I didn't buy it - Page 3

Originally posted by: Kiely

I hate Gunjan to the core and the way these people keep justifying her is even more irritating. What's worse is they even made Baldev an obsessive bro. As @indiaphorums said if we ignore the last "GunDev" track, Baldev would never ever give his baby to anyone not even Gunjan. He toh anywaya doesn't like Ranvi 😆.
So basically Bansuri and Gunjan are the same - selfish, cruel, vamps etc
They can never love anyone truly except their spouses (not even their own children). The last track also left a very bad taste in my opinions regarding Gunjan. If we go by their justification of Gunjan's insecurity, then she will do some or the other evil in the future coz apparently she can't be a mother. So she has a license to do eveything coz of her insecurity.

Originally posted by: Maria_Shaukat_9

I know Veera is a Gunjan bhakt and worships the ground she walks on but even someone like Veera would surely feel an unbreakable parental bond with their child? Would Veera as a parent find it easy to be seperated from her child once it's actually in front of her? Idk because Veera is weird but the way I see it is that Veera isn't completely stone hearted and is human so surely she'd struggle with it all when it comes down to it? Any normal human would. Whether she'd be able to actually go through with it is questionable but I choose to believe she wouldn't because she's an actual human being with a heart who'd actually love her child and not be able to bear being seperated from it because thinking of the opposite just makes me think that she's heartless and makes me want to smack her.

And I definitely can see Baldev going back on his word. It was clear that he and Veera rushed into this and didn't think it through and I think once he starts to bond with the child and actually realises that he loves it then he wouldn't be able to give it away. I think right now he wasn't sure whether he wanted to be a parent yet but once he realises he is then he won't be able to part with it. Baldev isn't the sacrificing sort and wouldn't be able to part with someone he loves. He might not realise it yet but he will love that child and then I can't see him giving it up. That wouldn't be in Baldev's character. I'm 100% sure he'd change his mind and if the father wants to keep their child then what can anyone else do? Though Veera can be a cow sometimes, I can't imagine her forcing Baldev into giving their child up not if he doesn't want to. Lately they've showed how much she loves him and even put up with his BS and rash decisions and him ordering her about and I can't imagine that Veera forcing Baldev into giving up their child if he loves it and doesn't want to.

Realistically I don't think this child giving will happen. VeeBa are human and would love their child like any good parent would and despite what they promised their siblings would deep down as time went along want to keep him until one day it'd all get too much and they'd come out with it. I can't imagine VeeBa being that unfeeling that they'd be able to go through with it. That's their first first together and they're it's parents who'll experience everything together from pregnancy to childbirth to seeing it for the first time and I can't imagine it being as easy as they're making it seem to disregard all that and act like it isn't theirs. They wouldn't be able to do it and that's what I choose to believe because the other option is unthinkable and scary.

Also you're right the last episode was crap and none of it was believable. It was forced and cheesy and you're right there's no guarantee that Gunjan has changed and in fact I don't think she has and I couldn't buy Bansuri suddenly wishing well on everyone overnight either. They seriously failed in making any of it believeable. They needed to show character development not overnight changes and fake and cheesy OTT moments. They failed big time. If they didn't want to deal with the problems they created then at the very least they could have shown an entertaining and fun last episode rather than a dull one. I mean it wouldn't have been hard. But no they decided to go for cheesy and fake and it made me feel like i just wasted time watching that episode. It had nothing worth watching in it. They've produced lots of better episodes than their last one and I don't why they chose to bow out in a such a dull and anti climactic way.

Originally posted by: ImpossibleGirl2

But if you remember pre-marriage he would always stick up for Veera against Bansuri, and obviously post-marriage alot had happened! And the respect/love he had for Veera wasn't the same ...

Still can't believe the show has ended but what a disappointing ending

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Originally posted by: Indiaphorum

The earning will be there, no doubt. But they have showed this in other serials too, where the pair give away their child to others. It happens in real life as well. People give away their baby to their sibling who can't have their own. So, it won't be that unrealistic imo from Veera's side. The love will always be there. But they will eventually get over the yearning but the love will always be there.

Originally posted by: Maria_Shaukat_9

Tbh I've never seen or heard of this happening anywhere but on t.v. It probably does happen but I'm guessing it's rare? And the reason why I'm saying I don't think it'd happen with VeeBa is not just because it doesn't happen a lot or even because VeeBa wouldn't be able to but because of the off hand way it was mentioned in the last episode. It was dealt with in such an unrealistic and vague way that you can juat sort of ignore it and think it won't happen because the way it was handled doesn't seem realistic if you get what I mean.

If it was dealt with in a proper way then I'd accept it but the way they just threw it in there as a random last minute never mentioned before thing didn't make it feel real. We didn't see any hint of this before and the way everyone reacted to it didn't seem real either and we didn't see what actually happened or how everyone felt so it's just one of those things that can be ignored or twisted the way you want because it could happen or it couldn't. But the unrealistic and bizarre way it was handled I'm leaning towards it didn't because things don't work like that.

Also it helps that I can't see Baldev Singh truly being ready to give up his child after he starts bonding with it and loving it. He isn't that selfless. I can actually imagine Baldev fighting with everyone for his child is he has to including Veera. He's the possessive sort and wouldn't be able to let someone he loves go and especially wouldn't be ready to let Ranvi play daddy to a child that is his and he loves. The idea of it all is nobel but realistically I can't imagine it.

I also can imagine Bansuri stirring and taunting Gunjan that the child isn't hers and is Veera's way of getting control over them and making herself look mahaan and like I just can't imagine it all working out as well as they think. There's so many problems in it and realistically a lot of characters would act differently. Gunjan- jealous and not wanting the child, Bansuri- stirring and manipulating, Baldev- possessive and angry and ultimately not wanting to give his child up no matter what anyone says. And realistically I can even imagine Balwant enquiring whether this is truly what Veera wants. It wouldn't be decided and a done deal just like that. A lot can change. Though I know this does happen in real life, I think a lot of characters in the show wouldn't let this happen. It's like I know these characters so well to know that it wouldn't be as simple as that. None of them would be let it be this simple.