TEI EP 223: Obsession doesn't Matter as long it is of Love ; Analysis

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I wrote the whole thing up and then my computer decided that today was the day to punish me for my unhealthy obsession with the show by literally crashing every single file on my laptop. I didn't even safe anything eugghhgh!! This is literally what came from top of my mind.



The episodes have now transitioned completely to the "War" between Kunj and Yuvraj now. The track now playing out had started it's build up since Mahi's exit when Kunj got hurt after Twinkle's unintentional push. The act was symbolic of Twinkle's hurt, pain and regret over her relationship with Yuvi surfacing and allowing her to drain Kunj's strength who has been the one to hold her up ever since she had almost fallen after Yuvi's betrayal. Twinkle was quick to oblige and in her attempt to return Kunj the position in her life that would be greater the the position that had been equalized by her hatred for Yuvi and love for Kunj, she allowed Yuvraj's blood to be transfused into Kunj by placing the purpose of her life, her love and her faith into Kunj's and taking away all of the rights her past with Yuvraj had away from Yuvraj.

Twinkle's role in this track that has been a web of deceit, lies and tests laid out by Yuvraj has been that of a protector of her love and marriage with Kunj while it had been Kunj who had to go through tests and come out successful in order to unite with Twinkle. The whole track started to take place once Mahi had taken a place of Yuvi's wife in front of the family. Twinkle had successfully been able to protect Kunj throughout from Yuvraj's fire of rage and obsession by first, allowing him to walk away from her problems and her past after the ATSH rain sequence however despite her offering, Kunj chose to voluntarily step into a war that he was never suppose to be a part of. Secondly, Twinkle protected Kunj by omitting the truth of her participation form Mrs. Amritsar from Kunj. She was successful in just restoring Manohar's name through his business, but saved Kunj from his own anguish and restlessness which his anger had frozen up for him. In the third instance, Twinkle handed over the reigns of her relationship with Kunj to Kunj, this time with her consent and insistence by allowing Yuvraj's blood to be transfused into Kunj's body. > Kunj's purpose throughout the track, in order to unite with Twinkle as a husband has been to stay by her side and support Twinkle's decisions without question because this is ultimately her war with Yuvraj instead of his. He can not take charge despite wanting to and his need to take charge and protect Twinkle ever since Mahi's fall had Twinkle force Kunj out of this War by isolating herself constantly. Kunj had picked up on his exclusion and because of that, he let his disapproval slide by and supported Twinkle when Yuvraj managed to strike back at Twinkle upon finding her isolated however Twinkle's isolation had been strategic because she is the only person who has the ability to shed everything of Yuvraj's personality.


While Kunj stood by Twinkle when she went on a mission to steal Yuvraj's ego, pride and arrogance from him, he crossed over the boundaries he was in in order to avenge justice for his wife by playing against Twinkle's rules and placing her love on stake by accepting Yuvraj's attack on his own masculinity and his contribution towards their relationship. Yuvraj had been toying with Kunj's insecurities since he isolated Twinkle by holding her a suspect in Mahi's fall however upon finding that Twinkle and Kunj had taken steps forward and that there faith and love in each other has started cementing. Kunj's crossing over the line that Twinkle had assigned him and being in a hurry to get justice for his wife has not just put Kunj at risk but also Twinkle's position at stake because despite being in middle of two men, she had been strategic and calculative in the way she had responded back to Yuvraj.


I'm going to quote EP 217 because that episode elaborated and laid out the upcoming track's actions that will be coming into play;

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom



Yuvraj comes from behind gold colored suit signifying his luxurious lifestyle and his attitude of getting whatever he wants by hook or crook. That is reflected deeply in Kunj's response when he compares him to a child who is never satisfied even after parents shower the child with thousands of gifts. Yuvraj is a child who never grew up. He cannot deal with rejection and bruised ego and pride. Yuvraj wants Twinkle because in his mind, he saw her first and he fell for her which makes Twinkle his possession and Kunj has been able to see through that since the first face-off. > Kunj's anger usually drives him to extreme extent and obviously the man is dealing with a terrible blow. His most cherished relationship has been taken away from him and right form under his nose. Twinkle is the only person who can calm him down however Twinkle's toppling position in the War of Love because of Kunj being checkmate due to his loss of strength, has put her at disadvantage as she herself as become a ground of battle. Yuvraj probes Kunj by taunting on his masculinity and the frail ego of all men cannot tolerate a blow as such. Kunj is no more then a decent man in all honesty. Kunj embodies values of a decent human being and taking advantage of Kunj's already supposedly losing position, Yuvraj keeps probing until the anger takes over in Kunj. >> However the anger comes from not being able to protect the person he loves the most. Kunj makes a rookie mistake by saying yes to the game because unlike las time, he isn't at advantage. He is at more loss because stakes have become more higher and he had mistakenly let go of one hand of his wife in this attempt > "Twinkle ke gusse se dar rahe ho?" < Kunj and Twinkle are both wearing shades of red and pink that signify there anger at the situation and their love for each other overpowering by granting both of them strength however Kunj willingly crossing over the line (at this case, the laundry line) signified him making a move before needed.

The episode marked the transition of war between Kunj and Yuvraj solely. The family support matters and the infiltration of the most important members of the family, Anand and Cherry into the white side signified that the Luthras are weaker then before because this loss will lose both the mother-son duo everything. The 'tashan' between Yuvraj and Kunj has always been for Twinkle and the taint on Kunj and Twinkle's relationship by Yuvraj's intrusion has pushed Kunj forward.


Till now, Kunj has been playing the game on Twinkle's terms because in bigger picture, the war bis between Twinkle and Yuvraj and Kunj is only a player that gets to stand right besides Twinkle. Kunj in today's episode broke the clauses of Twinkle's terms that had allowed him back into the war. I had in previous episodes mentioned that Kunj will not allow Twinkle to endanger himself further and the next attack by Yuvraj is going to force Kunj to push Twinkle aside to win her back.

Kunj had pulled the same movie during Mrs. Amritsar track. He was suppose to stand by Twinkle instead of opposing her and today, instead of standing by her like he has been so far, he has gone ahead and put himself in comparison to Yuvraj. The whole track started out with Yuvraj coming back with Mahi and separating Kunj from Twinkle. This track is the last test of Kunj in order to grasp onto Twinkle's love completely that she has been handing him however one failed attempt could take Twinkle's hand back. Kunj's intentions are correct however like all dumb men, he is going to put all the worst excuses in front of Twinkle to shelter her. The unification family at this point will prove to be the leaning wall for both, Kunj and Twinkle.


The cricket match was a literal reflection of the chess board that this War of Love has become. Anita and Yuvi's white side represented the white pieces in chess board that start the war. The win of the coin toss and the equal scores represented Yuvi and Anita beginning this whole war by making the first attacks and that both parties at this point stand equal in this war. Twinkle's shoe lace bing held back by Yuvraj represented Yuvraj splitting Twinkle's ground in the war however Twinkle will not be held back from choosing her own side. Twinkle's decision nor Leela and bebe's inclusion is going to help out. The loss by '2' runs indicates the loss of two keys players Kunj is trying to fill the void with by including Leela and Bebe. The two players are Twinkle and Mahi. The only way Kunj would be successful in his war is with Mahi's inclusion, which would put Twinkle back into her position of being a leader and captain of this whole battleground and allow her to save her marriage.




Twinkle's innocence, her selflessness an her ferocity for "right" over wrong had ripped Yuvraj of everything in his personality besides his obsession. Yuvraj's obsession in its most purest and most vulnerable form will stand at WAR with Twinkle however Kunj's forced decision of fighting that war will pull him down himself.

Kunj doesn't appreciate Twinkle's self-sacrificing trait and that is very very important because twinkle's selflessness for the people she loves is a driving force of her life. Twinkle knows that Kunj is her "rakhvala"/"savior" and the reason she is ready to go tot any extent in vengeance from yuvraj is because she knows that the moment she starts spiraling down in her own anger, Kunj will be there to save her however Kunj breaking his promises to Twinkle will put both of their love in danger and it is completely Kunj's fault despite the situation to not have enough faith and belief in his love for Twinkle.

Kunj is very much consumed by anger and hatred for Yuvraj and while love has triumphed in Twinkle's life, Kunj's ego, pride and his quest for his wife's happiness is allowing the love he has for Twinkle to topple off and replaced by his hatred for Yuvraj. He cannot fathom how at this point, Yuvraj's changed behavior doesn't matter for Twinkle at all. Yuvraj is just a regular person in millions for Twinkle but he isn't the same for Kunj.


The episode started with Yuvraj following Kunj and Twinkle and he calls out to Kunj before he calls out to Twinkle is because he knows that Kunj can be the one to save Twinkle from any harm as he has not yet fulfilled his promise to Twinkle. Yuvraj's priority at this moment is Twinkle's happiness. Yuvraj in is on quest to prove that his obsession for Twinkle is because of his love for Twinkle, and his quest, though now a bit different in its approach has been the same since Twinkle had left him to marry Kunj. Yuvraj crossing over the road through the muddy pathway in middle signified how he had always used shortcuts to get onto the same pathway as Kunj and Twinkle.

Driving, road and Car in a combined factor are all symbols of journey and the journey of Kunj and Twinkle's is in hands of Kunj. Kunj being the first one realize the intrusion is reflective of all past incidents weighing over Kunj more that has provoked him to be more alert
Yuvraj comes up from Twinkle's side to alert Twinkle about the bomb and that move is an evidence that Yuvraj has not reformed but literally is now striving to become everything Twinkle wants to him to become as such.

Kunj calls out to Yuvraj that he cannot leave the steering wheel and that Yuvraj has to move the bomb. Not the bombs been planted by Anita and Yuvraj has gotten into Kunj and Twinkle's pathway since beginning because of Anita. Yuvraj's war is with Twinkle and even when anger and pride where adjoined with Yuvraj's obsession, Yuvraj was possesseive enough to make sure that no one beside he, himself is hurting Twinkle. Kunj holding on to the steering symbolized that Kunj will not let go of his relationship with Twinkle as easily as he wants to. He wants to make sure that Twinkle is happy but the upcoming revelations are despite him wanting Twinkle's happiness are not going to be easy decisions upon him as Twinkle has become his life as well.

Yuvraj jumps from his bike on to the hood of Kunj's signified how Yuvraj unwillingly will become part of a game once again and become a blockage in Kunj and Twinkle's journey. Him rolling off signified that Yuvraj will continue to compete with Kunj until the end by sacrificing Twinkle of Kunj in drunkenness of his obsession that will continue to reign over him until the end. The timing of the bombs countdowns from 6 minutes to 3 seconds. 6 is a human number and a number of imperfections while 3 is a dive number that unites all elements of universe. Yuvraj's removal from the path of Kunj and twinkle will lead to union of both as until Yuvraj, willingly and unwillingly continues to intrude in, Kunj and Twinkle's life will not take the course they want it to take.


Yuvi and Kunj's interactions that followed through the episode were of more importance then the family expressing their doubt over Yuvraj's intentions.

While at the court, Kunj stands in front of the "lawyer" while Twinkle stands in between the both men. Kunj has also been wearing red which reflects on his anger over Yuvraj still surpassing any other emotion. Yuvra's white is reflective of his obsession being at it's most vulnerable form. Twinkle's peach color was reflective of her power of being a healer and reflected on how she has been her own strength in the ordeal that is passing through and the one that will go through. The lawyer and advocate of Kunj and Twinkle is Mahi and she the one to reunite the two by pushing Kunj in a way that makes him walk towards Twinkle and has Twinkle walk back to him. This attempt would be the one that would allow Kunj to avenge justice for Twinkle's pain as the cases against Yuvi are still open and only wait a stamp of approval from Twinkle and Mahi.

Yuvraj ranting about his love for Twinkle and his reason of change being Twinkle is not settling well with Kunj. Kunj has eagle eyes for anyone who has to say something about his wife and Yuvraj's wishing for Twinkle in the next birth is not something that Kunj will take very lightly. The disgust and hatred that Kunj has grown for Yuvraj is not something that'll be easily surpassed because Yuvraj had brought forth the worst of Kunj and Twinkle's pity for Yuvraj's changed behavior will not support the hatred, making it worst for Kunj to handle the conflicting emotions inside him as the one to help him through the moments he chooses to suppress is Twinkle and Twinkle's "no" will break through Kunj. > Yuvraj's acceptance of his love for Twinkle in front of the grounds of court signified how he himself will be the one to plead guilty next time.

Twinkle's wary expression and her surprise mingled with pity for the man she once loved but now cannot muster enough energy to allow him to matter for her was beautifully captured. However her pity will become a cause of insecurity for Kunj who has been challenged by Yuvraj earlier in his ploy in the worst way possible.

Kunj asking Twinkle weather she is happy after Yuvraj leaves symbolized his need for her happiness and his needing her approval as they resume their married life.

Kunj has to choose one thing in this war. Either he can be Twinkle's guardian or he can be her husband. This war is not his yet and until eaves' obsession reigns, it will never be his decision that aligns with Twinkle. Kunj can become her guardian however only o Twinkle's terms and conditions.


I do not want to comment any further of Cherry until I can see him accepting Anita's proposal for money in return. He has never been a positive character but been a person who sides with the side that benefits him. As for Anita, we all know she has no hope. Unlike Yuvi, she is driven by revenge instead of obsession.


The next track will test out Kunj's belief in his love for Twinkle and her words. Twinkle's protective circle around Kunj in the war between Tanejas and Luthras has dropped and this time Kunj would can earn that protective circle back by choosing his love and overlooking his hatred for Yuvraj. Kunj has himself asked for his love to proven in front of Twinkle and he will struggle endlessly in the sacrifices that he will make and watch the same sacrifices being made by Yuvraj. The most brutal test will play out in coming days and Kunj's struggle will be highly disappointing to Twinkle. It's love vs. obsession at it's best.

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Edited by areeba_blossom - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Areeba hun i'm gonna need to read this twice before coming up with an apt response
So RES for now
I'll be back tomorrow morning and comment in detail.

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Again very well written and you as always speak a lot of sense! I was just wondering something, from the first few episodes we gathered that Yuvi's main mission was to get Twinkle to marry him, sleep with her and then leave her in order to get revenge from the Taneja's. Do you still think he's sticking to his plan from before and that's why he's still pursuing Twinkle or do you think it's actually because he's "in love/obsessed" with her?
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I need to read your previous one before I read this but I know its amazing already. So RESS.
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brilliantly written Areeba as always.
the entire bomb countdown you explained blew my mind.Like its is brilliant how you see such things.
I loved how kunj asked twinkle are you happy now. It showed so much about how her happiness will be his priority. Kunj and yuvis talk was indeed very important. I loved how yuvis main intention through out was to win over kunj than twinkle.
Lol when i first saw the episode with yuvi screaming kunjs name it gave me all the KuVi feels. Like he didnt even call twinkle once. 😆😆
But loved how you explained about Kunjs approval being the most important.
Haven't seen todays episode but seeing the spoilers, it seems that its going to be full on intense track ahead.
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Originally posted by: twinjaddict

Again very well written and you as always speak a lot of sense! I was just wondering something, from the first few episodes we gathered that Yuvi's main mission was to get Twinkle to marry him, sleep with her and then leave her in order to get revenge from the Taneja's. Do you still think he's sticking to his plan from before and that's why he's still pursuing Twinkle or do you think it's actually because he's "in love/obsessed" with her?



He no longer follows that plan. The moment he went after Twinkle on her day of marriage, his position changed. His drive has completely changed to obsession. His mother's revenge was a protective layer he was hiding behind. He is very much obsessed with Twinkle.

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom



Yuvraj Luthra was determined to an extreme extent as an adolescent ,to get back his mother's happiness. He grew up with a mother who always had scores to settles with Leela Taneja. He grew up deprived of love. Abandoned by his father first and then by his mother who had always been consumed in hatred and vengeance, Yuvraj wanted attention from the only person worth living for in his life, his mother. However, Anita's fire of hatred was so intense that a son's love for his mother wasn't enough at all to extinguish it. Instead, Yuvraj got tangled in his mother's fire when she finally held him close to herself. He saw the happiness his mother had in him being her accomplice and his determination to defame Twinkle Taneja got stronger and stronger.

However one thing went wrong. An emotionally broken person, an abused individual, a person dealing with worst kind of abandonment was showered unconditional love from a person who was suppose to be only a pawn. Yuvraj had gotten everything in his life. Every single thing he has ordered, had been at his feet. Except love and when he got love showered from Twinkle, he felt all more entitled to it. His determination to get her and marry her turned into obsession and an unhealthy one at that because Twinkle is not a toy or doll as he imagines her to be. Twinkle is a human being. Yuvraj fell for Twinkle because she gave him the most precious gift of unconditional love and support in her seven years with him. She encouraged him, she boasted his ego, she blindly trusted him so much that she was would've if needed, given up her life for him. Despite Twinkle's dedication, Yuvraj never managed to acquire a place in Twinkle's heart that was equal to her love for her family which Kunj has managed to do since he has married Twinkle. Yuvraj was always the second person in everyone's life and deep down he realizes that in matter of love, he is not a winner which is why he went ahead to break all the barriers of morality. He was not his mother's first choice. His mother chose his father's betrayal over him. Twinkle chose her mother's happiness over him by accepting Kunj in her life as a husband instead of Yuvraj, putting Kunj on the same pedestal that she puts her family on. Heck, even Mahi backed away from him and he wasn't able to tolerate a rejection of a girl whom he himself considered a 'nobody'.

The complete change in Yuvraj's role occurred after he saw her getting married to Kunj. That was the last nail in the coffin. When Twinkle refused to put Yuvraj above her family's happiness and wouldn't fall for his emotional manipulation, Yuvraj resorted to physical abuse by manhandling her. He went as far as to defame her of rape victim of Kunj. Her marriage to Kunj opened the barriers of limits for Yuvraj as now, Yuvraj had to reach to Twinkle before Kunj in one way or another. His alliance with his mother from the point of Twinkle and Kunj's marriage has been not to destroy Twinkle as Anita's has been but to destroy the relationship Twinkle shares with Kunj. The purpose of Yuvraj's life is Twinkle because he has been able to give him the only thing he always yearned for. Love. Anita doesn't hold any candle in Yuvraj's life except being the provider of luxuries and wealth.

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So much to read today omg, RES! And I am so sorry about your thingy crashing 😭
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The part that impacted upon me the most in the entire episode was Yuvi declaring his change due to his love for Twinkle and how he wishes to marry her in his next birth, in front of Kunj.
I was like really you're saying this in front of her husband after all that you have done.
Yuvi haven't changed at all, he still desires to be with Twinkle in his current like, more so than his next janam.
He has only change his tactics, Kunj's disgust is very much evident as well as Twinkle's weariness of having to deal with the entire situation Yuvi have created. It was noticeable in the hospital with the way she looked at Kunj when he was upset over having to save Yuvi and going on about Anita blaming them for this, the way Twinkle looked at him them my heart ache, the poor girl have been through enough, without having to reassure her husband of who really holds the key to her heart.
I think Kunj always had insecurities with respect to Yuvraj as he was a witness to the love Twinkle held for Yuvraj. It's just that he is someone who bottles everything inside, that he never opened up toTwinkle, but then again they started their relationship in a very unconventional manner as well as the fact that Twinkle love was replaced by her regret and disgust for Yuvraj. Those feelings are now replaced by the pity Twinkle is currently feeling towards Yuvraj which will now fuel Kunj's insecurities to another level.
I think this track will really be interesting to watch and I also think it is important as you say for Twinkle and Kunj to deal with before they move their relationship to another level.
Wonderful Analysis as usual Areeba.
Sorry that your system crashed

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Originally posted by: kardooks

The part that impacted upon me the most in the entire episode was Yuvi declaring his change due to his love for Twinkle and how he wishes to marry her in his next birth, in front of Kunj.

I was like really you're saying this in front of her husband after all that you have done.
Yuvi haven't changed at all, he still desires to be with Twinkle in his current like, more so than his next janam.
He has only change his tactics, Kunj's disgust is very much evident as well as Twinkle's weariness of having to deal with the entire situation Yuvi have created. It was noticeable in the hospital with the way she looked at Kunj when he was upset over having to save Yuvi and going on about Anita blaming them for this, the way Twinkle looked at him them my heart ache, the poor girl have been through enough, without having to reassure her husband of who really holds the key to her heart.
I think Kunj always had insecurities with respect to Yuvraj as he was a witness to the love Twinkle held for Yuvraj. It's just that he is someone who bottles everything inside, that he never opened up toTwinkle, but then again they started their relationship in a very unconventional manner as well as the fact that Twinkle love was replaced by her regret and disgust for Yuvraj. Those feelings are now replaced by the pity Twinkle is currently feeling towards Yuvraj which will now fuel Kunj's insecurities to another level.
I think this track will really be interesting to watch and I also think it is important as you say for Twinkle and Kunj to deal with before they move their relationship to another level.
Wonderful Analysis as usual Areeba.
Sorry that your system crashed



Karen it's been so long i've replied properly to you!! Agree with you so much dude!

Twinkle's expressions are so much important these days because it really shows how tired she is of repeating the same thing over and over again and how tired she is of assuring the same to everyone. Before it was the rest of the family and now it'll be Kunj.

The worst is that Kunj had been a witness of the blinded love Twinkle had for Yuvraj and then she chose her mother over him in front of his eyes and he had to ask her whether she'll be able to live without Yuvi like that.

The way she told him in the hospital that just let it go and he was adamant that he won't let go like that and he's not happy at all was way too much for Twinkle to handle.

You're so correct in terms of Twinkle's escalation of feelings and on top of that, she is literally the only person who can get through to Kunj and his insecurities are going to push him to bottle everything in worst way.

I think this track is really going to allow the two to work on their communication after all the distance and frustration would simmer down between the two.


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it was amazing as always areeba! (this has become my new fav alliteration 😆)
and so sorry your comp crashed on you hon!
yuvi from before had an agenda to get back at the taneja's what's diff now and what's interesting to me is that before he wanted to use twinkle, to gain her and possess her for his own selfish needs and now he wants to change because of her love and for her - i think that change in play is interesting

i think it's going to be interesting, exhausting, and just angst filled to see twinj in the upcoming episodes
before twinkle had been explaining and justifying herself to the family but she was never in the position to explain herself to kunj because he always had that trust in her and when that trust is what falls apart the both of them are going to have a hard time coming back to that. justifying herself to kunj will be the hardest thing she's ever done because he's the one person she never expected that from

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