Originally posted by: MERARAI
There is a huge difference between Riya's activities to get Shivam jealous (they were harmless really) and what Preeti and Mohit have been up to. Mohit moved into the Srivastav home as Chunnilal. Preeti not only kept quiet about it but was secretly meeting him in their home at night while the family slept.
Riya raising her hand at Preeti was a faux pas on CVs part goes against her character sketch. Riya did not cross boundaries when they wanted to marry Shivam that questioned the character of the family or it's members.
Preeti can't argue she didn't have time to let family know. Why didn't she tell her mother that she loves so much that she was in love with Mohit? Preeti asked Mohit to ask for her hand in marriage, so when he moved into the house, she should have come clean to Shivam or Cowsalya, the two people she trusts. Instead she calls Nimmi who eggs her further into her silly behavior🤪. Preeti was always one bulb shy of a dozen, immature in her choices.
Living under Shanti Devi's rule these young girls of today were not given an opportunity to see the real world. They act like little kittens on a hot tin roof around their Dadi, lying and hiding what's going on. Cowsalya who was trained at a young age to be Shanti's puppet didn't know any better either. She believed letting Shanti rule will keep peace in the family. The girls got the short end of the stick.
When someone enters the family and shows them the real world it is bound to cause resistance. How will Preeti and Nimmi cope when they do marry into families that don't live like the Srivastavs? They fear to speak their minds, when they do they get scolded that they are forced to lie and hide.
Riya didn't have a problem with Preeti/Mohit romance, she had a problem with Mohit's lies and moving into the house. She has a valid point. Mohit was lying and Preeti was playing along. Preeti had snuck around at night to meet Mohit both outside and inside their home. In a small town that is frowned upon and it's the girl's character that is questioned. Preeti was blindly falling into Mohit's plans whether his intentions were right or not is yet to be seen. Immature and naive girls often get trapped into a so called romance by sweet talking guys who snare the girls with professions of love and these girls lack self-esteem and the worldly knowledge to understand when they are being targeted the victim.
Preeti has managed to cause public embarrassment for Raghav, though she didn't realize her trip to the radio station would cause a huge commotion. The girls acts then thinks and is sneaky in her ways.
Cowsalya has to take some responsibility for her behavior, she has raised girls who lack self-esteem and are insecure and immature.
Btw, why do Indian serials promote getting a girl married at very young age (sometimes at 18 and 20) whether they are ready or not? These girls are shown being immature and marriage is no child's play. I guess they do that to create the drama factor but socially it sends a terrible marriage to marry a girl off whether she is ready for the responsibilities or not.😳
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