oceanbubble thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#1
Ok...so there are many opinions doing the rounds about how Bihaan has crossed the line of badtameezi...& about how he has lost his mind...he is not in his senses...he seems drunk...He is hiding something...& all that stuff...

So as an UN-OFFICIAL spokesperson of Team-Bihaan, here are my two cents regarding the whole fiasco...😆😆😆

I really don't think there is anything hidden, or wrong in his behaviour...
Maybe the reason that everyone is finding it weird is because the fact is that he has never expressed himself...his sorrows in front of anyone...

He has never ever spoken for himself in front of the family...

Whatever those ppl did to him...he took it as it was...whether he liked it or not...

So maybe somewhere deep down there were frustrations bottled up inside him...& with his family taking Thapki's side...thinking she is sooo good...that he should wash her feet & drink (like seriously🤢) has taken its toll on him...He has exploded like an atom bomb...
He is frustrated because everyone sides Thapki & no one understands him...& he cannot, even now, reveal the truth to anyone...because if he tells everyone why Thapki was staying there...that would mean his maa's truth would be out...So I am rather feeling bad for him...😭😭
All his badtameezi is making sense to me (coz I myself am a badtameez..😆😆)...

The man needs to let it all flow out of his system...but poor thing...no one can understand him what he has gone through...😭
He is very much right here...
Whatever he did...was in front of everyone...everyone cursed him...& supported Thapki...

But what Thapki did is hidden...he has not cried about it like Thapki does all the time...
I remember that Diwali Daan thing...there also...Thapki had to drop two tears...& everyone melted...No one even once thought that Bihaan could not do something like this...esp. if he was so vehemently denying it...

What was Bihaan's fault...Just because he couldn't cry like Thapki, that does not mean that his words are not to be taken...No one listened to him that day...despite him saying again & again that he didn't write Thapki's name...& he was made to apologise for something that he didn't do...
Today the same situations have arised...Everyone is blaming him for what all that has happened, asking him to apologise to the MAHAANEST of all atmaas..& sympathizing with Thapki...because SHE is obviously crying...& therefore, SHE is the only one who is hurt...
I HATE THAPKI..😡 She is the worst FL i have ever come across...All that mahaanta ka naatak...Well then madam, if u can be mahaan & forgiving for the whole world, why can you not be that Mahaan & forgiving when it comes to Bihaan...?😡

& this Pandey Family is the worst...I mean when you adopt a child...you just do not remind him again & again what all you did to him...as an ehsaan (Favor)...We provided u shelter...we provided you home...we gave u food to eat...Blah blah blah...He did NOT beg u folks to give him a place to stay...You took him in yourself...So why throw the fact at his face again & again...😡
He has been grateful all his life for the family to have taken him in...& has repaid all the ehsaan with his unconditional love & respect for the family...He did things which the very own sons of the house could not have done...& even if after all that...the family ends up blaming him...then I would want Bihaan to actually leave that Excuse-of-a-Family...& live his life...

Bohot sar pe chadha k rakha h thapki ko in Pandeys ne...That is exactly what is Bihaan's problem...No one listens to him when it comes to Thapki...WHY..? Just because she is a woman, & he is not...? Because she can cry at the drop of a hat...& he cannot..?😡
Loving your DIL is a very good thing...but is this much obsession good...? They believe Thapki over Bihaan, because Thapki cannot do anything wrong...Then where was this trust when she was being framed...?? Then Bihaan was supporting her...& he was being blamed for that as well...
This family just needs reasons to blame Bihaan, & throw the fact at his face that he does not love his family, he does not care for them, because he is not their own...
I am rather happy that he has stood up for himself...but the family is Moti-Buddhi...they still won't understand his reasons & his frustrations...😡
PS: This has already been posted by me in some other thread...but rt asked me to make a separate post...So anyone who feels annoyed reading the same rant again & again...I sincerely apologise...

Created

Last reply

Replies

16

Views

1.3k

Users

14

Likes

68

Frequent Posters

PenguinBaby thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 9 years ago
#2
Very very true words! He also needs to get this out of his system! He's also a human being after all!
fan.matsh thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#3
It's so very true Sakshi. I wud love him to move out of PN n make himself a life outside. Away from Thapki n everyone else. It's pathetic. No adopted child shud b treated differently from their own. Loved ur rant!
Preeti126 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#4
You are absolutely right...
Yesterday i liked thapki..now after all these olvs i am same again..this girl again ruined everything.Just bcos of her bihaan became like dat..bauji slapped him. Everyone is blaming him. Not only thapki everyone in dat house has taken him granted..
Now his frustration is coming out like this..but after all this also he won't feel better..he will feel guilty now everyone will accuse him for stabbing bauji..poor bihaan..
ParHarPar thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#5
Hmm Guddoo..he said evrything right..100% right..but I don't have courage to watch it..😭I hope stabbing knife will turn out as a nightmare..
oceanbubble thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: PHP_069

Hmm Guddoo..he said evrything right..100% right..but I don't have courage to watch it..😭I hope stabbing knife will turn out as a nightmare..


Haan Paru...Even I hope this stabbing thing is a nightmare...I so want it to be someone's dream sequence...
.Karna thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#7
Yes, i agreed ,poor bihaan cannot even explain his doings to them in order to save maa, this is also true if you help someone or do a good deed to them ,you should not remind them on daily basis, this PN family keep on ranting about their favours to him,
P.D.Dutta thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#8
Cross posting from another thread..


I am happy that Bihaan at last have the courage to stand for him. But the situation that pushed him into it is something intolerable for me. Just like Maty said that no adopted child should go through this. I am a mother myself and it broke my heart when Bihaan had to go to exctrene level just to kick out his frustration.

NO ONE SHOULD HAVE A FATE LIKE BIHAAN PANDEY, NEVER
fun4ever89 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#9
I just can't understand this family at all it's also not that they trust Thapki either if they did they would not have thrown her out of PN and believed her and would not have believed that she could mix their Dada ji's ashes with tea and all that has happened in the past if Shraddha has succeeded in her plan of fake abortion and blamed it on Thapki they would have accepted it their opinions change with the speed of light 😕

And coming to Bihaan I mean yeah he is justified because when they needed to trust Thapki they themselves threw her out of house and only Bihaan supported her so why they are giving him lecture on what he should and should not do 😡

And why Bauji is lamenting that he took him in instead of waiting for everyone to calm down sometimes we say things when we are angry which we don't really mean and Bihaan is shown to be a volatile character.

In truth I find PN to be very selfish both in the case of Bihaan and Thapki.


Edited by fun4ever89 - 9 years ago
rtms thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#10
Sakshi u made the post😃.well said👏.but it's really sad that no one understands him.he is all alone.he was an orphan and even now it's proved that he is an orphan only.my only question is "is thapki going to stand by him".
Edited by rtms - 9 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".