Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 12

Originally posted by: anjs

i didnt want to reply to this thread...since i have already written a lot here, but since u mentioned a valid comment so m replying.

Every individual has a different coping mechannism, that I agree...but the main difference here being your friends has her kids so fortunately she hasnt gone through the mostful dreadful pain that a parent can go through.

This is way if u compare, then one of my neighbours lost her kid to kidnapping. Her 7 year old son got kidnapped and they found the dead body after 2 days. That woman was under immense trauma for 6-7 months...she had stopped living a normal life...after lots of treatment n all, she is living a little better today...but till date she can't speak...she has lost her will to, and all this despite her having 2 more childrens elder to the boy she lost.

though i understand her need to keep aside her pain, immediately, due to Mani's accident and take care of Aliya...but i dont understand her need to dress up the way, that she never dressed up even when Ruhi was alive.

Just to make it easier to people who doesnt understand this thing :

Ishita when Ruhi was alive = Simple makeup, simple saree...looking nice but simple.

Ishita after Ruhi's death = designer Saree, layers of foundation, bright lipstick, bright makeup.

IT doesnt matter that it looks like she has gone through a makeover. Only thing is it tells me, that Ishita's love for Ruhi was probably not that deep...that she could easily start dressing up nicely...She doesnt look like mourning her only love's death...she doesnt look like she hasnt moved on.

Originally posted by: SurabhiA91

Sorry to jump into the discussion but about ishita's look or anyone else's look after leap cannot be dependent on the grief they have just like ishita even mrs bhalla misses ruhi n ishita both but her look after leap is completely opposite of what it was before leap same way raman he is in so much pain n guilt of loosing ishita as well as ruhi but still he has a new wadrobe a complete new look so the point here is it is a daily soap where the cvs to add freshness to the show as well as characters have given a makeover to everyone n they can take this leverage as ot is fiction n nowhere close to reality so comparison with real life situations doesn't make sense its a show n actors are doing their job they in real have not lost their child or wife or daughter inlaw . Someone going through all this in real is totally different from something happening in a daily soap.