Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada
^ and again, you just basically told me a whole longgg story of shagun's PAST. she slept with another man, she gave up her kids, she cheated on her husband - it's sh*tty stuff she did, did i say it's not???
my point is this: one good deeed, or a 100 good deeds, it does not MATTER. what matters is a person wants to change, LET HER :Si am sorry if i sound wierd here, but this is what i have learned from my life so far: when someone wants to move on, you let them. if someone who has done a MILLION HORRIBLE STUFF does ONE GOOD THING - with a clean heart, for me, that right there is a miracle. that right there for me is HOPE. in human being, in our world. and taunting someone over their past when they want to turn over a new leaf is the last thing you can do. and i hate seeing everyone here supporting this, because it's just SO SAD that this is how we feel :Si don't care abt lead or how much foootage shagun gets, i don't even care abt these people that much. for me, the important thing they need to show is - if a person wants to change, you support them. DON'T HURL TAUNTS FROM THE PAST. because that hurts.i am not gonna support ANY of the crap shagun did in the past. heck i don;t even support the fact that she is carrying this baby. because that again puts her in the middle of all this. i do not support the attention raman is showering at her. i do not support the silent attitude he has with ishita. i do not support them not telling ishita about this.so, i do not support anything that they are doing wrong. but based on what we have seen so far, YES shagun has officially (i can't believe how) CHANGED FOR THE BETTER. and the kind of person i am, if someone changes for the better - ALL THEIR PAST mistakes, are IN THE PAST. from that point on, i don't care about their past. because again, i am going to repeat my point: WORST thing you can do to someone who wants to turn over a new leaf, is you bring up crap they did in the PAST. we want more of these kind of changes in our society - and this kinda behaviour PREVENTS that. our society is so cliche - we literally FORCE the bad people to keep living with their wrong ways, because we can never forget someone's past 😕 i think our culture just doesn't know how to do that, we keep taunting people of their past. "you did this in the past, you did that in the past, ab kaise badal gaye? ek good deed kar di, toh woh jo itni saari buri cheezein ki, does one good deed compensate for all those bad ones" <--- tell me, will repeating these kind of dialogues EVER do any good? so what do you mean - that no matter what shagun does now will never make up for her past? so then what is the point of being good? buri hi bani rahe, after all aren't bad habits easier than good ones? do you get what i am saying 😕 these kind of dialogues do NOTHING GOOD.this is the present, yes, and she is in their life in the present, yes. but not with BAD INTENTIONS.what ishita did, WAS WRONG. period. and i am not some crazy raman shagun fangirl FYI - i have always watched this show for ishita, because she is the one LOGICAL character ekta kapoor (is this her show?) had made. and to see her doing this crap was just SO SAD.that's it. i rest my case. :S
what is the proof she is really good? All we have seen till now, is her change of wardrobe...and her uttering sweet sentences/ We never got to witness how the devil incarnate turned into this apparent saint overnight...Have you?
. And even if she's good, a saint...what is Ishita seeing,...her husband's ex is hovering around them again...and going by history...that spells trouble...Last time Ishita trusted her, she was planning to kidnap the kids(earthquake day)..so why would Ishita make all the effort to being nice to her when in the past Shagun has responded to each of Ishita's niceties with her vile mouth.
So yes you can celebrate your Saint in your own way..., no issues. 1st you justify all the past actions of Shagun and then come to judge Ishita because as we see it..Ishita should have told her off long time back, that it took her this long is surprising.
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