I truly hope it's worth it - Page 2

They're back to where they started..." Ruhi ke liye"...

Gan, I need a hug. Honestly. I don't know why I even bother with this show anymore. But it hurts and everything they do hurts - not because the show matters and I care, but because this is the media representation of our society. And as an Indian, this disgusts me because no matter how much one claims that this is just the idiot box, fact remains that it isn't. It's the first line of thought that forms views and perception among many areas and such a mass audience.

Hi Gan

Originally posted by: -Ara-

Gan, I need a hug.

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🤗🤗🤗🤗 Ki

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Gan

Sorry I'm going to rant.

I am so mad after reading the segment about Raman dialogue to Ishita it is pathetic what we saw in this 2.5 years of IshRa building their relationship all gone to dust as soon as Ruhi is not there their relationship is also not there so basically they never moved from sirf Ruhi ke liye clause

Dialogue for Raman pathetic they made him worse than Subbu at least Subbu left her saying only that she could not give a child but here Raman dialogue made her feel worthless so what are they conveying here if a woman cannot bear a child she is inauspicious and should be forbidden from ever getting love or allowed near any family otherwise she will bring her bad luck to that family.

They have successfully diverted the topic of the surrogate baby arrival and to keep Shagun in Raman life they gave such crappiest dialogue to Raman

The killed RKB character beyond redemption to keep Shagun in the loop post leap.

I hope their trp hits rock bottom even after post leap they come back together I don't think I can enjoy IshRa together as I enjoyed now because everything would be a false facade

I will not be watching yhm post leap at least they gave final mourning to Raman in this track before killing him

Sigh Gan, only your posts make me feel and reach to this show. I loathe the makers and the channel for being so disrespectful . In the quest for business they have pricked the hearts of many women who suffer from fertility issues and honestly every woman should be ashamed of what is being shown here.

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Amen, Maya.

These aren't the characters we were introduced to, but this most definitely was not the Raman we were introduced to.

These writers have no shame in demeaning a woman for the sake of drama and after 1 year of dealing with this type of sh*t...it's still shocking.

I wish TRPs would tank with this track but god knows what the general viewing public likes or doesn't like. Shows like SNS top so sadly they may love it.

YHM is so good a doing two things - (1) killing hope and (2) forever destroying togetherness & peace of mind.

YHM makers/actors/crew often target their loyal audience, labeling them as "bashers, haters, fools, etc" but do they not realize that these people made them, this jodi, and this show famous. People foolishly stuck around waiting for something good.

A separation would've been amazing with angst and powerful acting with an AMAZING reunion, but after constantly demeaning sex in a marriage and infertility and reducing their lead couple to people who not only keep secrets but also utterly and pathetically demean one of the partners...I once again finding myself hoping IshRa never become IshRa again. How can we continue to justify this couple as "perfect"? For the sake of drama, the purity of a relationship is tainted...and guess what love should NOT hurt like this.

Indian TV shows grotesque relationships in the name of "love" - be it the love of a couple, of a parent-child, of a family, etc...love isn't just about sacrifice or bearing pain silently. The reality is these indian TV couples who separate should truly have no scope for reunion b/c this "love" is destructive and demoralizing.

Like Gan said - is this worth it? Be it for the sake of one character or extra drama...was this tale of surrogacy and now separation and leap worth it? It's like one giant "eff you" with multiple middle fingers to people who tried to hope.

And sadly I still want to be wrong despite being a pretty highly functioning, sensitive human...I want to have my interpretation of the segment to be wrong so I can watch this show and find some happiness like I did with this last track (until yesterday).

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Krishy,

I know this is a drama and it is their show they can kill it any time they want but it kind of hurts because I got attached to the character during the initial stages of yhm mainly because the core concept of the show was different from every run down the mill show and they had amazing cast who could act and every character was grey shaded some with little bit more white shades and some with little bit more black shades which I could relate too.

Now I cannot relate too any character either they became fully black or fully white but still stuck to the show because of IshRa love and their magic chemistry which made the scene sizzle even without touching each other and their amazing acting abilities but right now they have killed the core concept of the show by making Raman utter these crappiest dialogues.

I know people say it a show so should not take it to heart as they are only for trp but as a woman it bothers me when they degrade the woman by showing her she is a sacrificing devi making her mahan why should woman always sacrifice her happiness for family sake?

Infertility is a sensitive issues already we have lot of inhibitions in the society to accept people who are suffering with this complication but tv is a powerful media somehow in the initial stages I think YHM made a small impact in breaking the barriers for these woman but now they are driving a bigger wedge for them because this show is more popular and sometimes what happens in the media is taken as the ultimate truth.

I so wish that trp drops down to rock bottom for this track

Yep and what is the absolute worst to me is that those dialogs were NOT needed for whatever separation/leap they had in store. It seems like the circumstance was bad enough to "justify" a separation...

But these FEMALE writers wrote this dialog for a MALE character who initially showed reproductive status didn't matter to say to a FEMALE struggling with infertility and a botched identity due to society's taunts. They ripped away ANY hope, be it a fictional medium, that a woman who cannot reproduce can ever be valued and find true love as a woman. They reduced sex to procreation & the value of a human to their parenting & reproductive abilities. How can any person - man or woman - not find it heart-breaking that true love means what YHM wants to show next?

How I wish it's not what it obviously looks like but i have no true hope that this isn't about to become one of BT's most pathetic and insulting serials ever!

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Yep and what is the absolute worst to me is that those dialogs were NOT needed for whatever separation/leap they had in store. It seems like the circumstance was bad enough to "justify" a separation...

But these FEMALE writers wrote this dialog for a MALE character who initially showed reproductive status didn't matter to say to a FEMALE struggling with infertility and a botched identity due to society's taunts. They ripped away ANY hope, be it a fictional medium, that a woman who cannot reproduce can ever be valued and find true love as a woman. They reduced sex to procreation & the value of a human to their parenting & reproductive abilities. How can any person - man or woman - not find it heart-breaking that true love means what YHM wants to show next?

How I wish it's not what it obviously looks like but i have no true hope that this isn't about to become one of BT's most pathetic and insulting serials ever!