Highlights of this week - Feb 22 - DTN pg 5 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Stephi

@Hopefully Shivam will act as catalyst in Nimboli knowing the truth and will be with her and Anandi in her transformation from Nimboli to Nandini

Funny thing. While Nimboli was in BH Sivam was constantly insulting her but Anandi kept quiet because Shivam being a kid himself , there was possibility that the truth may be accidentally revealed to Nimboli .

Now, after Nimboli 's leaving Shivam will help his mother and will act as catalyst . What happened in such a short period of time? Shivam is not a kid anymore?

Originally posted by: ssshh

What should anandi do?
If she told truth to nimboli. She will be snatcher of her child from mangla.
If she trust mangla than she is dumb.
If she said something to MN than she is ungrateful to MN.
If she stay silent than she is weak.

She did mistake by not telling truth to shivam.
But even now if she should stay silent. Or tell truth.
When we assumed that anandi will tell truth. Than we rise question what about anandi's promise to shiv.
Now we knows that Dadisa will reveal truth to Shivam. Even now anandi is wrong for not taking lead.
More than cvs we audiance don't know what we want from anandi

Originally posted by: ssshh

What should anandi do?
If she told truth to nimboli. She will be snatcher of her child from mangla.
If she trust mangla than she is dumb.
If she said something to MN than she is ungrateful to MN.
If she stay silent than she is weak.

She did mistake by not telling truth to shivam.
But even now if she should stay silent. Or tell truth.
When we assumed that anandi will tell truth. Than we rise question what about anandi's promise to shiv.
Now we knows that Dadisa will reveal truth to Shivam. Even now anandi is wrong for not taking lead.
More than cvs we audiance don't know what we want from anandi

Originally posted by: Missesha

There is a time for everything and one must act accordingly.

It was wrong to slap M immediately without understanding their situation. But then there was no need to wait endlessly to tell the truth, even when there were enough opportunities.

Anandi is dumb because she can't asses the need of the situation. She either waits endlessly even when she can see how destructions are happening. Or she jumps in the moment of spur without thinking of consequences.

She fails to act in a logical and balanced manner.

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As for promise to Shiv, I don't know where that has come from. But it was brought in by forum members to defend Anandi. It was an assumed theory set up to shield Anandi from being questioned on 'why she can't disclose to Shivam?'

It was not something that Anandi clearly mentioned. She only said she wants to tell her kids the truth at once, but never said why. She never clarified why it would be wrong to tell Dhivam first.

Anandi is wrong because she slapped Shivam instead of understanding his turmoil. So finally Dsa had to intervene and tell the truth (as per the precap). Today's episode will air the exact details. But the fashion in which truth is told to Shivam has once again raised a question on Anandi's credibility as a mother.

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

@bold - Talking about 'we' audience.

I do know what I want from Anandi. I just want to see her have a spine. Thinking own her own( ending that nonsensical crying). Taking things under her control(and stop wallowing in self-pity). And treat her kids like her own(instead of letting others rule/control them). Above all, I wanted her to show some gratitude towards the woman who brought forward a live Nandini and be considerate towards that woman's love for nandini considering the attachment she must have developed over a period of 11 years.

Now going into details on what Anandi should do -

If she told the truth to nimboli , she won't be a snatcher. She should have done it ages ago. Instead of thinking how nandini will react to this, as a mother she should've thought only about nandini welfare. If at all nandini hates her after knowing the truth still she could provide all necessary things to her indirectly, let her stay with mangala and focus on educating and rehabilitating the girl first. Nandini already lost 11 years of regular life. But NO! Anandi's priorities were different. Providing nandini a good life is apparently not the priority. Nandini staying with her is the priority. What a loving Mom.

If she trusts mangala she simply won't become dumb. The question is not about trusting mangala at all. It is about understanding mangala. Anandi wants mangala to understand her motherly feelings. But even after Jagya teeling her how much attached mangala is to nandini, Anandi does not care to think how on earth mangala will let go of nimboli that easily. The most simple thing Anandi could've done was - to first thank her. and then assure her that nimboli will be with her forever. And that they need to plan for nimboli's future together. But No! Anandi and DS directly tells mangala to get ready for the separation. 🤢

If she said something to mangala she wouldn't become ungrateful. She had become ungrateful because she slapped mangala. And wanted to take nandini away from mangala permanently.

And about telling the truth to Shivam. Yes that was a blunder from her side. She watched the fun when Shivam abused nandini. Nandini suffered for 12 years because of Anandi. And now again she is put to emotional abuse because of Anandi - all because Anandi didn't tell shivam the truth. How could Anandi as a mother even contain that insult her daughter faced ? 🤢

And yes even now Anandi is wrong if she tells the truth to Shivam . that is because, she is telling him after all the damage is done. If she trusted him to understand the situation , she would have told him earlier. If she didn't trust him on it, then she should stand by her promise. Anandi juggles up everything and does what is most destructive. Anyway it looks like DS has revealed it, not Anandi. And why the heck did she slap him? Will wait till the episode airs to see what actually happened

Originally posted by: ssshh

What should anandi do?

• If she told truth to nimboli. She will be snatcher of her child from mangla. --- Whether she tells the truth or not, her aim is just that - to snatch her daughter from mangala.. She and dadisa do not want mangala. they only want her till nimbli accepts anandi as mother.

• If she trust mangla than she is dumb. - she is not trusting mangala.. she is using her and she has expectations from her.. this was clear form yesterday's episode "mangalaji ko nimboli ki jimmedari di thi"... Only anandi supporters said anandi trusts mangala. Others did not say it.

• If she said something to MN than she is ungrateful to MN. -- she did not say anything. She slapped her for which she was called ungrateful.

• If she stay silent than she is weak. -- then please explain why is she silent?

• She did mistake by not telling truth to shivam.- agree

But even now if she should stay silent. Or tell truth.

• When we assumed that anandi will tell truth. Than we rise question what about anandi's promise to shiv. --- She was talking before shiv's photograph... i wanted to bring both our kids together to you.. but the rift between our kids is growing wide.. mai kya karu shiv?... Then it was written by one anandi supporter that she is not telling shivam because she has her own reasons. she wants to break the news to them together.

• Now we knows that Dadisa will reveal truth to Shivam. Even now anandi is wrong for not taking lead. -- Forget taking the lead... she was visibly upset and shocked when dadisa told shivam... it was like what a mess dadisa made by telling shivam.

More than cvs we audiance don't know what we want from anandi

Originally posted by: Shinya

We audience react only on what is being shown... we dont make up stories or write our own dialogues to criticize anandi.