So now Shivam knows Nimboli is his sister - Page 3

Originally posted by: aparnauma

I know some three four collectors' wives personally and one of them is related to me and another one was the mother of my classmates.😛

The one who is related to me is someone very educated but was house wife and had no identity of her own and instead busied herself hosting parties or organising get togethers be it for relatives or her husband's colleagues.

My classmate's mother was too busy hosting parties for her husband and her children used to feel neglected

There are one or two others too who just like other

Came across only one collector's wife who had a full time career in a bank she was a friend of my aunt

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Originally posted by: kase

I guess it depends on an individual.. I have few in my family. None of them are P3 page types not have they set up anything like a NGO. they are normal homemakers and one of them is a doctor and has her professional life.

And it's unfair to say Anandi didn't try to adapt to her new family.. She had in many areas and Shiv never really wanted her to lose her style or past

Originally posted by: Missesha

I think it's unfair and degrading to keep saying that every woman who is a collector's wife will be a party goer or elite class socialist gracing page 3.

And since Anandi was not that type, she is a graceful woman?

How many people here know collectors and their wives personally, to keep passing hollow comments about them?

Why is it overly assumed that collectors' wives are good for nothing party goers?

If Anandi went out partying, nothing wrong with it and if she didn't that's still fine. But why degrade other real life people without knowing about them?

When Anandi got married to Shiv, she was like any other 24 year old who was well educated, belonged to a good family, got into a good sasural and had a life that was dream come true.

But unlike most normal 24 year olds and just marrieds, Anandi didn't make any efforts to know her inlaws or to fit into their culture or to pursue a career .

She started to become a good for nothing cardboard cut out leading an aimless existence, who neither succeeded as a housewife nor a career woman. She neither succeeded as bahu, patni, beti or maa... one confused soul is what she remained to be.

And such confused souls are compared to real life collectors' wives, whom people actually know nothing about?

Originally posted by: Shinya

Also again and again it is written about her Bhaili. What was shown about that bhaili?

A handful of women doing something that they already knew to do and anandi selling their products.

Even those women cheated her later and went their own way by joining anup. After that who knows what happened to her bhaili.

Her bhaili was also a failure.

Originally posted by: kase

How can we say it was a failure? Not enough evidence to conclude either ways as they haven't shown anything about its operations post leap or whether Anandi closed it or handed it over

She may not be a great success professionally today but nothing to show that SN or Bhaili are failed ventures

Originally posted by: Missesha

Actually what they showed about Anup snatching Bhaili's women was quite a bloper and indicative that the MD i.e. Anandi handled her organisation quite poorly.

Yes, poaching happens but not overnight. Employees need to resign and give notice period. People just don't disappear the next day like that.

Moreover at first Bhaili was shown to be a cooperative society when it first started and it was like that until saanchi joined them. So I wonder when did it become Anandi's company / NGO and at what point did the associates turn into employees.

In short... if we look into nitty gritties of Bhaili and its operations, it will look as a poorly handled and a failed venture.

Originally posted by: Shinya

Wasnt it a failure when all women left her to join Anup?

We conclude that her Bhaili is no more running because she was not shown even once mentioning Bhaili or traveling to Udaipur to look after the affairs of bhaili.

SN is what she is running now.