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Posted: 10 years ago
#71

@They made DS , Daddu and J made the arrangement of her staying without even informing her.

when did J made Anandi's arrangements to stay in BH without asking ? He only escorted Dadisaa to KB He kept himself away from this matter Even when Anandi was asking him to convince Dadisaa to let her stay somewhere else Jagya told her i cannot say anything in this matter This matter is between you and Dadisaa Talk to her Even when Dadisaa was convincing Anandi Jagya was standing quietly behind He did not say anything so how on earth it can be said he made her stay in BH when it s been clearly shown in serial Jagya does not want to come between in this matter because he thinks this matter is not linked to him and its Anandi's choice wherever she wants to stay . ,he does not want to interfere in that What he felt was necessary to talk to Ganga on it because if Anandi chose to stay in BH then he does not want Ganga to feel hurt in it anyway even unintentionally but Ganga assured him she trusts him and have no issue with Anandi's stay in BH



@CVs knows the bad effects of it and so they have shown the A, J G track where because of constant comparison G felt insecure. But this is true , very natural for her. But as they have already showed A is staying there unwillingly, its not A's fault also. DS and J has to understand G has her own identity.


Can the people who are giving this bold logic show me one scene when Jagya compared Gauri with Anandi and Gauri felt insecure because of it ? In serial it is shown Gauri felt insecure because of her obsession to win from Singhs and Anandi not because of Jagya's comparisons of her with Anandi I believe it is very true , natural and proven too when person develops an obsession for something then insecurity creeps in him too A fear of losing and he does everything to make sure he does not lose Be it taking the wrong way Same Gauri did

and this is also out of serial logic Jagya was comparing Ganga with Anandi and needs to understand Ganga has her own identity The people who are bringing this logic Jagya has to understand Ganga has own identity very easily forgot that Jagya is the one who gave Ganga her true identity He is the one who made her see her real self He is one who freed this caged bird and helped her fly to her dreams He is one who made brought this lively Ganga from her who was brutally suppressed by Ratan Singh and his family so how can it be even said Jagya has to understand Ganga has own her identity when he is the one who made Ganga meet her real self Ganga is whatever today a successful woman is all because of Jagya Not just financial support he provided the much needed emotional support with help of which Ganga passed through all tough times and achieved all good which she deserves Ganga wanted to live up to her dr sahab expectations from her and worked harder to make his efforts for her worth it , make him proud of her Even when Ganga was not married to Jagya Jagya have been a role model, a guide , a mentor for Ganga He encouraged her whenever she felt down she may not be able to do something He made her see she has all the potential to do it and she should not doubt her ability Jagya fell in love with Ganga the way she is When he remembered Anandi in falling for Ganga O she is so much like Anandi? so i wonder how it can be said Jagya has to understand Ganga has her own identity ?

Dadisaa compared Ganga with Anandi Dadisaa even wanted Sanchi to be like Anandi Jagya never asked even Sanchi to be like Anandi nor he was suffocated with Sanchi because she is not like Anandi so saying Jagya has to understand Ganga has her own identity is really laughable when he is the one who made realize her potentials and what a wonderful woman she is and how much she can do

and by the way Anandi is not staying in BH unwillingly It is her own will
Edited by BeatifulSoul_ - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi can stay any where she wants. But why should she be questioned about it?

Why the husband of that wife not questioned? Why should only the woman be questioned?

Why did J agree for this arrangement? Why did he create ruckus when she moved out to SN?

Why was he not questioned when he was reluctant to let his ex wife move out of his family home?



For what Jagya should be questioned ? when he was reluctant to let his ex wife move out of his family home ? when where ?

Jagya did not ask Anandi to stay in BH He gave her freedom to make her own decision He has no issues with whatever decision she makes .so he should be questioned on this why he gave freedom Anandi to make her own decision discussing with the woman she calls her Dadisaa instead of dragging him in this matter ? He asked her don't drag me nor leave the house because of me and Ganga This matter is between you and Dadisaa so talk to her For this he should be criticized and questioned ? 😲what you expected him to do ask Anandi yes please get lost ?

He created ruckus when Anandi moved to SN? ?what he has to do with Anandi staying in BH? She is not his reason for living He breathes seeing her face daily She stays in SN or wherever he has no issues but certainly he has right to have issues if she burdens him she left the house because of him and Ganga and makes him guilty He neither asked Anandi's unnecessary favor on him nor he needs so if Anandi can force her unnecessary ,unwanted favors on him he too has right to object that he does not need that but he did not force her to come back if she wanted to live in SN as per her free will so be it when did he makes rounds and rounds of SN asking Anandi to come back ?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma



Why did Ganga feel that her husband gave her less importance?

why did Anandi feel Jagya gives her more importance than Ganga ?Did Jagya ever asked her opinion or shared anything with her ?even if any problem in his life be it Ganga's complicated pregnancy or Mannu's cancer even that Anandi came to know through Dadisaa Jagya never dialed up to her then why Anandi feels she is very much important for Jagya she delivers him her lectures and was even saying to Dadisaa when she saw Ganga did not like her her speaking up in their matter she said to Dadisaa with a sad face Let me move out Think from my perspective I want Jagya's anger to get calmer hearing Ganga's words not mine and here Anandi's Dadisaa was trying to pacify Anandi making excuses why Jagya did not listen to her but great Anandi think she is more important for Jagya than Ganga he will only pay attention on his wife if she moves out Wow what thinking Ganga was obviously wrong to think she gets less importance from Jagya than Anandi but what one should say so called sweet innocent Anandi here ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma



Ganga didn't question Anandi but questioned Jagya and that too because of the way she was always expected to measure upto Anandi. she was fed up of being compared against Anandi all the time and that was a good enough reason for her to rebel



Ganga did not question Anandi? Her bursting out at Anandi with what right you made decision about my child without asking me and even saying though she said to Jagya not to Anandi on her face but Anandi heard it and had no answer Ganga said Why Anandi interferes so much in our matters when we don't ,we don't have right same way even Anandi dont have Didn't Ganga say it and it pinched Anandi 's ego so much that she left the house then how can you say she had no problems with Anandi? she did not question Anandi ?
Seems like you are hell bent on blaming Jagya though you have no logical reason for it because Jagya never expected Ganga to measure up to Anandi nor he asked her to be like Anandi and what Ganga did was not a rebellion to Jagya but she was pouring others frustration on him which was unjustified She was wrong to Jagya and she apologized because she was wrong not he He has given her enough assurances he loves her more than anything else in the world and no Anandi can ever measure up to that If still Ganga got blind and behaved rude with Jagya then she was wrong but she was not wrong in questions to Anandi Anandi had no right interfering in other's matters so much that she suffocates them and Ganga had no right to make Jagya a punch bag of it she should have questioned Anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago
#75
If Balika vadhu is only Anandi's story...then CV's should show Anandi's story.
I think after the akhiraj story finishes...either he is arrested or dead, anandi should tell the kids about their relation, their father and their family, even if non-existent. She should take them back to udaipur...she can continue her social work with bhaili, if that still exist or start a new NGO. They can bring Amol back...anandi & her family...their story going forward. She can be in touch with jaitser family.. Hasn't Anoop come out of jail yet...
I don't understand how anandi doesn't want to go back to the place where she has all the good memories of Shiv. Forget going back to udaipur because she is financially independent...but she should go back for emotional attachment as well...she should let the kids feel connected to their father...as they never got the chance to see him.
Sorry for this random post...as I'm not watching BV since Jan last year...but just happened to come back to forum and after reading all the post, this is exactly what I feel. Completely my views, hopefully no one is offended.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ bold. Precisely - if you are also not happy, then why are you defending JaAn's stay together, so hard?

You first defended their stay using the statement 'who is society to question',
then you went onto establish Anandi's rights as a beti of BH
then you questioned 'why is the ex-wife /the woman questioned and why not the man'
then you suggested that if Ganga doesn't have an objection why should we,
then it was 'if Ganga has an objection, then jagya should solve it and not Anandi,
then it was' If Anandi is not aspiring to take ganga's position why should she worry for ganga's space / insecurity.
And so on...

Basically every post of yours is trying to saying that Anandi is rightly placed in BH. Why so much of defence when you also don't agree to that arrangement?

As a viewer, you may not have a strong objection with their stay or you might be happy to accept it as creative liberty and move on. As a viewer, I may have a stronger objection to that story line. We both are entitled to our views.

However, In a nut shell, we both are objecting the same thing, so then why are you so strongly objecting my views, when yours aren't much different?

The entire forum agrees that Anandi should be living on her own and not in BH.


@ Bold - Bang on...you spoke my mind👏👏👏

Its indeed sickening to watch Anandi's stay in BH. How much ever we try to defend her stay (investing emotions, ghar ki beti blah...blah) at the end its JUST disgusting for a normal audience with usual tastes. Just because BV is still getting numbers doesn't endorse the fact that her stay is all the more welcome. Shows however boring might be most often we watch them out of HABIT, so is BV

Anandi as a character has lost both her charm & credibility makers are trying to milk from the dead cow till lasts🤢... TRUE story of Balika Vadhu ended the moment she moved on with Shiv

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