Hi guys my name is sara though i was silent member but recently started comment on the posts iam discussing about the current track of SR which is harsh reality of soceity.Few months back their was a marriage in my area the man was a really a Gem who had never seen a woman if she paases right infront of him.The family members had chosen the girl according to their status i mean middle class family each and every member from the girl's side has always said dat she is really a very nice girl and never opens her mouth in front of elders neither lifts her head infront of them.As everyone from boy's side had selected her as people said she is v.good in nature and at heart but once the marriage has done she was the exact opposite girl which people had said.No one would believe here that girl had asked the Divorce on the wedding night itself saying that she wanted a man who is rich and shld give the control of house in her hands the boy was shocked and asked her if she needed a rich man why did she marry him but she coolly replied dat she married under family's pressure but dat was a complete lie marriage was done with both girl and boy consent&even their was six months gap after the engagement.The next day the man had silently away from home to think whether to inform family members or not and he preferred to stay silent and other side making her understand dat whatever she is doing is completely wrong and both the families will be suffering but she was nowhere to listen and started torturing the man either give her divorce or stay wid her like Ghar Jamai for one week she tortured him but wen his patience level he slapped her and told everyone about the ane weeks happening to both the family members and sent her away to her maayka but wat shocked the boy's family family members was no one had made her understand to go back her husband's house and marriage isn't a joke few days passed wen suddenly her brother brought her back widout informing the boy's family and was forcing them to accept her back as she is changed now and wants to give a second chance to marriage but dat was not the reality after 4hrs wen her brother left to his home she once again started openly to give her divorce and send her back to her home wen everyone made her understand to go back in morning as it 12 ar night time but no she threatened them wid knife ti send her back wen situatuon went out of control they called her brother he came and and took her away few more days passed then she started saying her parents she wants to go back to her husband but it was too late the boy's family had applied for divirce and had even sent a notice to them they chose to ignore that notice and started making new stories dat she was'nt well and accept her back but the boy was'nt ready to accept her and officiallt divorced her then they started to show their true colours by filing a False Dowry case and Rape case to the boy's parents saying them dat they will withdraw dat case back if they accept her daughter back as the bahu of their house but they did'nt paid any heed to them and had filed more 2 cases on them though the parents are not arrested on medical grounds she had even put a case on her MIL that she was physicclly harmed by her but the truth was that she always treated her as her own daughter now they want them to accept her but it's impossible unless she get's married to another man &consummate her marriage and take divorce from him and then she can marry him. enough of my rant and say how many of u agree wid girl's behaviour making marriage a joke & i wrote dis after seeing today's segment of domestic violence belive me many parents are suffering in the name of marriage nd dowry.
NOTE:The man had slapped her bcoz she was degrading his mother not bcoz she asked for divorce.
Edited by deccan.ruler - 10 years ago