Anupam's advice to Riya

"Before I am your daughter,

your sister,

your aunt, niece, or cousin,

I am my own person,

and I will not set fire to myself

to keep you warm."

- Unknown

And I agree with the quote completely. I understand that you have to give and take to become part of the family. But to fit in the role a woman shouldn't have to give up her beliefs, sense of morality, ideologies, and who she is as a person. If they can't accept her as her, why should she try to change? Not once was Shivam asked to change. Not once. So why should Riya have to make all the sacrifices of who she in order to appease the people who do not wish her well. And hope that one day she has made enough changes to herself that they are willing to finally accept her.

I am tired of all these messages they are giving to the viewers.