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Hello fellow Swaragians,
Okay first of all, I'd like to apologize in advance if I hurt or offend anyone in anyway. Please understand that my intention is not at all to hurt anyone's feelings, I am just sharing my personal opinion. đ
Okay so I know my opinion may not be a popular one, and many of you may disagree, but I just wanted to put forth some points which I felt were true. It's okay if you do not agree with me. Also if you feel something I said is incorrect or offensive, please let me know and I will fix it. đ
Also, if you are going to read this, please read the whole thing, because there are some things which I stated and then restated more clearly afterwards as well. đ
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So, as we saw in the SBB segment, Kavita requests Swara to reunite her with Sanskaar. I read a lot of people call Swara mahaan in this SBB. I also read people say that she was not being mahaan.
Personally, I agree with the latter choice. Let me explain why.
1) In the promo given for the New Year Party, we can clearly see the way Sanskaar hugs Kavita. It wasn't the kind of hug you give to a friend you haven't seen them for a while, it was more of a hug you give to a lover you haven't seen in a while. Even his facial expressions made it seem like he was in love with her. So when she sees that, it is normal for her to feel that he still loves Kavita.
2) Sanskaar never explicitly stated that he didn't love Kavita. There was obviously no need for him to, because they all thought she was dead anyways. The only reason I brought up this point was to compare it to the SwaSanLak love triangle. When Swara and Lakshya decided to be friends again, Sanskaar mistook it for love. He had this misunderstanding even though Swara explicitly told him a good 5-6 times that she didn't love Lakshya. In that scenario, all he saw was Swara's happiness and them hugging and assumed that they had decided to get back together. It's the same thing here. Swara sees Sanskaar's emotions/reaction and them hugging. And unlike Sanskaar, she doesn't even have any reassurance that Sanskaar doesn't love Kavita.
3) Swara has witnessed the intensity of love Sanskaar felt for Kavita when he loved her. Sanskaar was willing to destroy his family because he thought they killed Kavita. Swara herself became a victim in Sanskaar's quest for revenge. He basically started a series of events which led to her life becoming completely destroyed at one point. In that confrontation scene between SwaSan (when Swara finds out Sanskaar is only pretending to be mentally ill), she had seen how much he loved Kavita. The fact that he was willing to destroy his family because of his love for her indicates how much and how intensely he loved Kavita.
4) When Swara went to Sanskaar's room to tell him that she loves him. Sanskaar very clearly stated that he does NOT love her. We all know he was lying and Swara knew at that time too that he was lying. But he basically rejected her love.
5) Sanskaar has been bhau khaing way too much these days (at least in my opinion anyways). Swara went as far as begging and pleading to him in the temple to believe her and trust her and not end the relationship with her, but he was adamant. It is possible that there was a reason behind what he was doing (I personally don't think it's very likely), but Swara doesn't know that. Even when she went to ask him for help with the AA mystery, he refused to help her. He wasn't even willing to listen to her when she tried to tell him she loved him, until she put up those notes and stuff. And at one point he himself told her "mujhe bhi lagta hai tumhe jaana chahiye," or something along those lines, basically asking her to leave his house and life. Sanskaar was the one to sign the divorce papers first, not Swara. All of these things he's been doing and saying do not in any way indicate that he loves Swara, in fact they indicate that he doesn't love her anymore.
And for all those reasons stated above, I think it's wrong to call Swara mahaan. I didn't see Swara force or even ask Sanskaar to accept Kavita. All I saw was her hugging Kavita and leaving Sanskaar. Which is completely fine considering he was the one who signed the divorce papers first.
If she were to ask Sanskaar to accept Kavita (which she hasn't yet) then that would be mahanta on her part, and then she could be blamed.
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Additionally, I don't think we should blame Kavita either. Up until this point it hasn't been confirmed that she is negative. I mean she just woke from a coma, so there was no time for her to become negative ... yet. So I don't think it's Kavita's fault for wanting/asking for Sanskaar back. Once again, considering the way he hugged her in the promo and the fact that SwaSan are divorcing, it's normal for her to think that Sanskaar still loves her.
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And now, Sanskaar. I know most of us on the forum love Sanskaar considering that he is a very real character. And I know my opinion might not be a very popular one, BUT, I'm personally not very happy with his recent actions and words.
--- And once again I'd like to apologize if I hurt anyone with what I say, I am just giving my personal opinion. ---
In fact, I think, IF you want to blame someone (in this particular situation), it should be Sanskaar. Someone on a different thread said that Sanskaar started it when he came back for his quest for revenge. And after thinking about it, I completely agree with them. I know, I know, I know, we've all forgiven Sanskaar for his previous actions, but now that Kavita is back, there is one thing we need to consider.
If Kavita isn't dead, there obviously wasn't a dead body. So that clearly means Sanskaar didn't know for sure if Kavita was dead, he just assumed that she was dead. And he also just assumed that Durga Prasad and Lakshya were behind the murder. He had no proof of this fact either and just blamed them and came back for his revenge. Sanskaar is such an intelligent person, and this was a very big miscalculation on his part. And one thing (i.e. Sanskaar's revenge plot) lead to another which lead to another (not gonna list them all, we all have watched the show) and now we are here (i.e. SwaSanTa love triangle).
Additionally, as stated above, his recent behavior with Swara hasn't been helping either. He just basically made her feel unwanted and unloved just because she didn't trust him once. Don't get me wrong, I was pretty upset with Swara for not trusting him either. But now he doesn't trust her when she says she loves him either. đ
On top of that Sanskaar said Swara was using him. But when Ragini's truth was out, Swara told the elders that she wanted to give their marriage a chance. And then she talked to Sanskaar and said that she's become selfish and that she'd talk to the elders again and fix everything. BUT Sanskaar was the one who stopped her. I don't remember his exact words, but he said he didn't mind if she used him, and now he's getting mad at her for using him. đ
Also I'm too lazy to narrate all the other things he's said/done which clearly indicate to Swara that he doesn't love her anymore. But you can read them above in point 5.
Personally I don't blame Sanskaar for the current situation. I don't really blame any of them. I think it's just a case of misunderstandings and really bad timing. Of course we all know who the real blame goes to (CV's).
Basically all I really wanted to say was that, Swara is not being mahaan... YET. And AS OF NOW, Sanskaar is more at fault in this situation than Swara is.
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And once again I'd like to apologize if I've hurt anyone with this post, that was not my intention at all.
And also I've made this post through assumptions I've made after watching an SBB segment. So of course you may not agree with me because you may have made different assumptions and that's fine, you can feel free to share your thoughts/ideas too. And because it's just one SBB, I may be wrong as well. For all we know Swara may ask Sanskaar to go back to Kavita and become all mahaan again (I wouldn't be surprised), but she hasn't yet.
Sorry for the really long rant, I really couldn't help myself.
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