1. This is a very private issue between two persons and members gone very very public for whatever reasons. Normally third person shouldn't hop in or be invited in such issues but taking this hasn't remained a private one now; taking sides and counter-accusations will be very normal in this thread.
2. I understand that seeing a public post in your name isn't a nice feeling. I understand Falak must be hurt, even though Vidya did mention her reasons for doing so. I am not questioning the logic behind the pain Falak must be feeling. I love her and as a friend I will always be with her.
3. I also know that Vidya is one of the most good-hearted persons. I have personally witnessed the compassionate side of hers in past days. I know she is a straightforward and honest person. I do not think that a third person outside this issue should have the right to judge Vidya as a person or how rude she is; or she is not.
4. I love Vidya and I love Falak. This is the last thread I would have wanted to post my comment on, But I am because I value both of them; at least I hope that my attempt to not lose both goes through the right way.
5. I told you Falak in PM also, to not please leave the forum if you are thinking any such thing. Your friends and readers do value you and one incident should not let you think they do not love your stories or you.
6. Most important thing, rightfully or wrongfully if any person is considered to be rude, harsh, stubborn, rash and headstrong then also it does not mean that person is not an integral or important part of RagNa family. Not everyone in a team or in a family can perfectly gel with all the other members. But that does not mean that each and every member has no contribution at all as a part of that team and family. Each member has his/her own importance, their own uniqueness. Strength comes from the unique bouquet of contribution of each such family member. It is not at all good to judge or consider someone not to be a part of this forum or RagNa family just for your own personal equations. You can be a judge for your own personal equations and feelings.
I have observed Vidya since the EMA times and observed the immense contribution she had and still has in the forum! Would it be fair to deny all that she has a right to for this one incident? I am seeing Falak since the time she has joined this forum and her own unique contribution with her stories, etc to this forum. It wouldn't be fair either if she considers herself not to be a part of forum.
Vidya and Falak both are already and always will be a part of this forum. Some facts simply are and remain so; no amount of denying would counter this truth and contribution of these two girls in the forum. It is heartbreaking to see any forum member leaving forum and it pains me to no extent.
Falak, I already requested you to not leave this forum and I am again repeating my request.
Vidya, you know I really adore and respect you. Please consider it my request and do not leave forum; this forum is yours and always will be.
I mean cannot two people live by simply ignoring each other? Do people leave their work places or homes for the people they don't gel with? Is it fair for the people who love these persons to lose them? I love you both and hope to see you both around.
To all the members please stop questioning either of the girls' membership in this forum. As a friend you can say anything which does not fall in bashing category; but no one has the right to question a fact which will always be.
P.S.: Sorry for this essay. đ
Edited by chahat4u - 10 years ago