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shahsb_26 thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
There could be differences in opinion, but there would be no need to bring out old topics back up...
Second, none of us have right to speak like that with ANY writer, and this forum is home for RagNa fans,
for all those trending day and night for their "come back" .. let me tell you those are like rarest of rare things, but it's these writers who keep them alive, who keep them green... Their characters, or their forms. And every writer special, just because they are being selfless in trillions of ways, they spend their time, here on forum for us, or on blog on their story only and only for keeping their readers happy. As a reader lets make it a point to not keep pinging in, everytime, demanding an update is OK, but demand politely, request them and commenting in a way to hurt a writer is wrong!! If we get really pissed off with rate of writing or story, there is always an option as most of you all know... put the reading of story on hold. Wait for several updates and read them in one go. So those wishing for "Come Back" first keep them alive, and be united.

Vidhya, voice of few wouldn't be voice for forum, and it's this forum belongs to you as much as it belongs to anyone, and considering all the contribution you had made to the forum, you have complete right to make posts here and comment.

Falak and Nikki girls you are my friends too, but lets get bit softer with our approach and words.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
Well Well about blog issue We blog readers know wat had happened vidya didn't INSULTED anyone she just said if u don't want to wait or not interested u can leave Lol she already informed that stories were on hold but if u still bak bak who gonna tolerate she doesnt want to create negtivty in that blog ;-) Well it's we readers who chose to read vidya stories she neither requested nor forced anyone to read 😆
Now about her attitude n she bashing everyone whoever she talks with Lol u gotta be kidding 🤣 if u dont knw the facts just come N check heartbeat story you'll get to know wat kind she s how good she's with each n everyone. .we just have fun there if she s rude,high of herself blah blah uff lyk people stated it'll be the other way around 😳 She is ONE OF THE BEST WRITER WHO APPRECIATES N VALUE HER READERS 👏 one of the best quality in her 😉 She is one amazing girl 😳

Peace 😃
Edited by Appuu_AshLover - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#13

1. This is a very private issue between two persons and members gone very very public for whatever reasons. Normally third person shouldn't hop in or be invited in such issues but taking this hasn't remained a private one now; taking sides and counter-accusations will be very normal in this thread.

2. I understand that seeing a public post in your name isn't a nice feeling. I understand Falak must be hurt, even though Vidya did mention her reasons for doing so. I am not questioning the logic behind the pain Falak must be feeling. I love her and as a friend I will always be with her.

3. I also know that Vidya is one of the most good-hearted persons. I have personally witnessed the compassionate side of hers in past days. I know she is a straightforward and honest person. I do not think that a third person outside this issue should have the right to judge Vidya as a person or how rude she is; or she is not.

4. I love Vidya and I love Falak. This is the last thread I would have wanted to post my comment on, But I am because I value both of them; at least I hope that my attempt to not lose both goes through the right way.

5. I told you Falak in PM also, to not please leave the forum if you are thinking any such thing. Your friends and readers do value you and one incident should not let you think they do not love your stories or you.

6. Most important thing, rightfully or wrongfully if any person is considered to be rude, harsh, stubborn, rash and headstrong then also it does not mean that person is not an integral or important part of RagNa family. Not everyone in a team or in a family can perfectly gel with all the other members. But that does not mean that each and every member has no contribution at all as a part of that team and family. Each member has his/her own importance, their own uniqueness. Strength comes from the unique bouquet of contribution of each such family member. It is not at all good to judge or consider someone not to be a part of this forum or RagNa family just for your own personal equations. You can be a judge for your own personal equations and feelings.

I have observed Vidya since the EMA times and observed the immense contribution she had and still has in the forum! Would it be fair to deny all that she has a right to for this one incident? I am seeing Falak since the time she has joined this forum and her own unique contribution with her stories, etc to this forum. It wouldn't be fair either if she considers herself not to be a part of forum.

Vidya and Falak both are already and always will be a part of this forum. Some facts simply are and remain so; no amount of denying would counter this truth and contribution of these two girls in the forum. It is heartbreaking to see any forum member leaving forum and it pains me to no extent.

Falak, I already requested you to not leave this forum and I am again repeating my request.

Vidya, you know I really adore and respect you. Please consider it my request and do not leave forum; this forum is yours and always will be.

I mean cannot two people live by simply ignoring each other? Do people leave their work places or homes for the people they don't gel with? Is it fair for the people who love these persons to lose them? I love you both and hope to see you both around.

To all the members please stop questioning either of the girls' membership in this forum. As a friend you can say anything which does not fall in bashing category; but no one has the right to question a fact which will always be.

P.S.: Sorry for this essay. 😆

Edited by chahat4u - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: chahat4u

1. This is a very private issue between two persons and members gone very very public for whatever reasons. Normally third person shouldn't hop in or be invited in such issues but taking this hasn't remained a private one now; taking sides and counter-accusations will be very normal in this thread.

2. I understand that seeing a public post in your name isn't a nice feeling. I understand Falak must be hurt, even though Vidya did mention her reasons for doing so. I am not questioning the logic behind the pain Falak must be feeling. I love her and as a friend I will always be with her.

3. I also know that Vidya is one of the most good-hearted persons. I have personally witnessed the compassionate side of hers in past days. I know she is a straightforward and honest person. I do not think that a third person outside this issue should have the right to judge Vidya as a person or how rude she is; or she is not.

4. I love Vidya and I love Falak. This is the last thread I would have wanted to post my comment on, But I am because I value both of them; at least I hope that my attempt to not lose both goes through the right way.

5. I told you Falak in PM also, to not please leave the forum if you are thinking any such thing. Your friends and readers do value you and one incident should not let you think they do not love your stories or you.

6. Most important thing, rightfully or wrongfully if any person is considered to be rude, harsh, stubborn, rash and headstrong then also it does not mean that person is not an integral or important part of RagNa family. Not everyone in a team or in a family can perfectly gel with all the other members. But that does not mean that each and every member has no contribution at all as a part of that team and family. Each member has his/her own importance, their own uniqueness. Strength comes from the unique bouquet of contribution of each such family member. It is not at all good to judge or consider someone not to be a part of this forum or RagNa family just for your own personal equations. You can be a judge for your own personal equations and feelings. I have observed Vidya since the EMA times and observed the immense contribution she had and still has in the forum! Would it be fair to deny all that she has a right to for this one incident? I am seeing Falak since the time she has joined this forum and her own unique contribution with her stories, etc to this forum. It wouldn't be fair either if she considers herself not to be a part of forum.

Vidya and Falak both are already and always will be a part of this forum. Some facts simply are and remain so; no amount of denying would counter this truth and contribution of these two girls in the forum. It is heartbreaking to see any forum member leaving forum and it pains me to no extent.

Falak, I already requested you to not leave this forum and I am again repeating my request.

Vidya, you know I really adore and respect you. Please consider it my request and do not leave forum; this forum is yours and always will be.

I mean cannot two people live by simply ignoring each other? Do people leave their work places or homes for the people they don't gel with? Is it fair for the people who love these persons to lose them? I love you both and hope to see you both around.

To all the members please stop questioning either of the girls' membership in this forum. As a friend you can say anything which does not fall in bashing category; but no one has the right to question a fact which will always be.

P.S.: Sorry for this essay. 😆



Charu and the rest of you all probably deserve to know what happened on my side and trust me the evidence is there on my blog to back up what I am going to say.

When I discontinued heartbeart Falak told me that I should write more on Rishav and Saadia, basically telling me how to write my own story. I don't think I replied to that message since I was very vocal and clear that I was not going to change my plot. Then again she messaged when this thread was posted, again saying she only wants to see Rishav and Saadia and she was disappointed in me that I wasn't updating other RagNa stories. Mind you are the time that message was sent I had updated a RagNa story of mine only ONE WEEK prior.

How can a person not get annoyed at something like this? I tried posting this message on this thread about 20 times to her and it wasn't going through and honestly whether it was in PM or in the open does not make a difference to me because I have nothing to hide. People saw what I had to say and I don't regret that. Because that was what was going to be sent in my PM.

As for Nikki. I said numerous times on my blog that the other stories were on hold while I continued heartbeat. On one fine morning she simply came onto the blog and posted "Plz discontinue this story" on one of my stories. My reply to her was very straightforward. I told her if she can't wait for the updates, she has no right to tell me to discontinue my story and she was being ridiculous in doing so and if she can't wait then the choice is hers to not follow the stories anymore. The content is on my blog for whoever wants to doubt my words. Because she continued with her negativity and her tantrums I banned her from my blog.

I think there is only so much a writer can take in situations like these. Whatever they want to say about me is their choice. For all I know they are still reading the stories regardless of the insults they threw at me since the blog is free and open.

I don't think I told them anything wrong.

That's my position.
Edited by Asgard_Nim - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#15
I don't want to be harsh on anyone but one writer who plans, develop his/her story, gives so much of their time, does she needs to take from any body which character you should develop more, how the story should go and which story she should prefer. I am really surprised bcoz one thing Vidya always strict about is to her story plot. She knows her work and doesn't like any interference in that and I don't find any problem in that. She discontinued Heartbeat bcoz of the same reasons and continued in her blog. Now what is the problem. I think a writer needs this much of respect and freedom that she can work on her story the way she want.

And as far as the adjectives given to her, I am really sorry if she deserves this after her contribution, dedication and time she invested in this forum.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#16
Hey girls...
I think we should stop this topic here...otherwise DT get another point to close the forum and I think no one want to be this...already we got lots of trouble of warning

Please I request you all...
Sorry if I hurt anyone.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#17
sry to all if u find my words harsh or rude but think in a way where u all r doin great job to keep alive RagNa bcz of u all RagNa is alive n its writers wish which story he/she wants to write y to argue or demand yes can request ones or twice but askin repeatedly annoys sometimes
try to understand their feelins nobody is perfect yaar n as per vidya she is amazing writer i have seen she really cares for her readers without thinking abt her health n i know all u writers do the same
plzzz if u find any story not readable then dont read
here all r equal one is free to read wat ever story they like rite n it take lots of afforts to write n i salute who all writin
plzzz im sry if i hurt u all n plzz think abt it n it really hurts to c my fav's in pain
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Posted: 10 years ago
#18
Gosh ! This Forum is 'Up in Smokes ' with all the disagreements ! Take a 'Breather' and think calmly for a moment ! Lets make this Forum 'lively' and not create a 'battlefield' ! This forum is a 'Tribute' to 2 Talented Artistes and we should not show any disrespect to them , though ,things do always please us. My POV, Vidya is a talented writer and as usual the Geniuses have their own way of doing their work. As such we should leave them in peace to do their work and keep our 'discontentment' to ourselves [ better still get a punch bag to work out our fury ! ] Vidya, You should FORGIVE AND FORGET any 'hurt' caused unintentionally ,mostly , ! Spread Happiness and Not pain. ! Lets give "LIVE" to this almost 'dying' Forum ! WE NEED EACH AND EVERY RAGNA FAN TO STICK TOGETHER TO KEEP THIS FORUM GOING !! PLEASE !!!!! SO CHILL and LAUGH over all the 'disagreements' !

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