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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: SPuja


People started bashing CVs before watching the episode. But Anandi was not bashed. Harsh things were said about her only after people brought M or others to defend Anandi.

I agree.

And since this is not a real life story, but something that CVs could control, CVs could come up with a scene / logic / reason where J could also light the pyre.

I have not watched today's episode. Yet to know what unfolded.
Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
@esha Some people dig in long gone past and twist it according to their own convenience how they can use it to defend Anandi and blame Jagya then they make fun of us we are bashing their poor Anandi and Mangala is not concerned with this topic so how she got in here i dont understand

People keep on bringing logics Anandi has earned her place in BH family but very easily forget about how much Jagya has done for this family ? In this present age when people don't bother about their parents and grandparents i have seen that with my own eyes how children once grow up ill treat their parents . Jagya has been such a loving son Such a blessing for singhs Why he does not deserve credit for it?what he did not do for his family and Dadisaa that Anandi especially did ?Even if people are dragging Gauri's phase , these people's own Anandi said to Dadisaa on her divorce day with jagya .''. Jagya loves you very much ''Didn't she ?How can anyone raise question on Jagya's love for Dadisaa when it has been shown again and again how much he loves his Dadisaa?

and from how long he is staying with Dadisaa and serving her ?He was there with her till her last breathe

Is it Jagya and Sugna's fault they are born in Singhs that people are making them some sort of lesser beings they are with Dadisaa by default?

where we bashed Anandi we criticized cvs for their unfair behavior They could give everyone a share in Dadisaa's funeral Make Anandi and Ganga dress her up and let Jagya lit up her pyre or make everyone lit the pyre together Anandi Jagya Ganga Mannu Abhi Shivam Nandini together but no , they are snatching Jagya's right to glorify Anandi and Dadisaa's relation then why we should not criticize cvs ?We are not blinded with Anandi to accept their every unfair treatment with other characters and i have a long list of how much cvs have done unfair treatment with other characters , snatched their rights , butchered their characters to glorify Anandi and one more added in it how Jagya's right is snatched and handed over to Anandi and we are blaming cvs for it Where did we bash Anandi Its some people in defense of Anandi started bashing Jagya
Edited by BeatifulSoul_ - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
Anandi can perform the customs of daughter who is objecting her on that ?Its not like only son does everything Daughters perform many customs as well Anandi can perform all the customs of beti Infact Ganga too deserves a share in that . She has done so much for Dadisaa Ganga deserves some credit for this but what are customs of son Jagya should be performing that
The main objection of viewers on cvs is that Anandi has got and performed all customs of daughter but why she is taking over son's customs as well which being elder grandson are Jagya's right?

i have objection on disappearance of Bhairon , sumi , Sugna ,shyam ,varun , shagun , khajan , gehna , niranjan, Nandu , Bharavi , amol , and even shekhars from Dadisaa's funeral but then cvs have disappeared these characters from the show never to return again ( illogical but we have no choice other than accepting ) but at least Jagya Mannu Abhi are present?why they are not given their rights? Mannu and abhi are completely disappeared God knows where and Jagya's rights are handed over to Anandi . Not acceptable

if Anandi is Dadisaa's chidkali Jagya is her ladesar if we have seen Anandi and Dadisaa's bonding growing up stronger in all these years we have seen Jagya and Dadisaa's too . Why should Anandi and Dadisaa's bond be glorified at the cost of Jagya and Dadisaa's bond?Giving fire to his Dadisaa's pyre is Jagya's right and cvs if are giving Anandi that right then they are indeed giving Jagya's right to Anandi and thats not right
Edited by mahi12 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
and i dont understand on which basis some people are comparing Jagya and Anandi?
if we don't see Jagya mentioning about Sugna , Bhairon and Sumi we have also not seen them dying in terrible condition and Jagya was totally unaware of terrible condition of his parents and his sister ?We have criticized cvs enough times for illogical disappearance of sugna , shyam , Bhairon , sumi its strange at that time these very same people who are questioning us now we criticize Anandi for forgetting about Khajan and Bhago does not raise question on these people's disappearance , when we raise these people come in cvs defense mode and tell us their story has been finished they have no place in the show now 😆but the fact is we have criticized cvs for it but why we have not criticized Jagya simply because we have not seen his parents and his sister dying in terrible condition and he was unaware of their this condition so we can assume Jagya is being in touch of them

we could assume same for Anandi in case of Bhago and Khajan but Anandi became subject of criticism simply because of cvs flop attempt to gain sympathy for her by killing her mother The way they showed her mother dying , made Anandi a bad daughter who never visited Bilaria in the span of 2 years therefore she was unaware of her mother's condition which was declining from the day she left from haveli shattered as per Khajan's own words , she never told her parents anything about the success in her life , therefore her mother was totally unaware of how well Anandi is doing in her life and she first came to know when Dadisaa told her who by chance got an idea to visit Bhago to make Anandi agree for remarriage . How can we praise Anandi for this ?Even if cvs wanted to kill Bhago they could have shown her death by accident no one would have questioned but dying carving for her daughter's support , carving to hear she is doing well in her life How this is acceptable ?
Same way she came to know about Khajan when someone from her village told her father is extremely sick otherwise Anandi had no clue about her father's condition

People even if live in another country are aware of whats happening in their parents lives How Anandi was unaware of all that staying so close to her parents ?People in defense of Anandi are still bashing Jagya when he was in Mumbai but even when he was in Mumbai he was very much aware of all the details of whats happening in his family 's life and was always there for them in their difficult times They don't accept his help and , reject him but he never stopped coming to them to help them when they needed their son but the great loving daughter Anandi wasn't there for Bhago when she needed her There was no use to cry over her funeral later when she was never there for her mother when her mother needed her Anandi is criticized where cvs have shown her wrong and its not our fault if great original writers of balika vadhu don't have any sense how to glorify their lead and make her appear good in viewers eyes
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Posted: 9 years ago
If Anandi has as much rights on Dadisaa as Jagya has why she is being over glorified ?
Anandi alone has decked up Dadisaa why Ganga does not deserve any share it ?Didn't Ganga love Dadisaa?Hasn't she done anything for Dadisaa? Ganga has performed every duty of the daughter in law whole heartedly and she even risked her life to fulfill Dadisaa's wish and first word she said when Abhi was born and she saw him for the first time she said ''Dadisaa ''Why such loving grand daughter in law does not deserve to decorate her grand mother in law whom she loved more than her life , whose wishes were above her life for her why she cannot decorate her grand mother in law for the last time along with Anandi?No one has said why Anandi is doing that but people are questioning cvs why they did not make Ganga do that also ?

No one has asked why Nandini and shivam are shown on Dadisaa's funeral people are asking why abhi and mannu are not shown ?what excuse cvs have for this

Giving fire to his Dadisaa's pyre is Jagya's right why he is not given that ? Anandi has got her right as daughter she dressed up Dadisaa for her last journey but giving fire to Dadisaa's pyre is Jagya's right why he is not given his right ?if people are mad at cvs for this They are right

As far as some people busy demeaning Jagya I don't know what less Jagya has done for Dadisaa than a good grandson ? He was always there for her even in Gauri's phase It was his love for his family that Gauri could not digest because she hated his family and was vengeful against them Dadisaa could not move even two steps when Basant died and Bhairon was too not with her She was shattered badly It was not Anandi who supported Dadisaa then it was Jagya who was standing as pillar of support with her Jagya has always been with Dadisaa in all ups and downs of her life as pillar of support for her He took her to school holding her finger and educated her when she depressed for her chidkali when shiv died Jagya gave her emotional support thats how she was able to support Anandi Jagya has not kept Anandi in BH for his personal interest but he has never objected his Dadisaa 's wish she wants to stay with Anandi in BH . Dadisaa cries buckets in front of Jagya for Anandi's problems and expects Jagya to solve them and he has never replied her back why i should ?How much love , respect he has in his heart for Dadisaa people here devaluing that just to glorify Anandi indeed left a bad taste in mouth and so is cvs giving everything to Anandi even Jagya's rights

Blood relations are gift of God They have their own place People should not devalue blood relations saying they are by default or just natural nothing more They are actually a blessing and Dadisaa is an extremely lucky lady all children from her blood line love her immensely Its another thing cvs does not want to acknowledge their love for Dadisaa in blind obsession for Anandi
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Posted: 9 years ago
Very funny how some people are themselves busy blaming Jagya even misleading serial to prove Anandi is the only true beti of haveli and then blaming us we are bashing poor Anandi by calling her Dadisaa's only laadli , only Anandi is everything for Dadisaa , cvs are glorifying Anandi blah blah blah
but arent some people who are blaming us themselves trying to prove same thing otherwise what is purpose of these heaps of blames on Jagya

What a neutral logics some people think they can bash other characters as much as they want but no one should touch their pyari Anandi and should bow down every unfair treatment of cvs with other characters for Anandi's sake?🥱

Of course some people will not find it Jagya's insult that Anandi is lighting up the pyre of Dadisaa because as long as Anandi is given preference is everything and all other bow down their rights in front of her some people remain happy and don't feel any wrong in this but as soon as someone starts objecting he becomes bad

Can someone explain to me which other customs Jagya can perform ? Flow Dadisaa's ashes in Ganges river What a huge favor on Jagya's seven births He will get the right to flow his own Dadisaa's ashes because Anandi is going to die before that 😆who knows she dies after doing this honor too then what is left for Jagya ?


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Posted: 9 years ago
Now i am seriously having doubts on TOI's synopsis Jagya kills Akhiraj not possible In that way he will avenge Dadisaa's murder from Akhiraj Wont this world end for cvs if this happened?😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
The other characters were not heavily criticised, because no one actually heavily defended them for their flaws either.

For example: if someone writes "why is Bhairon missing?", everybody will agree that Bhairon missing at Basant / Dsa's funeral is an inappropriate thing. There is no need for debate or defence because everyone agrees instantly

The moment we wrote; "why CVs left Jagya out from lighting funeral pyre, and why couldn't they show J and A both doing Mukhagni, when Dsa loved them both equally?" what we got in response is:

- How is Anandi Dsa's beti / haveli ki beti
- How Mangala got more screen space while exposing Akheraj
- How Dsa never tried to take Bhago's place in Anandi's life,
- How Anandi is not trying to take Jagya's place, but at the same time Anandi is haveli ka beta.
- How if M can claim rights on N, then why can't A be Dsa's beti... etc etc etc...

when actually none of the above reasons answer the actual question. But people somehow have to emphasise that Anandi is whole and sole for DSa, while existence of others do not matter.

When such kind of responses are received counter arguments are bound to happen, and this leads to the endless circle of objections and defence.


very true Esha We are actually criticizing cvs We never said why Anandi is performing last rites of Dadisaa we are asking why she is alone doing that in presence of Jagya ? why Jagya is not given his rights ? They could show Anandi and Ganga dressing up Dadisaa for her final journey ( even though sugna , bharavi too deserve share in this but chalo since cvs have forgot about them we too pretend to have memory loss and forget about them but Ganga is very much there How she has done less than a beti for Dadisaa? )and Jagya giving light to her pyre A great farewell for Dadisaa but even if cvs wanted to include Anandi in giving light to Dadisaa's pyre then make all her grandchildren and great grandchildren together give it It would be acceptable too but this not acceptable Anandi has taken over all rights of Dadisaa
We have questioned cvs on that Up came defense for cvs How Anandi is the beti of Dadisaa , how only she deserved this right Jagya does not ,

It is not very big insult of jagya ( how it is not ?As son it was his right since Basant and Bhairon are not there next in line comes Jagya and it is his right if his right is given to Anandi its indeed his insult because cvs are showcasing Anandi as son and daughter both of Dadisaa Not fair with Jagya and sugna ),
Anandi is not trying to take Jagya's place in BH but at same time people are making Anandi beta of BH isn't it giving Jagya's place to Anandi ?because Jagya is grandson while Anandi is a granddaughter of Dadisaa.
Jagya relation with Dadisaa is only by default , natural Nothing special in that while Anandi's relation with Dadisaa is more special ( wonder if blood relations are so useless What same people have views about their own blood relations ?)
People have started bashing and putting heaps of blames on Jagya He left his parents , he was ashamed of them ( God knows when ?)Thank God Dadisaa has not forgot that If Jagya had been so so bad why Dadisaa was keeping him with her and crying in front of him for her and her chidkali's problems ?why same people who think Jagya is so bad are expecting such bad person to raise kids of Anandi ? hmmm?

even Mangala is brought in this topic to tell us how she snatched Anandi's rights Mangala is irrelevant to this topic Even i can discuss a long lists of injustices cvs have done with jagya and Ganga to glorify Anandi Snatched their rights in illogical way to give it Anandi but that will be discussing old story not relevant to the topic For now i am only questioning cvs why they snatched Jagya's right and gave it to Anandi ?They have shown Jagya an excellent grandson They have made Dadisaa say in the past she is blessed to have him as her son Cvs may have forgot but we are not amnesic it was always Dadisaa ardent wish that Jagya perform her last rites because he has always been her most beloved grand child No matter what people say in defense of Anandi but in the past she has never given Jagya's place to Anandi Anandi made her own place in Dadisaa's life but she could not never take Jagya's place nor Dadisaa gave her and this has been said in serial many times so now cvs this 360 degree turn is unacceptable and we will criticize cvs for their unfair behavior with Jagya , Anandi fans like it or not

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