Maybe the reason that everyone is finding it weird is because the fact is that he has never expressed himself...his sorrows in front of anyone...
He has never ever spoken for himself in front of the family...
Whatever those ppl did to him...he took it as it was...whether he liked it or not...
So maybe somewhere deep down there were frustrations bottled up inside him...& with his family taking Thapki's side...thinking she is sooo good...that he should wash her feet & drink (like seriously🤢) has taken its toll on him...He has exploded like an atom bomb...
He is frustrated because everyone sides Thapki & no one understands him...& he cannot, even now, reveal the truth to anyone...because if he tells everyone why Thapki was staying there...that would mean his maa's truth would be out...So I am rather feeling bad for him...😭😭
All his badtameezi is making sense to me (coz I myself am a badtameez..😆😆)...
The man needs to let it all flow out of his system...but poor thing...no one can understand him what he has gone through...😭
He is very much right here...
Whatever he did...was in front of everyone...everyone cursed him...& supported Thapki...
But what Thapki did is hidden...he has not cried about it like Thapki does all the time...
I remember that Diwali Daan thing...there also...Thapki had to drop two tears...& everyone melted...No one even once thought that Bihaan could not do something like this...esp. if he was so vehemently denying it...
What was Bihaan's fault...Just because he couldn't cry like Thapki, that does not mean that his words are not to be taken...No one listened to him that day...despite him saying again & again that he didn't write Thapki's name...& he was made to apologise for something that he didn't do...
Today the same situations have arised...Everyone is blaming him for what all that has happened, asking him to apologise to the MAHAANEST of all atmaas..& sympathizing with Thapki...because SHE is obviously crying...& therefore, SHE is the only one who is hurt...
I HATE THAPKI..😡 She is the worst FL i have ever come across...All that mahaanta ka naatak...Well then madam, if u can be mahaan & forgiving for the whole world, why can you not be that Mahaan & forgiving when it comes to Bihaan...?😡
& this Pandey Family is the worst...I mean when you adopt a child...you just do not remind him again & again what all you did to him...as an ehsaan (Favor)...We provided u shelter...we provided you home...we gave u food to eat...Blah blah blah...He did NOT beg u folks to give him a place to stay...You took him in yourself...So why throw the fact at his face again & again...😡
He has been grateful all his life for the family to have taken him in...& has repaid all the ehsaan with his unconditional love & respect for the family...He did things which the very own sons of the house could not have done...& even if after all that...the family ends up blaming him...then I would want Bihaan to actually leave that Excuse-of-a-Family...& live his life...
Bohot sar pe chadha k rakha h thapki ko in Pandeys ne...That is exactly what is Bihaan's problem...No one listens to him when it comes to Thapki...WHY..? Just because she is a woman, & he is not...? Because she can cry at the drop of a hat...& he cannot..?😡
Loving your DIL is a very good thing...but is this much obsession good...? They believe Thapki over Bihaan, because Thapki cannot do anything wrong...Then where was this trust when she was being framed...?? Then Bihaan was supporting her...& he was being blamed for that as well...
This family just needs reasons to blame Bihaan, & throw the fact at his face that he does not love his family, he does not care for them, because he is not their own...