Why does shanti hates kaushaliya sooo much??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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the way shanti doesn't want kaushaliya to be proven a good saas in front of riya it seems she has a bit more problem with kaushaliya than riya. But why?? Just because khushiya is her bahu? Could there be any other reason behind shanti's hatred towards kaushaliya? Did raghav married kaushaliya against his mother's wish?? Maybe raghav forced shanti or something or maybe shanti feared of losing raghav if she had not got him married to kaushaliya. But I feel there's some other big reason for shanti's hatred and annoyance towards kaushaliya. What do you guys think?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think she hates her, but has taken advantage of Kushiya's good nature.
Shanti wants control over everyone in the house and unfortunately Kushiya has made herself the an easy target.😭

Also Sarla does her tana kasi of Kaushiya infront of Amma all the time so Shanti plays upon it


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shanti is really selfish person, no moral or sense of justice. She took the decision to let Shivam marry Riya just so that she could be good in eyes of her ATM. All the money Raghav earns goes to Sarla, she does not even care Raghav 's kids. I think it would be great if Riya does not give her salary to her and she does right in front of Raghav
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She doesn't hate kaushalya but she loves sarla..more than ragwa..she admitted it today...since sarla has no source of income , she dominates kaushalya so that kaushalya never raises her head n stop ragwa frm giving his income to her ...ragwa doesn't know where his salary is going ..shanti gives a good chunk to sarla in form of neg and beti ko Dena hai..also she needs kaushalya to do all the house work , their seva and sarla seva also ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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she does not hate her, she wants to keep her under her control,
by doing so she will keep her son under her control. this is what she is trying to do with riya..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shivam already gave Riya a preface about the situation in his home. Riya waved it off. After all Shanti had allowed her to marry Shivam so in her eyes Dadi is a fair person who will do right by the family. Riya has to see Shanti's bias towards Sarla, how Amit and Pari are treated like they are extra special while she berates and get Nimita and Preeti to run circles around her. After all Cowsalya's daughters are going to tow the line just like their mother. S
Shivam is the strong silent type. He will strike only when he knows it will be effective. He pinned Shanti and Raghav with his stance at the wedding and got them on his side. It will take a while before Riya realizes Shanti uses and abuses her son's family to feed and pamper her daughter Sarla's family.

Sarla's husband Ashok and daughter Sonal are decent and naive while ASP (Amit, Sarla, Pari) are partners in crime. The idea of honest living is foreign to them. Sarla encourages her daughter Pari to steal from her uncle, grandma, aunt and treat her cousins with contempt by throwing seniority in the mix. But the reality is Preeti and Nimmi can teach those three a lot about life.

When will Amit's gambling, Pari's looting and secret rendezvous with Vyom be exposed? Would like to see Shanti Devi try to cover that up.

The first jatka will hit Shanti when Riya will hold on to a piece of her paycheck. Let the games begin. Sooner or later Raghav is sure to get wind of the way things are in his home. Let's hope Rani gives Riya a few home truths about the Srivastav family affairs.

Rani and her aunt should expose Sarla's demand for the land...which could turn out to be an albatross around Sarla's neck. Maybe this way Raghav will slowly see his sister's real face.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI

Shivam already gave Riya a preface about the situation in his home. Riya waved it off. After all Shanti had allowed her to marry Shivam so in her eyes Dadi is a fair person who will do right by the family. Riya has to see Shanti's bias towards Sarla, how Amit and Pari are treated like they are extra special while she berates and get Nimita and Preeti to run circles around her. After all Cowsalya's daughters are going to tow the line just like their mother. S

Shivam is the strong silent type. He will strike only when he knows it will be effective. He pinned Shanti and Raghav with his stance at the wedding and got them on his side. It will take a while before Riya realizes Shanti uses and abuses her son's family to feed and pamper her daughter Sarla's family.

Sarla's husband Ashok and daughter Sonal are decent and naive while ASP (Amit, Sarla, Pari) are partners in crime. The idea of honest living is foreign to them. Sarla encourages her daughter Pari to steal from her uncle, grandma, aunt and treat her cousins with contempt by throwing seniority in the mix. But the reality is Preeti and Nimmi can teach those three a lot about life.

When will Amit's gambling, Pari's looting and secret rendezvous with Vyom be exposed? Would like to see Shanti Devi try to cover that up.

The first jatka will hit Shanti when Riya will hold on to a piece of her paycheck. Let the games begin. Sooner or later Raghav is sure to get wind of the way things are in his home. Let's hope Rani gives Riya a few home truths about the Srivastav family affairs.

Rani and her aunt should expose Sarla's demand for the land...which could turn out to be an albatross around Sarla's neck. Maybe this way Raghav will slowly see his sister's real face.


Great post!👏

Sarla will quickly make up a story about why she asked for the land-

because she needs money for something. Raghav will give the money & the saga

will continue...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shanti gets heavily constipated when Khusia is around, therefore she yells and screams at her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In 1 word, Shanti is INSECURE!
Insecure person do to all of things to prove to other & for their false pride, Shanti is doing exactly that!

They make other's life miserable and claim that they are leading them on the right path.
And when the person is like Kausalya & Raghav, they will make themselves believe that they are being led in the right path!

If a person feels they are oppressed then they can do something, but if the person does not even think they would ever be oppressed when in fact, each and every moment they are being, then nothing can be done.

They would never end until one of them does or changes (which based n the current characterization, doesn't seems to be happening).

Coming to the original topic, no, Shanti doesn't hate, she just wants to rule Kausalya & for that she keeps her in her Clutches. And that can be done only if she constantly threatens & humiliates ; Kusiya takes it as her blessing & hence doesn't think she is either being humiliated are kept in control.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana4ever

the way shanti doesn't want kaushaliya to be proven a good saas in front of riya it seems she has a bit more problem with kaushaliya than riya. But why?? Just because khushiya is her bahu? Could there be any other reason behind shanti's hatred towards kaushaliya? Did raghav married kaushaliya against his mother's wish?? Maybe raghav forced shanti or something or maybe shanti feared of losing raghav if she had not got him married to kaushaliya. But I feel there's some other big reason for shanti's hatred and annoyance towards kaushaliya. What do you guys think?

shanthi does not hate kausalya.She is blind to her daughter's faults and shows overwhelming affection only to her daughter's children .infact she finds one or other way to demean kaushalya's children in fron of everybody including her own son Raghav who is convinced that amma is always right.To blindly appreciate sarla she has to degrade her daughter in law Kusiya.

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