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Posted: 9 years ago
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this tv show is a great influence in people's mind. Its showing that whatever unjust you in-law-s do, please keep your mouth shut and tolerate the atrocities of them. This lady bhabo always behaved rudely, tried to create problem for sndya. She always forgives his stupid sons and their wives for their wrong doing but who always take and also saved her life, doing extremely horrendous behavior. If i were and indian i should have filed a case against showing such demeaning plot in respect of a women, a IPS officer, who saved their country from such a devastating catastrophe.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bithee

this tv show is a great influence in people's mind. Its showing that whatever unjust you in-law-s do, please keep your mouth shut and tolerate the atrocities of them. This lady bhabo always behaved rudely, tried to create problem for sndya. She always forgives his stupid sons and their wives for their wrong doing but who always take and also saved her life, doing extremely horrendous behavior. If i were and indian i should have filed a case against showing such demeaning plot in respect of a women, a IPS officer, who saved their country from such a devastating catastrophe.


Bhabho's all the sons except Suraj are badly brought up . Chavi did lot of nonsense in her in laws and got kicked out by inlaws as "punishment" Mohit does endless nonsense . Vikram and Meenakshi plot all the time . Yet Vikram gets forgiven . Meenakshi uses her tricks to get to stay in the house. Emily suffers but stays in the house. Bhabho should be ashamed of her bringing up her kids badly. They were all badly brought up except Suraj.

This show emphasizes that MIL has the right to decide who is the bahu for her son. even after he is married. Marriage is between two partners has nothing to do with MIL. She cannot decide to throw out her DIL after so many years of marriage even when the husband wants to be with his wife only.

MIL cannot go and pick bahu (another bahu) for her son when he loves his wife only.

What are they trying to tell us? that MIL can throw DIL out for her "mistakes" even when there is a kid involved? That when Ved is there they can just kick out Sandhya and keep Ved with them?

What are they trying to tell us? That the mother has no right over the kid and when she gets thrown out the kid remains with the father?

What are they trying to tell us? That when a DIL dies she is supposed to have "cheated" the in laws and her things should be thrown out of the house like she is nothing to them? Does not even the kid have any right to keep the things belonging to his mother? When she was presumed to be dead?

Who has the right to decide all this? Not even the father in law. But a woman Bhabho has the right to decide.

No matter what Mohit does how many times he leaves the wife and kids how many times he abuses wife still he gets to stay in the house and dominate and rule over his wife. But Suraj cannot decide to be with Sandhya .

Why does Bhabho keep Sandhya's kidney which made her live again. when she threw all Sandhya's things out when Sandhya was presumed to be dead?

Her son was wronged by Sandhya but Suraj wants to live with Sandhya. So how can Bhabho compel Suraj to live with Lalima?

Don't people have human rights ?

That too Sandhya a police officer puts up with this nonsense of two wives under the same roof.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Completely agree with you, this show is a regressive piece of nonsense
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree with this post
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Posted: 9 years ago
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completely agree with u all i hope soon emily should take a drastic step & walk out from this marriage and start a new life with zakir and pari and hope meenakshi and sandhya too did the same it will be a lesson for bhabho
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lol All the mehnat from 1st e0isode to fill now is gone to drain... Crap track... Hating this show
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you, mother in law don't have any right to torture daughter in law, order her daughter in law to do household work, and separate son from daughter in law



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Guys this was a very progressive show in TV when it started. The character of Sooraj was etched in such a way that you simply fell in love with the show.
But post IPS the CVs didn't know how to take things forward. They couldn't check Bhabo and because of it, the show became regressive to the core.
As an IPS officer the script made Sandhya support Bhabo in crimes that happened in the family. They butchered Sooraj to glorify Bhabo.
And now the show has reached a point where the progressive thinking audience does not want to go near it.
Because an IPS officer tolerating domestic abuse is the most regressive thing a soap can show.
If a person who knows law put up with such an abuse without raising voice, then how will other's raise voice. If an IPS officer says post marriage she is a slave to her MIL, then what will be the condition of an ordinary woman.
What inspiration you get from this show, that doesn't matter you are educated, doesn't matter you occupy an important post in the public space, doesn't matter your husband and son loves you, you are at the mercy of a hypocrite MIL. She decides your whole life.
It's time woman like Bhabo is given right replies and not tolerated on.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Guys this was a very progressive show in TV when it started. The character of Sooraj was etched in such a way that you simply fell in love with the show.

But post IPS the CVs didn't know how to take things forward. They couldn't check Bhabo and because of it, the show became regressive to the core.
As an IPS officer the script made Sandhya support Bhabo in crimes that happened in the family. They butchered Sooraj to glorify Bhabo.
And now the show has reached a point where the progressive thinking audience does not want to go near it.
Because an IPS officer tolerating domestic abuse is the most regressive thing a soap can show.
If a person who knows law put up with such an abuse without raising voice, then how will other's raise voice. If an IPS officer says post marriage she is a slave to her MIL, then what will be the condition of an ordinary woman.
What inspiration you get from this show, that doesn't matter you are educated, doesn't matter you occupy an important post in the public space, doesn't matter your husband and son loves you, you are at the mercy of a hypocrite MIL. She decides your whole life.
It's time woman like Bhabo is given right replies and not tolerated on.

completely agree with you

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