viplav should sit her down and tell her firmly that she needs to exercise caution . Consulting with others and Discussing things openly with him will save her from getting herself and others into trouble but Vipu is so besotted with her that whenever he looks at her the only thing that comes to his mind is hugging and kissing!😉

A marriage like Dhaani/Viplav can not rest only on love. The relationship should develop further, Viplav should be able to talk to Dhaani freely, have conversations which are meaningful. It is important for a couple to have something other than love and passion to sustain a relationship.

At the moment, this is all that is in the relationship.

Hence the need for Dhaani to educate herself.