Khuishya is a loving mother!!!

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She loves her kids. They consider her a friend. They Understand what she goes through on a daily basis!!!
She dose what she can for them, what she THINKS is best. No it is not always the best approach.
She has a kind heart, a forgiving nature and a beautiful smile. And even with all her troubles she looks for the good in every one!!!
These qualities may seem foolish to some , She has to have some kind of strength and backbone to deal with her in -laws for so long and still be a happy soul and light spirit!!!
What she needs is to to learn that it is not wrong to speak for your rights, it is not wrong to say no, it is not wrong or selfish. It is Ok to change... She will learn that ...hopefully soon!!
But never doubt that this woman is a loving mother and a kind soul!!!



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Posted: 10 years ago
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well said vinnie,
kushiya is the best mother they could have get
see sarla - she is worst mother because
she teach her kids to steal
she teach her kids to lie
play with people's feeling
not respect elders

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Posted: 10 years ago
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nice post yaar... πŸ‘
it's really sad that some people can't understand her character...
She is indeed a loving mother...She knows her children better and her children know her too...

Surviving in such atmosphere for so many years with such husband needs guts...Let's consider the time of Khusiya and Raghav's marriage...at that time mother used to teach her daughter that husband house is everything...you need to be stay their with patience till the end of your life...she did that and brought up her children...she made her children independent even in such environment...

I bet any of the child couldn't be independent and working person if Khusiya didn't have encouraged them...she proved Sarla as a worst mother...with planning and plotting Sarla couldn't give such values to her children what Khusiya gave to her own children...

Today her kids feel peace in sharing everything with their mom...still his son feels peace at her womb...still she caress her children like little kids...

The only hindrance is her in-laws...she is a women who still lives in old rituals world...she thinks elders are everything...their scold and anger are also blessing...as she is not educated so she believes what she has been taught from her family...she will never goes against her in-laws that's what she knows...

People are mingling her respect with motherhood...it's totally different perspective yaar...

She loves her children more than anything else..but she respects elders and not also aware of the evilness of her in-laws that's why she can't take stand for her own and her children...

But mark my words...when Riya will make her understand about it na...that day this weak lady will turn to be the strongest woman, mother, wife of this world...She will fight and speak for her and her children's rights...just wait and watch
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ronshaan

well said vinnie,

kushiya is the best mother they could have get
see sarla - she is worst mother because
she teach her kids to steal
she teach her kids to lie
play with people's feeling
not respect elders



TY Ron. She did give her children the correct Values. They have learnt to work form themselves. Sarla kids had "Freedom" look where they are . Khusiya's kids have restrictions, but one is a designer, and the other two are working hard. They are respectful and appriciative for what they have, as apposed to Sarla's kids who want other people property just because they think they deserve it. With the exception of Sonal of course she is a sweet heart as well!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ireena7

nice post yaar... πŸ‘

it's really sad that some people can't understand her character...
She is indeed a loving mother...She knows her children better and her children know her too...

Surviving in such atmosphere for so many years with such husband needs guts...Let's consider the time of Khusiya and Raghav's marriage...at that time mother used to teach her daughter that husband house is everything...you need to be stay their with patience till the end of your life...she did that and brought up her children...she made her children independent even in such environment...

I bet any of the child couldn't be independent and working person if Khusiya didn't have encouraged them...she proved Sarla as a worst mother...with planning and plotting Sarla couldn't give such values to her children what Khusiya gave to her own children...

Today her kids feel peace in sharing everything with their mom...still his son feels peace at her womb...still she caress her children like little kids...

The only hindrance is her in-laws...she is a women who still lives in old rituals world...she thinks elders are everything...their scold and anger are also blessing...as she is not educated so she believes what she has been taught from her family...she will never goes against her in-laws that's what she knows...

People are mingling her respect with motherhood...it's totally different perspective yaar...

She loves her children more than anything else..but she respects elders and not also aware of the evilness of her in-laws that's why she can't take stand for her own and her children...

But mark my words...when Riya will make her understand about it na...that day this weak lady will turn to be the strongest woman, mother, wife of this world...She will fight and speak for her and her children's rights...just wait and watch



Thank you Ireena 7 . It makes me really sad and hurt reading all the hateful comments. Even I have said before she causes some of her problems, but going on to calling her a bad mother is not right !!! And making comments like that is hurtful .
I also don't like people making fun of her relationship with her husband. The woman has so little happiness. She said before he is her strengh. What ever it is he dose care and love her, but for him to take her side she has to stop saying it is her fault...haain na???
The comfort level her kids have with her is admirable and commendable. And that would not have happened if she did not formed that bond of trust and friendship with them. Even Sarla;s kids disrespect their mother and father on occasion, but Shivam , Preeti and Nimmi would not!
Khushiya is an innocent soul. She looks for the good in all , even if they are bad to her she would forgive them . She holds no grudges. She has a clean heart and minds and that is why she is always glowing,

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinnie79



Thank you Ireena 7 . It makes me really sad and hurt reading all the hateful comments. Even I have said before she causes some of her problems, but going on to calling her a bad mother is not right !!! And making comments like that is hurtful .
I also don't like people making fun of her relationship with her husband. The woman has so little happiness. She said before he is her strengh. What ever it is he dose care and love her, but for him to take her side she has to stop saying it is her fault...haain na???
The comfort level her kids have with her is admirable and commendable. And that would not have happened if she did not formed that bond of trust and friendship with them. Even Sarla;s kids disrespect their mother and father on occasion, but Shivam , Preeti and Nimmi would not!
Khushiya is an innocent soul. She looks for the good in all , even if they are bad to her she would forgive them . She holds no grudges. She has a clean heart and minds and that is why she is always glowing,

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Same feeling yaar...I have never thought people will make such comment on Khusiya as mother...it's shocking...and agree with you..She is not at fault...you are absolutely right...she finds her happiness in little little things..even when Shanti praises her in a fake way..she smiles and does everything for her as she believes it's true...and I love her and her children and their relationship...
in fact I am watching this show just because of this bond...I adore the bond they share...it shows how a family is...Today Shivam wants to give his first salary to his mom...Nimmi Preeti know how to deal with problems and respect their mom...
Shivam knows his father loves his mom more than his children but still respects his dad...of course credit goes to Khusiya,,,still he feels proud when his dad says good words for him...
I am really shocked to see some people reactions how they judge this character...
Khusiya is a caring mother...she nurtures her kids with all the love and care.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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while i agree with your post...but she has failed a bit as a mother, no doubt about it...
she failed to protect her kids from evil Sarla n Shanti...she failed to show her husband how her kids are not nikkamme's at all...that is what Shanti always tells Raghav, but not even once Khushiya told him otherwise...

while its his duty to know his kids, n make them trust him n open themselves to him, it is her duty to try as a mother .

i can understand her lack of confidence that she cannot stand up for her kids, but atleast she can keep mum, but instead she sides with Shanti n Sarla n scolds her own kids, who even knows are mostly not at fault...this n this only is her fault...

otherwise she is a loving caring mother...and i dont agree when someone calls her horrible...
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Originally posted by: anjs

while i agree with your post...but she has failed a bit as a mother, no doubt about it...

she failed to protect her kids from evil Sarla n Shanti...she failed to show her husband how her kids are not nikkamme's at all...that is what Shanti always tells Raghav, but not even once Khushiya told him otherwise...

while its his duty to know his kids, n make them trust him n open themselves to him, it is her duty to try as a mother .

i can understand her lack of confidence that she cannot stand up for her kids, but atleast she can keep mum, but instead she sides with Shanti n Sarla n scolds her own kids, who even knows are mostly not at fault...this n this only is her fault...

otherwise she is a loving caring mother...and i dont agree when someone calls her horrible...



Thank You Anjs,
@ bold I totally agree with that statement, she should not join them in scolding her kids. But I am understanding her reason for doing so now is to get rid of the tension and stop her kids from getting into more trouble , esp. Nimmi who looks like she would not shut up even if she is in hot water πŸ˜†πŸ˜† In her head she is probably protecting them. πŸ˜•
She did give Ragav a piece of her mind when he searched Shivam and made him apologize to his son. She also told him to congratulate him when Shivam got his job back, which he also did.!
It is a sad fact that to deal with Shanti and Sarla you need to have a little mean streak , which I don't think Khusiya has. She is to docile!!!
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Originally posted by: Manzz

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Thank You Manzz,
Nice smilieys!! Well goodness pays off in the end and she is fanally highly rewarded by her dream of giving that chain to her daughter -in - law coming true!!! So Happy for her !!!

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