Trying to Gauge his behaviour

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I don't doubt Raman's love. In fact, I adore him to bits and want a hubby like him! Having said that, the purpose of my post was to try and gauge Raman's current behaviour. I love RKB to death

bas karo yaar
kitne bhare baithe ho????
agree raman is being a jerk
he needs to be taught a lesson
bt ye post kuch jyada ho gaya

Well, I just said the same thing in Gan's thread. Did he really love Ishita? The entire Bhallas loved her when she did as per their bidding and solved their problems. But they were very quick to blame her for the smallest things. Raman too would be happy so long as Ishita did as he wished , else one mistake and he would be back to mere bacchhe. They loved her coz she was sacrificing all the time. We never really got to see their good alone times- not a single holiday as a couple. Now suddenly there is a leap and we will perhaps see Adi mohabbatein but not Ishra. In any case, with what Raman is doing now, it proves Ishita was right to run away...

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Well, I just said the same thing in Gan's thread. Did he really love Ishita? The entire Bhallas loved her when she did as per their bidding and solved their problems. But they were very quick to blame her for the smallest things. Raman too would be happy so long as Ishita did as he wished , else one mistake and he would be back to mere bacchhe. They loved her coz she was sacrificing all the time. We never really got to see their good alone times- not a single holiday as a couple. Now suddenly there is a leap and we will perhaps see Adi mohabbatein but not Ishra. In any case, with what Raman is doing now, it proves Ishita was right to run away...

Unfortunately, I agree about the Bhalla's except Raman

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I agree Raman made a huge mistake and said things he shouldn't have. I am sure this will be dealt with on the show further. But don't let that make you question if he ever loved Ishita. While trying to save herself, she accidentally murdered someone and Raman fought tooth and nail to protect her. Similarly when he thought she was haunted or had a spirit in her, he didn't leave her side. She wasn't sacrificing then in his knowledge. IshRa both love each other, but they're both flawed and fools...their character traits don't take away the love they have for each other. This whole discussion now is going overboard.

I just wanted some justification on Raman's behalf. I don't doubt his love for his Madrasan, no I don't but it was itching me since I read a certain post. Thanks for the justified stance.

This is the same man who bowed down to ashok and touched his shoes in return to help ishita during the stupid bhoot track, and the extent he went to save her during her execution, even becoming bad in the eyes of others, you have to be stupid to doubt his love.

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Well, I just said the same thing in Gan's thread. Did he really love Ishita? The entire Bhallas loved her when she did as per their bidding and solved their problems. But they were very quick to blame her for the smallest things. Raman too would be happy so long as Ishita did as he wished , else one mistake and he would be back to mere bacchhe. They loved her coz she was sacrificing all the time. We never really got to see their good alone times- not a single holiday as a couple. Now suddenly there is a leap and we will perhaps see Adi mohabbatein but not Ishra. In any case, with what Raman is doing now, it proves Ishita was right to run away...

Originally posted by: 07sid01

This is the same man who bowed down to ashok and touched his shoes in return to help ishita during the stupid bhoot track, and the extent he went to save her during her execution, even becoming bad in the eyes of others, you have to be stupid to doubt his love.

I'm definitely not stupid! I know exactly how much he loves her. I created this thread to try and understand his current behaviour 😃

Nothing related to his behaviour or anything.. but I won't want such a hubby even in my nightmare.. Cos, I believe no woman deserves such harsh, brutal treatment from her hubby in the name of love😃.