See, i won't say we can't have positive Shagun, but the problem is whenever Shagun enters in life of Raman and Ishita they have issues within their relations. The biggest reason for this is Raman. He hides lots of things which comes in their life related to Shagun. As part as Ishita is concerned, life partners are always insecure, if they are deeply in love with one other. Here the insecurity is ex-wife, no wife can see her man getting close to other woman. And with ex-wife there was once a relation and were deeply in love.
As you all know, after Shagun came Raman hide lots of things. He always tells after Ishita find out. Its not the correct way. He should share all to Ishita on his own. You yourself recall the moments after Shagun re-entered the show. Not only re-entry before also and that has always been a tough time for their relation.
Raman willingly told about Shagun after Manoj informed that she has changed. But before and after that
1. Mumbai fight. Raman first fought. If ishita misunderstands he should calmly explain her not by fighting.
2. He made friendship with Shagun. He should tell Ishita that he is in talking terms with Shagun, why not telling. If Ishita would do same how he will feel.
3. Also remember phone call in bus, he called Manoj but co-incidently Shagun picked up the call. He talked to her. She told that ask Ishita to keep Elaichi. He told to himself that Shagun has become old Shagun, but he should have shared what Shagun was saying and how he ended up talking to her instead of Manoj. These small conversation secure your partner.
4. CPR: He should have told Ishita on his own. I know situation was a problem, but in all that Ishita told about Rinki right, then also he was shouting that you should have told me earlier. He explained her after seeing footage.
5. Surrogacy: He took Ishita Signature, the other women was not fit so chosen Shagun. At this point he should have told Ishita. He should know the consequences of making his ex-wife a surrogate mother.
--After this I don't know if anything happened because I am not watching the show.
What kind of character Raman is playing, that do whatever you want if wife comes to know then explain else don't explain. Raman has major TRUST issues because he doesn't share lot of things with his life partner. Ishita also hides things but she discloses all after she solves the issue.
It's always advised not to hide things from life partner it always land you into trouble, and here its second marriage for Raman and second love for both, apart from how they came into this relation. The relation is always delicate. Subbu is not in Ishita's life because there is no connection of Subbu with present life of Ishita but for Raman, Shagun has always been the part of his present because of the kids. So, relation of Ishita to Raman is much more sensitive that Raman to Ishita, because Raman has no such deep-rooted insecurities.
I won't be saying anything more but relations are to be respected. The partners shouldn't hide things from others if he/she has blind trust towards the partner. If there is no love then also you can handle relation but if there is no trust relations can't be handled. And after breaking trust, even if the relation is of much love, relation is very difficult to handle as its always a heart-break
No offence please.
My opinion is on characters portrayed by actors not on actors
Edited by sririt - 10 years ago
Cricket
Health and Fitness
Fan Fictions
