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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Is Nimboli ungrateful?

Whatever, Mangala saved her life and also saved her from slaps and from Kundan too.

Mangala did her best for Nimboli.

In return she wants her to call her maa and treat her as mother.

By making it a joke, is Nimboli driving a dagger into Mangala's heart?

Is that why people say shower your love on animals because they are much more loyal?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

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This life was not Nimboli's it was thrust on her by the decisions made by two women.

All these relationships in Akheraj household were shoved on her. They told her Kundan is her beend the family is her sasural Teesa is her badi saas. She had no choice or whatsoever.

The only relationship she actually worked on and made it happen was her relationship with Urmi.

She did not ask to be married off to Kundan. She did not ask to be part of this family.

This life she is leading itself is not her choice.

If she is found in garbage dump then why didn't they leave her there?

They wanted to make her their beendini so they made her their beendin and now they don't need her so they made her naukarani - was she given a choice in that matter

Now she has been kidnapped and is being fed with more lies.

When Mangala is found by the police/Akheraj/Anandi and her lies are laid open what answer will Mangala give that child?

With what rights does Mangala claim to be her mother?

The girl is not born in that house and she is not there by virtue of adoption she was there because she was kidnapped and brought. You take away the girl's choices and thrust yourself on her saying I am your mother how right is it on your part?

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Pams1234

@Pams1234

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Hi

I think that every forgets that she is just a 11year. Who has not seen a normall childhood. But narriage right from the start. Cooking and cleaning snd veing beaten us the only life she knows.

Managala picks and chooses when to help Nimboli.

Is she ungrateful than. Big NO. Because she is a still a child.

After being abused mentally and physically, she is a child who is suffering.

Also being lied to on how she came to be married to Kundan us bad as well.

Also Mangala telling her that her mother is bad etc is not good. And being told that her mother threw her in the rubbish us very bad and sad.

Mangala had 11 years to loving bring her up with love and stop her doing cooking etc but no she just picked and choose when she wanted to help her.

So no nimboli is not wrong in saying a big No.

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Sunna_Deewani

@Sunna_Deewani

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Mangala loves her so she saved her whatever way she could. Then why should Nimboli be grateful? Kids love their parents, not be grateful like they are doing some "ehsaan" on them. But here i think Nimboli too childish and innocent to think all this. I mean mangala should not expect gratefulness. Nimboli will be grateful later when she realises mangala's help. But however i think Nimboli is not attached to Mangala the way Mangala wants. I think for nimboli mangala is someone who is nice to her, helps her in Akheraj household. I don't see any great bond.

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Anandi character from childhood was easy to judge , what kind of person she will be or she is , we can easily judge.

but for me this nimboli character is completely confusing , i never understood what kind of person she is till now.

nimboli likes mangala and kamli but i never seen any special bonding between them, from nimboli side i always felt she likes them as they r good with her and she doesnt has any option. But i never seen feeling like she cant leave without them.

now nimboli is running with mangala but never felt that nimboli is deeply attach with her or she is having any special feeling for that lady.

the way she hug anandi that was something different , she gave this kind of hug only to anandi being stranger.

Let see now what cvs does - when trio nandini anandi mangala will come in one frame.

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