Bitter Realities...

Ever wondered why in the event of finding oneself in a situation, where one is to face , a bitter truth about our ownselves, be it related to our own persona , or our lives, we chose to clamp up , and battle with our ownselves...rather than world...

But amidst the battle, the people , closest to our hearts are the ones who suffer the wrath of a disappointed heart....

"Stop talking to me " we say... "Dont ever show me your face..." we say...

Wonder why we are requesting them still, when all we want to do is to get away from them to be alone with ourselves...

Possibly coz, we know, and we realize , deep down in our hearts, we would never be able to resist ourselves from running to them for all the support and pouring our heart to them...

Guided by the noetic, all we bring ourselves to convey , with a undertone of request and pleading, is that we need to be alone with our thoughts, but yet since we cannot bring ourselves to walk away from them, we plead them in mock anger to walk away from us , in vain hope , that they would indeed walk away.. helping us fight the battle...

Much as it is painful to see our loved ones walk away from us, what pains the heart even more is to walk away from them ourselves , when in all honesty, all that the heart wants , is to find solace in their company...

Wise men say simple things ought to be kept simple and not complicated anymore than they are perceived to be, but alas such is the human nature , that caught amidst the strings of the heart, simple things remain so , no more... and painted a different picture with the colors of a rainbow heart!!!

Afternote: Ridhima has let her heart be painted with the color Armaan's love , and much as she might want to be alone , move into her shell, she would be unable to walk away from him and his affections and all she is likely to do, is ask him to walk away or drive away from herself... !

-Sareeta

Another great post, Sareeta!! 👏 👏

Although I'm currently massively irritated with Ridz's character...I just love the way you've described the turmoil a person goes through, resulting in illogical reactions...It's all so true! I feel Shilpa should read your posts once in a while 😉 😆...I'm sure she would get a much better understanding of the inner mind of Ridz's character then 😉 😆 😆

I'm sure we've all been in such a position atleast once in our lives where we've lashed out at the ppl closest to us, for no fault of theirs, but just wanting to get away from all the "stifling support" in some cases...So I totally identify with this post to a great extent. 😳 😳

In the case of Ridz, I feel the character development has not been good enough to justify this reason for her behavior...and if this is the reason, then it could have been acted much better, in my opinion 😉

Hi Sareeta,

I love reading your post, and well actually was looking out for ur lastest post cus you really describe things well with your analysis. This is no different, well lets just hope Ridz doesnt completely push him away...

Originally posted by: spirit

Hi Sareeta,

I love reading your post, and well actually was looking out for ur lastest post cus you really describe things well with your analysis. This is no different, well lets just hope Ridz doesnt completely push him away...

Awww, thank you Spirit! Am so humbled you enjoy my posts so much!! Thank you... I dont actually intend to analyze or even start on that tangent, but I guess by the time I finish the post, it appears as a total analysis post!! 😆

Honestly speaking this was jus a thought that occured to me when I saw the scene where Ridzy tells her Dr Love.. "Mujhe tumse koi baat nahin karni...mujhse kabhi baat mat karna.." and I wondered , well why doesnt she go away herself.. why do we always ask the others to go away, when all we want to do is run away ourselves... and thatz how the post was born and then aadat se majboor itna saara likh daala... bas dil se!! 😉

hey !!
the way u described the whole scene was rocking .. it was seriously very good .. but ya rite now , i am not exactly liking ridz's charcter as she is behaving miserably wid armaan fr no fault of his .. but yes the turmoil a person goes thru at such a stage in his/her life has been really beautifull depicted by u !!
kudos !!

btw , r u a writer or an author or a poet ?? no , i was just asking coz u write so well ..


keep rockin' ......................


--Tia--

Originally posted by: nureat01

Another great post, Sareeta!! 👏 👏

Although I'm currently massively irritated with Ridz's character...I just love the way you've described the turmoil a person goes through, resulting in illogical reactions...It's all so true! I feel Shilpa should read your posts once in a while 😉 😆...I'm sure she would get a much better understanding of the inner mind of Ridz's character then 😉 😆 😆

I'm sure we've all been in such a position atleast once in our lives where we've lashed out at the ppl closest to us, for no fault of theirs, but just wanting to get away from all the "stifling support" in some cases...So I totally identify with this post to a great extent. 😳 😳

In the case of Ridz, I feel the character development has not been good enough to justify this reason for her behavior...and if this is the reason, then it could have been acted much better, in my opinion 😉

Aaah, thank you Anu... I totally second your thoughts... but to be honest, this wasnt exactly a Ridzy's behavior analysis post... it was more of the line we so often use..."Dont ever dare to speak to me again..."...

Something abt that line caught my attention, I mean I have used that myself and on my bestest buddies , but never really thought of as to why... coz I knew I wanted to be away ... at that moment, but didnt have to courage to do so... and well not surprisingly didnt realize that then...

As far as Ridzy's behavior is concerned, more than her behavior , I think what is putting me off is that insensitive portrayal of those subtle emotions, coz Karan and Mohnish seem take the scene to dizzying heights and she dampens it with her dove eyed looks...

Dunno who to point the finger..the creatives for making her character seems so childish ... and and expecting her to mouth the dialogues with the childish accent ... coz Shilpa has had scenes where she was far from being childish or even sounding like that!

I jus wish the creatives dont limit her to these childish antics and that childish accent ... coz, much as we are struggling to accept it, Shipla herself seems uncomfortable playing that dumb bimbette... and she seems far more comfortable , mouthing dialougues that suit her persona!😕

superb sareeta once again a very very mermerizing ..u write from u heart it literally touches one's soul 👏

Originally posted by: nureat01

I'm sure she would get a much better understanding of the inner mind of Ridz's character then 😉 😆 😆

Yeap completely agree with u😉


In the case of Ridz, I feel the character development has not been good enough to justify this reason for her behavior...and if this is the reason, then it could have been acted much better, in my opinion 😉

Yeap i agree there some serious lack of characterization of Ridhz or Shilpa is not good enough😕. Somehow, i always find that she is not able to emote strong emoticons esp those to anger, grief, worry and helplessness

Her expressions r more or less the same in every situation 😒

cheers

❤️Kai❤️

sareeta....great job....i want to give a more detailed response and generate a new discussion with our favorites here...but we celebrate diwali today...so it will have to wait till tomorrow. am glad i didn't wait till tomorrow to type a short word of appreciation tho!!!

dats amazin as usual 👏 👏 👏

Sareeta,another good one from you.And a good one to discuss Ridz in her current state.But alas with Diwali and wkend..thgs are hectic..will chip in my 2 cents when i can...till then Happy Diwali everyone... 😊