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This post originated as a result of a lot of thoughts after my friend's Atii's words. She said - "It's unfair that people give kids to Ishita to raise and she does a mistake and they snatch away her right to being their mother." That prompted me to put on my thinking hat. So if you want to blame someone for this rant, it's her đ đ
In general, I am a little more biased towards Raman. Even though I understand Ishita, let's just say I understand Raman a bit more. So for me to be brining this on, means CVs are literally screwing up with what they have built so far - The unbounded love of a mother for a child she hasn't given birth to.
So Raman came face-to-face with Ishita, along with Mani and Aliya.
Mani came face-to-face with Raman, along with Adi.
Two sets of father and child. One woman in between.
Each child claiming the woman as his / her mother. Each father renouncing her as the mother of his child.
What is with these CVs making the YHM men bring their kids to her for raising them like a good human being, and taking them away from her at the slightest hint of trouble? Is it because she cannot biologically bear a child in her womb? Is this why they treat her parenting like something to be rented on a lease? How much more inhumane can it be?
Raman, who a minute ago, was crediting her for his son's flawless upbringing. Who announced it to the world (in that police station), that it was her who transformed his boy, gave him a life, taught him to be a better person. It did not take him one second to tear that right away from her, of being Adi's mother.
And Mani, her best friend, her support system for the past 7 years. I'll keep aside his romantic intentions towards Ishita, but he did risk his own life to save hers, and trusted her with his kids (niece and nephew, but it's the same thing). He did not flinch before making it known that Aliya was only his daughter.
Just because a woman is unable to bear the pain of brining a child into this world, she has no right over the kids she nurtures with her sweat and blood? Isn't a woman allowed to love all her children, in whatever capacity, irrespective of how they became hers?
As Aani put it brilliantly in another discussion, "her grief and pain aren't considered because hey, you never took the pain of birthing anyone".
It is ok to be angry at your wife / friend for whatever reasons, it is not ok to question someone's relationship with their child. And I know the CVs will never bring back the Ishita from YHM 1.0 who retaliated, but if they just could, for one moment. If they could just let her lash out at least once.
Urghh... My head hurts.
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