Hello guys. I am silent reader but couldn't help but make a somewhat positive topic (at least to me).i read posts bringing new entry for swara, not liking current sanskar etc.
For me sanskar whom i know and wanna see should be the one who will proceed with the engagement and sing so that swara comes out of self-sacrificing mode and admit to herself that she can't see him with another girl. Also for now words wouldnot be enough to make kavita understand that he has moved on because somewhere she herself has sensed that , being his true love once upon that is why she is in this much hurry so he couldnot get time to think and plan according to situation as he generally do (he took 5 years to plan the revenge hehe...)she is going all touchy- touchy to emphasise her presence in his life and trying to make him remember the past every time(so everything in her hand to not let him go).
So now it should be action time swasan should confess their love in front of her and then sanskar should take kavita out (may be near a river) with him and then calmly tell her that the rings symbolise their lives 5 years back and in present he has moved on ,saying this he removes his ring and throws in river and now it's time for her to free herself from stuck time and removes the ring from her forcefully as she is still unwilling then he goes from there and watches her breakdown and cry from a nearby place and cries himself silently waiting for her to gather herself. He cannot console her as she may misunderstand him and at the same time he cannot leave her on her own because he is THE MAN who still has responsibility towards her and who will never run from it for his own happiness.
For me the leads i.e swara and sanskar characters not being butchered completely but upto some extent at least till now because the essence and basic nature is still same. Swara thinking of others than herself (and of course hubby also included as usual) when it comes to happiness. Sanskar selfless in love but always do consider himself and his feeling of love important (whether revenge in case of his love for kavita, ignoring swara when she confessed). Here i would like to say something completely my POV only so criticisms welcomed many are pissed for the way he behaved when swara was pleading of her love to him and was thrown out of mm even i was pissed when he didn't stand when ragini was insulting her but i didn't liked her confessions again and again without showing him her profound feelings in actions and taking it's own sweet time as he did (except for cards one)how he is supposed to believe when she never before once had shown him as if she may too fall for him someday and all of a sudden u realise and u beg too (here i remember lucky too begging near swaragini bridge). The begging really annoyed me for a girl like swara who even in the worst condition can smile and fight back and it was not like that kavita or any girl has come so she needs to persuade sanskar as soon as possible (but then not her complete fault for she was not allowed that time due to that takloo saving himself not thinking about the two children life).though i liked her zid and pledges (as sanskar also admits in yesterdays epi that her zid ne mazboor kar diya use swara ka pyar apnane ke liye something klike this)
Fine swara is hurt and crying ( me too feeling sad for her) but her telling she wants kavita's issue to settle soon right there (at the party night) neither giving him time even to realise the havock fell on his head sometime before nor standing by his side and assuring him she is there for him, he just need to pacify, think and then decide as his decision will be final. Even the decision part was overheard by him in swara-takloo conversation. She expects him to understand without words and actions and he has been doing that too but sometimes words are needed especially when person is angry or not in his true senses.
Lastly again only my POV girls can cry and show their emotions this doesn't mean they are weak and at the same time this doesn't mean that they suffered more. [from weak i am reffering that right now sanskar needs her as his strength to set things right. From suffering i am reffering that dp stated that sanskar and swara were living together since 6 months so sanskar'love was not reciprocated or even considered by swara for more time and even he didn't knew if she will ever fall for her but swara's love not reciprocated recently and she even know that he is already in love with her. [can be taken other way too]
Sorry i myself donot know what i vented out but now i am relieved . please let me know if i have gone mad, though i feel for both swasan but little baised being sanskar fan.
I wrote it yesterday and not seen today's epi so don't know if any development in further butchering occurred.
Anupamaa
