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Posted: 10 years ago
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Honestly... I really don't know whether Yuvraj actually loves Suhani or it's just wishful thinking on all our parts. Just Great chemistry doesn't translate to a great relationship now, does it?? Yes, he cares, yes he's attracted to her, but love... after the last few days I'm not sure. CVs has made Yuvraj's character so inconsistent, ki kya kahen...😡
What Yuvraj did today... well it was expected. His first reaction on any kinda hurt is to lash out... he is impulsive, Immature,egoistic, emotional and stubborn.When you know someone that lntimately, you know the chinks in their armour, their weak spots. And your pain makes you use that intimate knowledge to hurt your loved one just as much as you are hurt. I guess thats why an altercation between 2 people close to each other is never fair, its always below the belt...😭

But what's really upsetting is that its Suhani... always Suhani who bears the brunt of his bad behaviour. And this time, HE CROSSED A LINE. He knows that she has been the brunt of jokes/taunts/insults her entire life just because of her looks ( which I still fail to understand. In addition to being absolute morons,The creatives of SSEL must be blind as well coz Suhani is beautiful!! ) and yet he went ahead and publicly insulted her with the same thing.Last I checked they were " Friends" right?? What , he is hurt/upset... so that gives him the right to do something so downright disgusting!! 🤢

I'm sure his excuse will be that it was all a misunderstanding created by Dadi and Rohan. Fine, it was Dadi's plotting, it was Rohan's deviousness... but THOSE HORRIBLE WORDS WERE HIS. no one forced him to say them , did they?..😡 If I was Suhani, love or not... I would have slapped him then and there and left the place (Actually, I would have left long time back.. 😃)

He has never behaved this badly with anyone, not even the so called love of his life Sowmya. But this girl, who loves him, saves him everytime he or his god forsaken family gets into trouble, who forgives his Disgusting crass relatives and his at times obnoxious behaviour... he treats her like FILTH!! 😡 He is mostly a jerk to her... giving her gifts, samosas, involving her in his stupid plans, doing yaari dosti... how does that make up for the inconsistent behaviour??

He doesn't really respect her, He doesn't trust her enough... what love are we talking about?? Just passion or chemistry isn't equal to love, right??

I'm sure the stupid CVs will make the mahaan suhani forgive him, rohan will be the ultimate villian, dadi will shed her crocodile tears for 2.5 sec and will be forgiven, pratima/lata/pankaj will give pravachans about the sanctity of marriage and all will be well in the SSEL universe.

But today's episode left a really bad taste in my mouth... I have been a Yuvani shipper from the beginning (mostly 😃) , but after this ... I really don't know. Yuvraj has fallen to such depths that I don't know how the CVs are going to redeem him...EVER. I don't know about Suhani, but some wounds are just too deep... to be forgiven or forgotten. Today is really going to rock Yuvani's equation... and I wonder if it will ever be the same... or whether it should be!!

PS : Really good acting by Rajshri Rani Pandey and Sahil Mehta though...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree..today the cvs have butchered his character in such a way his redemption looks a longgg process. I sincerely hope the cvs don't take any shortcuts as they did with soumya saying a sorry and everything ending.

don't know what to make out of this but I feel the cvs want to start the love story from the scratch., they wanted suhani to realise the kind of person she fell in love with. Finally a reason for her to leave the house and yuvrajs life forever.

yuvraj has to change for good if there is any chance of redemption or getting her back in his life for which he will have to prove it to her to gain her love and most importantly trust back.

so both of them can start their life with love and trust unlike the last time.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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a_angel, agree with you wholesale. Especially that Yuvraj crossed a line on his volition. Whatever his hurt, he was unjustified because he himself has created a situation where IF Su had done this, she would still be only guilty of not telling him directly. If he has felt stirrings of love, she's not to know, since his constant refrain has been friendship and every time she's allowed herself to hope, he's taken the hope away. Anger and lashing out I can understand to a limited extent, but public, calculated humiliation?

His behaviour with Su, as you point out, is worse than with anyone else. I blame her too--to not set boundaries as to what's acceptable, to forgive too easily is not a good thing, it's not noble, it's encouraging wrong and inviting further bad behaviour.

It will again resolve without resolution--no lessons learnt, slap on the wrist, using others to share the blame and excuse what is indefensible.

Pam, I feel Yuvraj will not change much for the reasons given above--where's the motivation? He will pine a bit, he will realize he was wrong--eventually--but it will be justified as he reacted out of shock and hurt because he cares so much. Again the rubbish reasoning that bad behaviour out of love isn't bad behaviour, but proof of love. The cvs don't get what we all keep saying, then how can Yuvraj?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anita_m

a_angel, agree with you wholesale. Especially that Yuvraj crossed a line on his volition. Whatever his hurt, he was unjustified because he himself has created a situation where IF Su had done this, she would still be only guilty of not telling him directly. If he has felt stirrings of love, she's not to know, since his constant refrain has been friendship and every time she's allowed herself to hope, he's taken the hope away. Anger and lashing out I can understand to a limited extent, but public, calculated humiliation?

His behaviour with Su, as you point out, is worse than with anyone else. I blame her too--to not set boundaries as to what's acceptable, to forgive too easily is not a good thing, it's not noble, it's encouraging wrong and inviting further bad behaviour.

It will again resolve without resolution--no lessons learnt, slap on the wrist, using others to share the blame and excuse what is indefensible.

Pam, I feel Yuvraj will not change much for the reasons given above--where's the motivation? He will pine a bit, he will realize he was wrong--eventually--but it will be justified as he reacted out of shock and hurt because he cares so much. Again the rubbish reasoning that bad behaviour out of love isn't bad behaviour, but proof of love. The cvs don't get what we all keep saying, then how can Yuvraj?



I keep saying this CVs don't want to show growth in his character fearing no story after the confession. I completely agree it was not at all justified the public insult and a direct reference to her so-called ugly face but this is how heroes are potrayed in hindi serials, sometimes worser than this and the CVs are yet again following the same trend. In real life no woman would tolerate such behaviour.

The one basic question is why yuvraj was angry when she is only his friend? that has not been ansd to us. And how long are they going to resort to anger and arrogance to show his feelings? So enough of butchering of his character which already looks badly in need of a redemption and show the love in this love story.

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