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what would u have done if u were in sanskar's dilemma?

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

i dont think kavita is sanskar's past anymore, she is very much his present now. till the point she was dead she was his past.
Just imagine a situation -if sanskar knew that kavita is in coma and is in trouble, then sanskar never would have loved swara

As i said its a very very very difficult situation for sanskar - no reason can be justified for him to choose swara or kavita 😆

bachha phas gaya 🤣

@bold kavita dead or alive is still sanskar's past bcoz now sanskar has moved on & heads over heels in luv wid swara.if he hasn't moved on then it wud b difficult situtn 4 him.

@bold blue then things wud'd been difft,. kits like comparing oranges wid apples.😆

and i don't snaskar thinks hes in difficult situtn bcoz he has 2 decide whom 2 choose.1st luv or swara.he is /will b in difficult situtn bcoz he has 2 decide how 2 tell kavita that he has totally moved on & luvs only swara.bcoz kavita was his 1st luv & also shes not at fault(if shes +ve).oderwise theres no confusion 4 him.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: The.Lannister
Sanskaar should choose swara because:
He loved kavi 5 yrs ago. In these 5 years he must have changed as a person, and so must have kavi after all the trauma in her life. This changed sanskaar is the one who loves swara, not the sanskaar from 5 yrs ago. Nothing, not kavis love, not the memories of kavis n his love can make sanskaar reconvert into this old sanskaar now. When a loved one dies, people move on. Its the most natural thing in the world. And sanskaar has moved on. The boy from five years ago has changed to this man we know today who loves swara to bits. Also, not just sanskaar but even kavi must have changed in these five years. She is no longer the girl sanskaar fell in love with. For sanskaar to take back kavi, he will need to fall in love a third time with her, this time this man sanskaar has become will have to fall for the woman kavi has become. And that is impossible because this man is married and in love with his wife.

Hence he should choose swara n not kavi.

agree wid u completely & wid each word.

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cts22

@cts22

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Sanskaar with Kavita and Sanskaar with Swara are different

Sanskaar and Kavita's love was a college love

young, innocent, happy and carefree.

They were young and idealistic thinking that even if they

come from different backgrounds when they marry their families will accept them.

Losing Kavita was a big turning point in Sanskaar's life,

he lost his innocence and became cynical

consumed and blinded with revenge against his family and using and almost destroying

a girl's life.

The same girl he tried to ruin forgave him and opened his eyes to come out of his revenge

and fury against his family

Swara made Sanskaar move on from his past and

Sanskaar and Swara's love is very different, both of them had lost their first loves,

both were accused of various things.

It was them against the world and they fought together, trusting each other and

being there for each other throughout( of course there were a lot of things in between)

They loved with each other without expecting any reciprocation

Sanskaar and Swara's love is not idealistic, they both know each other's flaws, they understand each other, they have had heartbreak and still come out of it to find each other that is more real

love which lasts a lifetime

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: The.Lannister
Sanskaar should choose swara because:
He loved kavi 5 yrs ago. In these 5 years he must have changed as a person, and so must have kavi after all the trauma in her life. This changed sanskaar is the one who loves swara, not the sanskaar from 5 yrs ago. Nothing, not kavis love, not the memories of kavis n his love can make sanskaar reconvert into this old sanskaar now. When a loved one dies, people move on. Its the most natural thing in the world. And sanskaar has moved on. The boy from five years ago has changed to this man we know today who loves swara to bits. Also, not just sanskaar but even kavi must have changed in these five years. She is no longer the girl sanskaar fell in love with. For sanskaar to take back kavi, he will need to fall in love a third time with her, this time this man sanskaar has become will have to fall for the woman kavi has become. And that is impossible because this man is married and in love with his wife.

Hence he should choose swara n not kavi.

I was typing out a reply when I read your comment and realized you've said all I wanted to say, so very very well. Agree with every single word, every rational argument you've made. Wonderful.

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