Why anandi lives at BH?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why anandi is living in BH?

Because dadisa does not want to shift to SN. Cant abandon her ladesar and his family. She wants to eat cake and have it too.

It is as simple as that. When the eldest member expresses her wish, usually the younger ones cant say No.

But anandi defied dadisa and went to visit Mangala and brought her back?

Anandi was hoping that by defying dadisa, dadisa may ask her to get out and get lost. But dadisa is made of sterner stuff.

The luxuries at BH. What luxuries? They dont have swimming pool, they dont have a bar and they dont have even a dog. Occasionally dadisa buys jewellery for Nimboli. Yes, they celebrate birthdays in a big hall. Birthdays can be celebrated even in a crowded bus. Jewellery is accepted only to please dadisa.

Dadisa is spared running to SN every now and then with a dabba.

As for propriety, kuch to log kahenge.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@leaves now you should start writing why Nimbuli is raised by Jagya or why Nimbuli lives at BH.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi lives in BH because she wants to She can convince Dadisaa but she never tries to convince Dadisaa with a logical reason
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ds will feel bad if anandi go to anywhere to live that is why anandi live at bh
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi lives on BH, which is her ex-husband's home because makers want to her to stay there.


Is this arrangement acceptable socially, legally, logically, culturally or morally? No.

Then should viewers question it or express objections? No. Because after all it Is the makers story and they will show what they want to. Who are we to question?

When that's the kind of logic we get in Anandi's defence, then no point in discussing further.

Anyways, Anandi is soon exiting. And even if she was to stay in BH forever it doesn't matter anymore.

The conclusion that she is weak, dependent and clingy won't change. Neither will society get inspired to start welcoming their ex bahus to stay with them forever.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Because Anandi is only lead of the show AND haweli is main location of the show.
It's quite silly to live with your ex, his wife and his kids. If cvs never wanted Anandi to move out of haweli, they should have introduced shiv as a lost child of bhairav-sumitra or basant to justify her stay in haweli.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Explanations Anandi can't say no to Dsa because she doesn't like to hurt her feelings
Anandi doesn't believe that her honour will take a beating if she is living under the same roof as her husband.Simple.If your heart is clean you don't have to answer any one .You are not answerable to the society as long as you are not doing any harm to the society.Her living arrangements are her own business and society has no business to poke their nose into her life.

Anandi was willing to defy Dsa if she objected her helping Mangala.She probably would have shifted to SN for the sake of Mangala. This is because of her own beliefs of what is right and what is wrong.She wouldn't let her love and soft corner for Dsa influence her in this.


She wanted to shift out because she wanted space for herself and her children and that is her personal interest.She put Dsa's feelingsabove her interests by giving into the lady.


Do I like seeing Anandi in BH? The answer is NO.Do I think her staying in BH is wrong?The answer is again a NO.

I want Anandi to shift to SN because it lookslike a nest a bird hasbuilt for herself.SN feels like Anandi Shiv's home so I would like to see her shift to SN for this reason.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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And now Nandini will be taking care of Jagya and Ganga as a daughter until she goes to her sasural. Yesterday it was a cute scene seeing her giving tea to Jagya.

And the doctor couple will take care of her and her brother whenever they get poisoned by Bhabhoot.

When stones are thrown at, anandi needs treatment.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Explanations Anandi can't say no to Dsa because she doesn't like to hurt her feelings

Anandi doesn't believe that her honour will take a beating if she is living under the same roof as her husband.Simple.If your heart is clean you don't have to answer any one .You are not answerable to the society as long as you are not doing any harm to the society.Her living arrangements are her own business and society has no business to poke their nose into her life.

Anandi was willing to defy Dsa if she objected her helping Mangala.She probably would have shifted to SN for the sake of Mangala. This is because of her own beliefs of what is right and what is wrong.She wouldn't let her love and soft corner for Dsa influence her in this.


She wanted to shift out because she wanted space for herself and her children and that is her personal interest.She put Dsa's feelingsabove her interests by giving into the lady.


Do I like seeing Anandi in BH? The answer is NO.Do I think her staying in BH is wrong?The answer is again a NO.

I want Anandi to shift to SN because it looks like a nest a bird has built for herself. SN feels like Anandi Shiv's home so I would like to see her shift to SN for this reason.


We have been excusing so many of Anandi's decision by her soft-hearted(ness) and her ability to put others' needs above her that it has started to look unconvincing to me. 🥱

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks


We have been excusing so many of Anandi's decision by her soft-hearted(ness) and her ability to put others' needs above her that it has started to look unconvincing to me. 🥱

Nobody's trying to convince anyone.
It is all about how people perceive what is shown.

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