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aamias

@aamias

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Posted: 10 years ago

swara if does anything it is wrong for sujata as well as for the viewers. they are in the problem and they will tolerate ragini for life thats fine for us but if ap gets insulted for oneday to find the soution it is wrong. whom will swara ask for help? dp and sanskar sujju uttara are out. so ap was only left . would sanskar not help swara's family if swara family is in problem? i think sanskar woont do that so swara also should help the family. she has done everything begging, pleading and asking. what would she do ? even for sanskar also she didnot trust when she doesnt realised her love .But now he could see swara in pain, insult. Sanskar could always reject her but it could be alittle more polite. if this happened with any other person i am sure she could do anything (suicide). What does sanskar want her to do i dont understand .she is not doing this for Ragini or her own relatives ,she is doing this for her husband and family and if she concentrate on her life only there is no difference between Ragini and swara .

Moreover Sanskar knows that she is like this only. He fall in love with this swara onlyshe also said before leaving that she will do everything for Sanskar and his family as it connected to Sanskar. did he told her the plan? no na she is not an mind reader(except asanskarri dreams) so how will she understand she is trying her best to help him. i dont think swara is so foolish if sanskar made him understand she will do anything against sanskar .

Moreover he knows Sanskar will run away before hearing him so she came directly to the point. She went to the most trusted person thats all.

I support swara's action now, (my first time)she knows well about her duties..sanskar wants her to always beg and plead kya? woh agar ye bole "I want you , mujhe apne se dur mat karo" toh he can't trust her..agar woh ye bole " I want your help for doing good for your family" then she is using him for mission..arrey swara kaha jaye ye toh socho? subah sham sirf husband ke piche bhaage aur woh usko jhaadke chala jaye ?I am diehard fan of sanskar not swara. now I dont understand this sanskar and for the first time i understand swara

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Pearl

@pearl.16

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree with you but I think there is a reason that Sanskar is holding himself back. That's what I think the CVs are doing because they can't afford to destroy his character...

Swara is right now and I support her...

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pearl.16
I agree with you but I think there is a reason that Sanskar is holding himself back. That's what I think the CVs are doing because they can't afford to destroy his character...
Swara is right now and I support her...

even i agree wid TM & u.

i think either sanskar is in denial or playacting

but if hes in denial still his behaviour i.e rudeness & insulting swara directly or indirectly & taunting is not like his ckt.wen swara distrusted him i was furious & fully supported sanskar 2 ignore her.i thot how can swara distrust sanskar knowing that blame is on her 4 kidnapping & she knew v.well that sanskar wud'd accepted the his involvement the moment swara was blamed.but now sankaar's behaviour is beyond me even if hes in denial

and if hes playacting which i m thinking hes doing then still he cud tone down bit.why he keeps on saying u don't luv me & can't luv me??i think saaskar will cum out of his denial or playacting once swara stake her life 4 him. now this thing by swara will assure sanskar that she luvs him(if hes in denial)

but luking at sanskar's rxn it seems hes playacting oderwise he wudn't'd kept quiet seeing swara getting insulted.the way he clenched his fists & then held pillar shows that hes restraining himself.

but i hope his denial or playacting won't push swara far from him.

and yes i also luv sanskar more than swara but now i m just fed up of all this. CVs shud show sanskar's feelings clearly & not just hinting or giving clues etc.

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aamias

@aamias

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: tiny15
even i agree wid TM & u.
i think either sanskar is in denial or playacting

but if hes in denial still his behaviour i.e rudeness & insulting swara directly or indirectly & taunting is not like his ckt.wen swara distrusted him i was furious & fully supported sanskar 2 ignore her.i thot how can swara distrust sanskar knowing that blame is on her 4 kidnapping & she knew v.well that sanskar wud'd accepted the his involvement the moment swara was blamed.but now sankaar's behaviour is beyond me even if hes in denial

and if hes playacting which i m thinking hes doing then still he cud tone down bit.why he keeps on saying u don't luv me & can't luv me??i think saaskar will cum out of his denial or playacting once swara stake her life 4 him. now this thing by swara will assure sanskar that she luvs him(if hes in denial)

but luking at sanskar's rxn it seems hes playacting oderwise he wudn't'd kept quiet seeing swara getting insulted.the way he clenched his fists & then held pillar shows that hes restraining himself.
but i hope his denial or playacting won't push swara far from him.

and yes i also luv sanskar more than swara but now i m just fed up of all this. CVs shud show sanskar's feelings clearly & not just hinting or giving clues etc.

this is what I was telling could he be little more polite even if he is playacting the man who couldnot see the girl in pain is now repeatedly insulting her. Even Sanskar did not beg orplead next time I see swara begging lie 70's herione without self respect I will leave this serial.

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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

love you for this post.. some people blaming swara for each and every situation. . I don't understand what sin she do for suffering all this.. all gave her pain but she stand for everyone but people have problem with her.. kalyug mein yeh sab hota hei.. innocence purity ya good character kisiko pasand bhi nahi hei.. I will support swara always.. love her so much.. she is a pure girl..

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-Ros-

@-Ros-

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Thank you for making this post.

I don't know what people want her to do.

How is she meant to run after Sanskaar when he's running away from her when she comes into frame like yesterday? He doesn't want to talk about their relationship & what is she meant to do? Sit at home and hope for the best?

I'm sure think Sanskaar is acting... that he wants her to stay away from MM (I'm not sure if he already knew about the aunty... he might've thought about it after Swara mentioned it in the car) but he's also hurt. Why don't he just say it as it is? That he wants her to stay away because he's worried about her safety?And that he's scared to give them one more chance?-- this one she already knows, which is why she's saying that she'll win him back. This way he doesn't have to insult her... ?

If he just says what is in his mind & told her to let him clear this mess out then she will stay away. She obviously thinks he's not doing anything about the aunty, which is the root of this whole mess so she will go after her na? See, Swara said she'll convince him of her love... she can't do that when she's sitting at home. She needs to be at MM & with Sanskaar to do this. She can't do that because her sister is hell bent on getting her out of the house. He has not given any indications of being prepared to give another chance to their marriage. So she's automatically going to try & figure out this aunty mystery and help DP, kick Ragini out and THEN work on Sanskaar? She needs someone from the house to help her- Sanskaar won't, DP won't... Sujata ...she must've had a reason to call Annapurna. Even if it had been Pari or Uttara, the result would've been the same. Ragini going crazy and torturing people is not Swara's fault, so Sujata has no right to blame her. It's not like Swara forced AP to help her... Or do we expect the family members to also sit there and get tortured..??

When Swara left.. she said that she'll set everything right... that their shaadi and every relationship that is bound to him is important to her. We are expecting too much. She's the positive lead, she will have to be running after her sasuraal-- she'll get bashing from aunties otherwise & TRPs will go down. They can show her trying to win her pati back but she can't do that when they're in separate buildings & he runs away from her. Even in yesterday's episode, he was walking off as soon as he saw her. Then when she asks for help he says he was right that she's using him.. like W*F??? He won't allow her to stay and prove her love. When she tries to do something he comes up with gold like this!? And people bash Swara? 👏 If he's not pretending, he needs to tell her what he wants from her... if he is then, tell her the truth. He should know Swara, she won't stay silent when people are suffering... especially at the hands of her sister and the ones suffering are people who mean a lot to her.

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soumi gupta

@soumi93

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshsriti
love you for this post.. some people blaming swara for each and every situation. . I don't understand what sin she do for suffering all this.. all gave her pain but she stand for everyone but people have problem with her.. kalyug mein yeh sab hota hei.. innocence purity ya good character kisiko pasand bhi nahi hei.. I will support swara always.. love her so much.. she is a pure girl..

buddy its good to be wise bt where and how is completely ur choice...if u think just bcz u are good so everyone around u will do good for u then baby u r too innocent to live on this planet...same goes for swara...shomi very correctly said once that swara always cares about everyone, concerned about everyone bt ignores sanskar only...one person who is keep chanting talak talak all the time suddenly comes and tell u that "I LOVE U" then it will never ever digestable by any sensible person specially when he/she is insecured and confused about his/her position in someone's life.

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Dipali

@dipali13

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Posted: 10 years ago

For me here Sanskar have trust issues, why he doesn't trust Swara? If he is play acting then also he have to put 100%trust on swara as he always clame he knows her more than her then why he's action is different than words? Love sanskar but not this rude one

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deep_

@deep_

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think sanskar s doing all this being rude n all to keep swara away from mm mess ..because he knows swara may get into problem while solving t issue or may be who knows her life could be in danger which sanskar already figured n that's y he s behaving like that ..

Sanskar has to make swara stay away from the mess and be protective that's what audience will expect and if he doesn't do that he will be bashed for not being protective when he sensed something s wrong

Swara also has to save mm and sort out t mess and again this s what audience will expect her to do and if she didn't then she will be a shed for being selfish etc

So according to me both swara n sanskar r doing what they have to do only ..their duty

And also I believe sanskar believe that swara loves him he s just pretending to keep her away from the mess

And also swara going behind sanskar doing things for him to make him realise her love won't work at the moment coz he s in a mission...so now swara can't be idle also ..if she concentrates on music school it wil be worse coz it's not swara ..only thing left s bacahoing mm whether she will be successful or not she has to do that only no option left

When swara was going behind missions did she understand sanskar' love n be nice to him? ? Now t same way if swara does t same sanskar won't be in a position to appreciate also because he is in a mission..

Now sanskar wil keep away swara n swara wil come to him to join his mission this s what audience wil expect

Edited by deep_ - 10 years ago