My take of Kabir -Tarani relationship

Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Thank you for always being so positiveAnd yes if Tarini and Ananya become great friends...there has to be reason

Nice post Mahi...

I am actually surprised to see people who were in admiration of Kabir-Tarini friendship till now are now pointing fingers at it. I am not saying they are wrong because everyone is entitled to have their own opinion. But, it's true that we that we humans are so judgmental and we cannot deny it. I apologize if anyone is hurt by whatever I say because I am just 24 and feel I have only partly experienced life and thus my point of view might not be right. Life has always taught me that there are various sides to every situation - one of it might be right for us while the other side might be reasonable for the rest.

Though the past has been disclosed to us in the last two episodes but it just a part of it. Of course, I want to hear Tarini's side of story as well. The plot you have presented in the post seems even-handed and that will clearly explain the bonding between the two and also the fact that that Kabir feels guilty for Anurag as well.

However, I have tried to think about the other side of this situation as well in case if what we are thinking is not shown. See, Tarini was equally responsible for what transpired between the two that night so maybe somewhere she was attracted to Kabir back then (which is utterly normal). Like others are saying, yes she could have left for good after that incident but wouldn't it have made Kabir feel further guilty? She stayed back she knew it was her fault as well and maybe she acted selfish too in this case when she realised that nothing more could happen between Kabir and her she preferred to have his companionship as a true friend in her life. She did not leave him alone like other but was there for him through every thick and thin. Now, after 8 years if they have moved past that horrible might of their life and share a comfort level with each other (as friends) it's entirely their call. (This is just a thought and I maybe be wrong like I said we can never ever look at the broader picture until life teaches us in its own way)

I have penned down the other side but I would without doubt prefer to see what you have written Mahi.

Originally posted by: idonkno

Nice post Mahi...

I am actually surprised to see people who were in admiration of Kabir-Tarini friendship till now are now pointing fingers at it. I am not saying they are wrong because everyone is entitled to have their own opinion. But, it's true that we that we humans are so judgmental and we cannot deny it. I apologize if anyone is hurt by whatever I say because I am just 24 and feel I have only partly experienced life and thus my point of view might not be right. Life has always taught me that there are various sides to every situation - one of it might be right for us while the other side might be reasonable for the rest.

Though the past has been disclosed to us in the last two episodes but it just a part of it. Of course, I want to hear Tarini's side of story as well. The plot you have presented in the post seems even-handed and that will clearly explain the bonding between the two and also the fact that that Kabir feels guilty for Anurag as well.

However, I have tried to think about the other side of this situation as well in case if what we are thinking is not shown. See, Tarini was equally responsible for what transpired between the two that night so maybe somewhere she was attracted to Kabir back then (which is utterly normal). Like others are saying, yes she could have left for good after that incident but wouldn't it have made Kabir feel further guilty? She stayed back she knew it was her fault as well and maybe she acted selfish too in this case when she realised that nothing more could happen between Kabir and her she preferred to have his companionship as a true friend in her life. She did not leave him alone like other but was there for him through every thick and thin. Now, after 8 years if they have moved past that horrible might of their life and share a comfort level with each other (as friends) it's entirely their call. (This is just a thought and I maybe be wrong like I said we can never ever look at the broader picture until life teaches us in its own way)

I have penned down the other side but I would without doubt prefer to see what you have written Mahi.

Originally posted by: Mahi78

It is possible as you have said, but as for as my experience ( which is quite good being related to fashion and glamour industry ) is concerned I don't think Tarani has feelings for Kabir, it just happened in that spur moment of blankness and when they realised it there was guilt frm both the ends and may be a bit more from Kabir's end, but after that incident it is quite difficult to forget and move on being friend ( as per normal human nature) there must have been something school bonded them back, only reason I find is Anurag. May be Sherya misunderstood Anurag as thief son as Manav once commented and tried to do some harm ( as she doesn't like to sit back and take ) to him whcih Kabir wanted to prevent and that rescue he could have saved his life but lost his legs. Which Kabir must be guilty about and this must have moved Tarani and that jesters of his must have made her forget and move on. Otherwise she could have simply walked away from him before Sherya could humiliate her further.

Originally posted by: Mahi78

It is possible as you have said, but as for as my experience ( which is quite good being related to fashion and glamour industry ) is concerned I don't think Tarani has feelings for Kabir, it just happened in that spur moment of blankness and when they realised it there was guilt frm both the ends and may be a bit more from Kabir's end, but after that incident it is quite difficult to forget and move on being friend ( as per normal human nature) there must have been something school bonded them back, only reason I find is Anurag. May be Sherya misunderstood Anurag as thief son as Manav once commented and tried to do some harm ( as she doesn't like to sit back and take ) to him whcih Kabir wanted to prevent and that rescue he could have saved his life but lost his legs. Which Kabir must be guilty about and this must have moved Tarani and that jesters of his must have made her forget and move on. Otherwise she could have simply walked away from him before Sherya could humiliate her further.

Originally posted by: Mahi78

It is possible as you have said, but as for as my experience ( which is quite good being related to fashion and glamour industry ) is concerned I don't think Tarani has feelings for Kabir, it just happened in that spur moment of blankness and when they realised it there was guilt frm both the ends and may be a bit more from Kabir's end, but after that incident it is quite difficult to forget and move on being friend ( as per normal human nature) there must have been something school bonded them back, only reason I find is Anurag. May be Sherya misunderstood Anurag as thief son as Manav once commented and tried to do some harm ( as she doesn't like to sit back and take ) to him whcih Kabir wanted to prevent and that rescue he could have saved his life but lost his legs. Which Kabir must be guilty about and this must have moved Tarani and that jesters of his must have made her forget and move on. Otherwise she could have simply walked away from him before Sherya could humiliate her further.

Originally posted by: idonkno

Makes sense to me!! Like I said experiences do matter to look at the broader picture. Thanks!

Originally posted by: -sharada-

@red: I thinks so too. These spur of the moment things do happen and I have seen them too in real life. There is no practical explanation to that. I have a strong feeling that Shreya portrayed Tarini's brother as Kabir-Tarini's son. Nothing could be worse than that.

But, yeah what you said also makes sense. Somewhere Anurag is involved in the reason why Kabir and Tarini became such good friends.