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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 10 years ago

My dear forum-wasis.. well do I have any right to call you all dear??!!! With the way things are going on I don't think I have right to call you people that. Can you all tell me what has gotten into you guys? Fighting, getting personal with each other that too with your own friends.. all the friendship, rapport we shared have come down to this?! A time when we all have to stand untied what are we doing here FIGHTING! that too why coz no one can stand others opinion. Do you guys understand this is open forum and people here have difference of opinion? Here everyone want to prove they are great and not ready to value forget about valuing can't even listen to others opinion. We had same issues before too and we solved it among us or hardly it lasted for a day or two but this time it crossed all limits. Earlier it was SwaSan fans now in that itself groups are formed and then all these issues started. Do you guys know why most of us old members (ie, old SwaSan fans not other fandom) don't come here we don't find this place ours any more. In AT too you reply only to your group and avoid others don't argue on this it din't happen once or twice but from 70-75th AT onwards I saw this happening. And until recently I dint know AT is my thread yes you heard it right people felt AT is my thread and I'm promoting it.. Till then I was thinking AT's are our place.and yes I felt really bad that people have such an opinion about me. Still I kept quite but this time no I won't. Since SwaSan started many of us tried hard to built a friendly atmosphere here and maintain forum peace and we can't see it being ruined coz of silly ego clashes. You have issues with someone PM them and solve it or ignore them and their post ( I did) but please don't drag it to open forum and fight like this. It hurts to see all these happening.

We all love Swara, Sanskar and SwaSan yep the intensity might differ but we do Love them. We might like their certain action we might not like some. and we all have opinion about it. When you post yours be ready to read/listen others opinion too... You might not agree with that , do share why you disagree and If they don't want to listen leave it. You don't have to listen to anyone's bashan or you also don't need to give anyone bashan. All have their own justification.. agree to disagree.

I hope from now on we will have our peaceful atmosphere back and will have healthy discussion and not groupism and taunts.

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Shree....

@Shreeswathy

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

Very much needed post!👏👏

Thank you Leki..

I had been following this forum & AT from 8th AT.

But nowadays, this has been a place of negativity.

Earlier too, we had differences of opinion, but, even in that difference, we respected others opinion.

It was a place of peace for me, which helped me to remove my frustration after each episode.

Some of our friends tried to analise the whole things & presented the positivity before us, which though not 100% true, but we believed it, & was enough to get us nice sleep.

But this is not the same forum.

Above all, either Sanskar or Swara are not real life characters,

So if we take only positivity from them, that will be better for us.

This forum gave us many good friends,

Try to keep those friendship, don't go personal.

Swara & Sanskar will fight their odds & will unite soon,

Then also, we all will have to face each other.

So, please don't spoil our relations on such temporary twists.

And I am not doing any bhashan..

I am really hurt on the present situation.😭😭

Keep patience.

Stay united.

Edited by Shreeswathy - 10 years ago

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Sana

@Forum.Maniac

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

Amazing post, Leki! 🤗

There was tym when this forum felt lyk a second home. Visiting it was the first thing I did in the morning and right before sleeping. Sadly, the negativity nowadays has discouraged me from coming here.
Everyone is too busy either bashing Sanskaar or bashing Swara or defending Swara and defending Sanskaar. We have forgotten that we are SwaSan fans first and that we are all friends here.
This is such a crucial time for our fandom now. I just hope we put all of this behind us and stand united for our SwaSan

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Ranjini

@MFRanjini

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

I think a good Swasan scene can cool down people.

And forum rule is not to fight, so if anyone has anything against anyone better to PM not fight in public.

With good Swasan scenes people were happy in Swasan AT. But moderator rules are very strict there. And how much I try asking all to discuss happy Swasan scenes in Swasan AT no one listens to me.

Leki, I wish 100th AT preparation is done soon and by that time we will be happy about Swasan union.

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Mallika-E-Zain

@Mallika-E-Zain

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

I HEARTILY AND TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOUR POST LEKI!

It feels as if we come on the forum to console people and make them understand what this forum is!
To make them stop taking offenses and hear others opinions as well. It feels as if we come just to say a Hi!
I know I'm not an old member of the forum like you all, but I still feel like you because even I got tired of explaining people to not fight here.

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

I guess this is because the AT is redundant and no one is using it anymore. 😆 So everyone has formed their own gangs and a good discussion has become impossible. 😛

Waise woh kahaani khatam hogayi. 😛 Everyone has moved on. Ye post wahan subah banati toh ye naubat nahin aati. 😆

Btw, just so that everyone is on the same page, no hatred for anyone because HATE is a strong emotion. Jo hua bhool jao and breathe in and breathe out. 😳

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Kamala

@Kamala05

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 10 years ago

Unres.

Let me repeat this question to all those who were once active in Swasan forum ,all the friendship, rapport we shared have come down to this? and how did the group-ism and other ism started here ? I will not ask who ? cause all are equally responsible for this situation We will be more comfortable to chat with those who likes and respond to our comments and we will obviously be in the group who respects our presence in this forum rather than ignoring us continuously .We will seek the attention of others once or twice but if they pretend like we don't exist gradually we will give up .

The reason for inactivity in swasan forum is the instruction to control the discussion there . Secondly those who were active in the forum eventually disappeared and the AT lost it charm. Coincidentally , Swasan lost its uniqueness too ( I believe so ) and thus nothing positive was there to discuss in Swasan appreciation thread .I accept the actors are doing fab job ,but the characters we admired lost its charm . But the strict rules and the gap resulted in the inactivity of swasan AT.

I agree with Ranjini , with one good Swasan scene the AT will become active . But the ambience of this forum will be back to normal only with the conscious effort of all .

Edited by Kamala05 - 10 years ago

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Deboleena

@OtakuGirl-Debo

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

though I don't know the exact reason why you made this post but I agree with you Leki...even I saw this..it was Saraa who took permission for SwaSan AT from DT then me , Nym and you we created AT...we are continuing it..but people's thoughts sometime really hurt...the old atmosphere is not here anymore...whenever something happen people start to bash Swara or Sanskaar...or like I won't watch this show and all..like seriously?CV's can't follow what fans want..they will do what they think will bring TRP...but no one understand this..

Edited by OtakuGirl-Debo - 10 years ago

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MFRanjini
I think a good Swasan scene can cool down people.
And forum rule is not to fight, so if anyone has anything against anyone better to PM not fight in public.

With good Swasan scenes people were happy in Swasan AT. But moderator rules are very strict there. And how much I try asking all to discuss happy Swasan scenes in Swasan AT no one listens to me.

Leki, I wish 100th AT preparation is done soon and by that time we will be happy about Swasan union.

See in AT personal discussion have to be limited... yes you can discuss but limit it... we always used to strike that balance ... Khair chodo if anyone want to post in AT do it otherwise leave... As and when it's 100th AT I will do what I'm supposed to do.

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: MusicAddict
I HEARTILY AND TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOUR POST LEKI!

It feels as if we come on the forum to console people and make them understand what this forum is!
To make them stop taking offenses and hear others opinions as well. It feels as if we come just to say a Hi!
I know I'm not an old member of the forum like you all, but I still feel like you because even I got tired of explaining people to not fight here.

It's not about being old member or new. Start even when we had fight with other fandom we were united in that and even ready to listen to their opinions but now fighting amongst ourselves and not ready to listen what others want to say. thats where the problem lies.

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