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Posted: 10 years ago
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Forgive me this treatise but from my side it is standing ovation to the actor playing Nimboli. I'm glad my hunch has proved right. I returned to BV because of this lovely little girl with a million expressions. And she has shown with every episode that she is indeed a fine actor.

I thought she was a very good actor right from the beginning. Think of her age and think of the fact that she has the most demanding role and then you see her, and you realise what she is pulling off. In the last few episodes, she has grown into her role so much, I'd think she is right there with the actors playing Akhiraj and Mangala. Whether in the episode where Akhiraj goes out to kill Kamli where tension was writ large on her face, or yesterday when she carried her hurt in her eyes and later shed silent tears, the kid was outstanding. She deserves far more appreciation than she gets which maybe because people haven't taken to her character. But that cannot detract from how many different emotions she has had to play-- naughty, smiling, laughing, bubbly, sad, misty-eyed, tearful -- far more than all other characters.

Now to other things. As I said before I'm really put off by this constant talk of genes. How does anyone in the modern world, where the influences of environment and nurturing have been held to be vital factors in determining character, believe that genes are everything? By this token a criminal's son will be a criminal? So mannu is pre-determined to be bad because he has those genes? Is Kundan what he is because of his genes? Then what about Kamli? Why despite the terrible genes, has she turned out to be good? If mother and father are everything, why does Kamli feel nothing for her parents?

Why did Anandi herself have DIL ka rishta first with her in-laws and then with Amol?
Does the fact that Amol has returned his parents prove that all the nurturing she did was nothing compared to the love he is getting from his parents? So has it been proved that A can be a good mother only to her own biological child ? Otherwise she will fail?


Or is it the case that whatever Anandi does and in whichever capacity is always the right thing? Thus when A was nurturing Amol, that was the best thing anyone could do. And now when it is Nimboli, it is only A who can give her the best care and love. Is that so? Then all arguments fall flat.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

@Bold - Bhago knew why her daughter chose her in laws over her parents after being dumped by her pati.
That is the reason she never was angry or hurt by her daughter's decision.
In fact after Anandi refused to go over to her parents' place she went to Sandhya teacher apologised to her for not listening to her and then asked her to and meet Anandi and advice her regarding her future.
Bhago wanted the best for her daughter whether she was staying with her or not nevre mattered to her.
Anandi promised her mother that she would marry Shiv not because she knew who Shiv was but her mother wanted what is best for her.
She obeyed her mother out of her trust for her.

Mother daughter don't need to live together for the bond to strengthen.



Anandi obeyed her mother out of trust for her ?? 😲

It was clearly shown how anandi got up and went when her mother asked her to marry Shiv and how her mother, who was so weak and pale, stood up from her bed and collapsed while trying to run behind her. When Aandi saw her mother dying before her, she promised she will do whatever she says.

Yes, Mother daughter dont need to live together for the "bond to strengthen"... but for the bond to form they first need to know each other for which they need to live together...strengthening of bond can only happen after the bond is formed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Anandi obeyed her mother out of trust for her ?? 😲

It was clearly shown how anandi got up and went when her mother asked her to marry Shiv and how her mother, who was so weak and pale, stood up from her bed and collapsed while trying to run behind her. When Aandi saw her mother dying before her, she promised she will do whatever she says.

Yes, Mother daughter dont need to live together for the "bond to strengthen"... but for the bond to form they first need to know each other for which they need to live together...strengthening of bond can only happen after the bond is formed.

Her mother was a total ignorant but did she ever want something for her daughter that she didn't think it was good for her?
The proposal she rejected when it came from Dsa but the same proposal she accepted because her mother wanted it. So what does that mean?
Did she not trust her mother?
She made that promise to her she saw how much her mother wanted it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya



Anandi obeyed her mother out of trust for her ??😲

It was clearly shown how anandi got up and went when her mother asked her to marry Shiv and how her mother, who was so weak and pale, stood up from her bed and collapsed while trying to run behind her. When Aandi saw her mother dying before her, she promised she will do whatever she says.

Yes, Mother daughter dont need to live together for the "bond to strengthen"... but for the bond to form they first need to know each other for which they need to live together...strengthening of bond can only happen after the bond is formed.


Bond has already started to develop between Anandi and Nandini. Both Anandi and Nandini feel something special between them whenever they meet. Anandi has already said to Nandini that she is the most lovable and special girl in the world. Nandini also want to study because her chokhi chudail said so. No one can deny the special bond between Anandi and Nandini. And Anandi told to bh folks and other people about Nimboli, why she would bother so much about a random girl. And Nimboli also seen telling kundan and Mangala about her beautiful witch.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya



When people repeatedly say, Nimboli has not given her mother's place to anyone, it seems to me they are trying to convince themselves.😆 They dont want anandi's place to be given to anyone, which is fine with me. We also know that nimboli will forgive her mother once she knows the truth.


At this point, the girl does not know what a mother is like... But she intuitively knows that a mother is someone who is loving and caring... so once when she saw mangala caring for her (after she fell from a tree) she said mangala was "like a mother", NOT her mother.

When this girl knows nothing about a mother, how can she have any place for a mother in her heart, I dont understand this.

You are right, this time she was not thinking of mother but of father. When she saw the love between urmi and her father, she wondered why her father also did not think about her or come to see her.

Dont kwo why people are trying to prove again and again that nimboli has not given her mother's place to anyone.😆





Nimboli has not given her mother's place to Mangala because she doesn't feel that for Mangala. Mangala is not able to fulfil the emptiness she has within her. It is not that she has not seen mother daughter relationship. She has seen Kamli and Harki.

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