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Posted: 10 years ago
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Honestly i am feeling bad for swara and sanskar both😭 both are the victim of circumstances...my opinion is that i am literally pissed off wd cvs...they r just so determined to make sanskar a putla...whereas that confession about he is being love with swara can be real sequence...but no this is a dream...sanky is so stable and mature to handle such situation...jo ladka sabke samne crime confess kar sakta he...ILU bol sakta he...he can do this with ease👍🏼 but cvs are just dragging it unnecessarily😒
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Its not that Sanskar believed that Swara signed the divorce papers that made him not believe in her love. It was that she was willing to hand him over to police on her belief that he was involved in the kidnapping. Yes she did give him a chance to speak. Please tell me how would you react when the person who you love to your hearts content and for whom you are willing to fight with the world goes behind you, finding clues and proofs and confront you in the most cruel way. She said I would do the say had it been anyone else. Seriously, ANYONE ELSE? From his POV was he like any other person for Swara??? This act and her distrust broke his heart. As for molestation issue, Swara knew that Sanskar was sleeping in the room at that time as she was with him. When you know the truth trusting is easy but to trust when you have nothing infront of you is TRUST.


I agree Swara doubted him , but she deliberately didn't search his room, as it was by chance she saw the toll receipt she questioned him , Just remember when Ragini said some mean things to swara he strangled ragini in Baadi..So that was the main reason for her to question him.She pointed that he would have done the same with anyone else , yeah at that stance swara was not in love with him , she treated him as a friend.So she compared him with any one else.Coming to Ragini's Molestation i agree with you.

Please tell me what did she do to show him that. He said this is my wife not ex wife. And the truth is their marriage is a forced one. No one can deny that. Swara was broke because he said I'm the same guy. But see from his side when the girl whom you loved and who has been through hell holds him and asks him to say he loves you. We have to remember that she is just out of coma and is still not able to accept the fact that is staring her in the face what can he do? He will be sensitive towards her. But that doesn't mean he hasn't moved on. He has and she for one should know that. It was he who fell for her first not the other way round.

yeah i agree Sanskaar introduced her as his wife & also i agree that he is concerned for Kavitha...and the fact is that it is a forced marriage , but he would have taken initiation or interrupted his mother.I agree he said he didn't change just to give assurance to kavitha. Iwould be glad at that vey point if he would have showed 1% care & concern towards swara same day like by saying to Kavitha "Relax..we will speak later ", i'm very glad atleast AP tried to made her understand.Kavitha didn't meet sanskaar at the very second of coming out of coma , she has been kidnapped by her mother for some days.If sanskaar is giving false hopes to her now ,how do she will react when he confesses he loves swara after engagement?


Swara did state the facts I agree but here what was the need? I'm not saying she didn't let him speak but didn't he try to tell her what he wants? His first dialogue was I wanted to talk to you yest. but the situation was such that I couldn't. He also said Kavita is my past. But she is adamant on making him chose. For him Swara is not a choice or option but the very reason for his existence. Didn't he say think of us and our relation first. But her words made him feel guilty on Kavita's condition. And at home Kavita did her part and he decided to give her a little happiness. Will this spoil 3 lives maybe, maybe not. He might again falli n love with her after all she is not pushing him away.

As said by you in previous post Kavitha was his past & first than swara in sanskaar's life...swara given chance to him to decide because she knows clearly that kavitha is his first love , so she clearly stated him to think ...so that he won't repent in future .
@ bold...even swara said same that may be he might love her again...May be

Then there is no need to fight dear. If she needs to fight for her rights now is the time. But she is scared to death that another rejectin will completely break her just like Sanskar . When she confessed he was worried that after sometime she might again break his heart. Like he did she is also trying to safeguard her heart here.

Exactly...if sanskaar had accepted her relation then she would definitely fight...with out hope how can she fight , when the only person is not giving any hope.


None is saying she was wrong not to fall for Sanskar back then. Her heart was broken and her life a mess. She had no time to heal and fall in love again. And for the fake marriage if you have seen the episode he refused but she made him feel guilty for the mess forcing him to agree. This is why I said I get Swara's POV as well. But why I was angry was that she blamed him for everything that has happened after that. They married as she wanted to save her mom blamed him for that. Insulted his love day in day out. That is not acceptable.

i had seen many posts saying swara friend zoned sanskaar so i said my point...even we u r agreeing to it ..i don't want to say the exact point once again...
@ bold...again y did the situation araised?? to save her mom?? y?? because ragini kidnapped shomi as sanskaar kidnapped laksh..so swara said indirectly by kidnapping laksh all this hapened
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasinig89


I agree Swara doubted him , but she deliberately didn't search his room, as it was by chance she saw the toll receipt she questioned him , Just remember when Ragini said some mean things to swara he strangled ragini in Baadi..So that was the main reason for her to question him.She pointed that he would have done the same with anyone else , yeah at that stance swara was not in love with him , she treated him as a friend.So she compared him with any one else.Coming to Ragini's Molestation i agree with you.

@ bold please tell me you actually watched that episode. She followed him when he burned the blanket and then said I've to find proof. Next day went in to search the room, cupboard, and the toll receipt she found by chance was in his wallet. That is what pissed most of us.

yeah i agree Sanskaar introduced her as his wife & also i agree that he is concerned for Kavitha...and the fact is that it is a forced marriage , but he would have taken initiation or interrupted his mother.I agree he said he didn't change just to give assurance to kavitha. Iwould be glad at that vey point if he would have showed 1% care & concern towards swara same day like by saying to Kavitha "Relax..we will speak later ", i'm very glad atleast AP tried to made her understand. Kavitha didn't meet sanskaar at the very second of coming out of coma , she has been kidnapped by her mother for some days.If sanskaar is giving false hopes to her now ,how do she will react when he confesses he loves swara after engagement?

Why would he interrupt his mother? She was just stating facts. At that point the only way to calm her down was to say that he is same. She asked him to say he loves her, but instead he said I'm same not I Love You. And he is not giving her false hope. Today we will see how he much he wants to say it all. Even if he doesn't I'm sure he will his best to put all that behind him.


As said by you in previous post Kavitha was his past & first than swara in sanskaar's life...swara given chance to him to decide because she knows clearly that kavitha is his first love , so she clearly stated him to think ...so that he won't repent in future .
@ bold...even swara said same that may be he might love her again...May be

Yes maybe. Because she will not be in his life. Swara accepted defeat even before the war started.


Exactly...if sanskaar had accepted her relation then she would definitely fight...with out hope how can she fight , when the only person is not giving any hope.

What I'm saying is that he has accepted their relation and her love and he just told her but she was too busy with her rant to listen to all that. He said think of us, our relation. She is my past.




None is saying she was wrong not to fall for Sanskar back then. Her heart was broken and her life a mess. She had no time to heal and fall in love again. And for the fake marriage if you have seen the episode he refused but she made him feel guilty for the mess forcing him to agree. This is why I said I get Swara's POV as well. But why I was angry was that she blamed him for everything that has happened after that. They married as she wanted to save her mom blamed him for that. Insulted his love day in day out. That is not acceptable.

i had seen many posts saying swara friend zoned sanskaar so i said my point...even we u r agreeing to it ..i don't want to say the exact point once again...
@ bold...again y did the situation araised?? to save her mom?? y?? because ragini kidnapped shomi as sanskaar kidnapped laksh..so swara said indirectly by kidnapping laksh all this hapened

No she didn't say that. She said you are happy that finally you have got want you wanted ie their marriage. This is an insult when he was trying his level best to stop it. She knew still blamed him for that.


Now we are going in circles. I'm trying to show you the moon please shift your eyes from my finger to the moon. Sorry if I've hurt you.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sree...i'm not at all hurt with your post ...infact i respect the way u continued the conversation..instead of giving 'u r absolutely wrong.. I'm always right' type of reply which i had seen numerous times here.What i clearly want to say is everyone has different opinion ... Not to gain any sympathy i had overcome the situation which swara is facing now...so i said my every point as i felt realistic to me.But that doesn't mean i'm partial to swara...i'm swasan fan too.
I'm on mobile so couldn't elaborate more as i was always afraid of typo errors🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarathy321


Bang on this post...
This is the right thing. ..
I still don't understand why people say sanskaar is right. ...
We were the same people who said sanskaar didn't reciprocate swaras love becoz he was heartbroken ...then what is swaras situation now?
Next about sanskaars silence when swara was begging him...we werr the forum members who expected him to be on some plan against ragini. ..isnt it...and when we came to know that there was nothing like that we again forgave sanskaar and said he is again a poor soul protecting his heart ...isnt it.?
And now when swara couldn't express her feelings due to fear and acco to me she has done more than what she could ...then again blame game on swara ...why?

Just inorder to say sanskaar is the sane character why should we say whatever he does is right?and put all blame on swara?

According to ma opinion. . Swara had always fought for her love after realisation and that too without thinking about her self respect. ...she did gave chances to sanskaar to explain...even in their latest confrontation scene...

So, it is a humble request accept the fact as it is...I swear ...sanskaar was and is ma favourite character but it doesn't mean whatever he does is right...so pls stop supporting that character with lame escuses


Dear I understand you are angry. But why on earth are all those Swasan fans not trying to understand the second half of their fandom? We are not supporting all his actions. All we are asking is to cut him some slack now. And as for supporting him for letting Swara go through all the humiliation I know I didn't support it when I came to know it was not a plan. No one is blaming Swara here. She in her place is right. BUT SO IS SANSKAR. Anything goes other than what we expect him to do then he is bad, his character is butchered, we need a new lead for Swara. Really?? This is fanship? Why can some one tell me? I'm really exhausted trying to explain his POV. Its a request try to see the other side of the coin. Please
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasinig89

Sree...i'm not at all hurt with your post ...infact i respect the way u continued the conversation..instead of giving 'u r absolutely wrong.. I'm always right' type of reply which i had seen numerous times here.What i clearly want to say is everyone has different opinion ... Not to gain any sympathy i had overcome the situation which swara is facing now...so i said my every point as i felt realistic to me.But that doesn't mean i'm partial to swara...i'm swasan fan too.

I'm on mobile so couldn't elaborate more as i was always afraid of typo errors🤢


Thanks you so much for understanding. I get your point as I get Swara's.

@bold My situation yesterday.😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sree8410



Dear I understand you are angry. But why on earth are all those Swasan fans not trying to understand the second half of their fandom? We are not supporting all his actions. All we are asking is to cut him some slack now. And as for supporting him for letting Swara go through all the humiliation I know I didn't support it when I came to know it was not a plan. No one is blaming Swara here. She in her place is right. BUT SO IS SANSKAR. Anything goes other than what we expect him to do then he is bad, his character is butchered, we need a new lead for Swara. Really?? This is fanship? Why can some one tell me? I'm really exhausted trying to explain his POV. Its a request try to see the other side of the coin. Please


Dear...did I say I want new lead?
I am saying naa ssanskaar was and is ma favourite character ...it doesn't mean I support all his actions...mainly his impulsive action on getting engaged with kavita
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If people are going to get anxiety issues every time SwaSan separate, they should seriously, for the sake of their own health, think about quitting the show.

Why???

Well because not matter how much you want, this is a Hindi Serial and importantly RS show (even though this is the first one I am seeing, I know enough info about her trends by now!!). The lead couple always has regular issues. Their life is never simple and the most important...they separate regularly!! they regularly have MU and third parties and families coming between them.

RS wants to run her shows for YEARS not months! or weeks! These twists are going to come.

If you are not in a position to handle them, then please for your own sake, quit while you can.

But if you want to stick around and watch your pair, then you will need to have patience and you will need to stop driving yourself and others up the wall

These constant "sanskar's character is butched", "Old sanskar is back", "get a new guy for swara", "What is swara doing" posts will help no one, least of all you...(take it from someone who has gone through some of it and is now too tired to get bogged down by it) unless you want to turn the forum into a panic room where people come to increase each others anxiety and frustration.

Take a calm breath. Relax! Enjoy the show as it flows! You are not going to be able to change the story completely or make it more logical or make someone go away...there are too many TRP aunties watching the show ...far outnumbering the ones in the forum. Yes we love the couple and we do get emotional sometimes, but draw the line somewhere...for the sake of your own sanity. Else you are going to be too frustrated and anxious over a fictional serial (which we do love very much) but which (or its characters or even the actors) are not really going to stand by us in times of difficultly like our real friends and family will! Your Call!


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