1. SACRIFICE- the beginning of MM required a huge sacrifice from Sandhya and her family ( I would only say ved and Sooraj ji) because she had to declare herself as dead.. She never would have thought that her family ( bhabho n bhabhasa) would actually try to get Sooraj ji married off to some one else.. I shudder at the thought that what would have happened if bhabho in her madness had actually got Sooraj ji married to the third lady?? Sooraj ji and ved were not aware about truth but I guess poor ved had to sacrifice for his dad's sake and accept Sooraj ji's marriage with the third lady.
2. PAIN- the most important emotion was pain.. Each member of RP went through pain but their pain was nothing compared to Sooraj ji, Sandhya and ved's pain.. Sooraj ji almost died when he saw Sandhya in coffin and same was with ved.. Sandhya also underwent a lot of pain like lying to her family and staying away from them, mental and physical torture from garjana, the pain that she might fail in her duty.
3. ANGER- Sooraj ji was angry with god, bhabho with Sandhya and we were angry with bhabho and the third lady but only Sooraj ji and our anger was justified.
4. TRUST- we all saw many phases of trust during MM.. Bharat sir's trust that Sandhya would be able to defeat garjana, Sooraj ji's trust that Sandhya was alive and sandhya's trust that she would be able to complete the MM.. Last few episodes after Sooraj ji's entry Sandhya had a new lease of life when her life came to her. She had full trust that now both diya and bati would burn down garjana.
5. LOVE- we saw the triumph of Sooraj ji's and sandhya's love for another.. Sooraj ji not even once forgot Sandhya and even when the third lady was playing gimmicks he only remembered Sandhya.. His love for Sandhya increased when he saw that how tough her duty was.. Sandhya's love brought back Sooraj ji from the jaws of death not once but twice.. Ved's love for his parents helped him to believe that his parents would unite soon.
6. Patriotism- we had many discussions on what patriotism is etc etc but I would still say that selfless love for ones country without caring for your own life is patriotism and both Sooraj ji and Sandhya displayed it of course Bharat sir was also there.. Neither Sandhya nor Sooraj ji feared for their lives even ones keeping country on top.
So I would say that Sooraj ji and sandhya's pain turned out to be country's gain