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Yesterday I told naa it is open and shut case. But then how can CVs show Swa suddenly so smart and make her think like a lawyer. How can she understand the dirty games that her idol is playing so early.
Swa doesn't understand, she becomes a typical headstrong girl. Her father wont apologize. The fact she doesn't see is her father is also at fault, only thing she needs to ensure is Ahuja apologizes first.
Second she never understood from where Adarsh frustration came. Adarsh was about to speak for Appa and Simmi hit him, hit his pride so hard. That you will take the side of your sasural. Please any young girls out there understand that men have a pride that they are independent decision takers. They are not influenced by others and society too extracts a hard price from men like Adarsh who are trying to balance it out both. " Joru Ka Ghulam" is the title given to them. The fact that Appa slapped Ahuja had put Adarsh in a backfoot. If Appa had kept his emotions in check, spoke to Suhas that he cant take the berating anymore and hence he is going, it would have given Adarsh the ammunition to fight. Even Jai would have sided him. But Appa's slap as he rightly says to Swa has put him in a tight spot.
Second cardinal mistake. Who asked Swa to cut Adarsh in between. She knew what Adarsh wanted. He had made it clear. Who asked her to override that in public. She has to respect his choice and if he thinks he is wrong, she has to discuss it out with him, why she thinks so. In the night talk she explained why she came between and Adarsh accepted her POV. He is not an idiot per se. But to override his decision publicly is very girlish of Swa
I told the symbolism right. Swa till take Adarsh pride and run to the top. They will not stay there. Will come down. And then he will go up or his pride will be restored. The new understanding is the ability of a woman to understand and keep a man's pride in public and the knowledge of a man that his real pride is his better half because of whom he is there where he is.
And I loved Jaya in the whole episode. She told the most valid point. It is Ahuja vs Ramakrishnan. Why did Simmi come in between.
And I feel tomorrow Suhas is going to be defeated not by Swa the professional lawyer, but most probably Revathi and hopefully Subaida who are not professional lawyers, but women who have seen life, women who knew what managing relations means and above all mothers.
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