Nidhi and Pooja DT NOTE PG 1 & 4

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The Nidhi drinking, expulsion and readmission are covered in the three episodes of April 7, April 8 and April 9, 2015.


Anybody can see how unreasonable Anandi was with Nidhi and how she could have caused her great harm Anybody can also compare and contrast this with l'affaire Pooja.


Summary: In the first episode Pooja's mother, Sarita catches Nidhi drinking alcohol. She tells her drinking is against the rules. Nidhi says she needs to drink. Anandi comes there and tells Sarita to inform Nidhi's mother that she is dismissed and she can take her home.


In the second episode, Nidhi is sitting outside,. She smashes the bottle. She sees Anandi and asks her to forgive her. She says she will never again drink or break any rules. She begs her to take her back. Anandi tells her it is good for her if she has realized her mistake but she must apologise to her mother who is coming to take her back. She asks her to wait outside. Nidhi looks back sadly at A who is teaching karate to other students.

In the third episode: Nidhi has fainted because of sitting in the sun (this bit is missing in the written episode but I remember the other students coming to her rescue) and is admitted to hospital. Her mother is very angry and says she should cancel the school's licence. Nidhi tells her mother the mistake is hers and she once again apologises to Anandi and begs her to take her back.

It is after this that Anandi takes Nidhi back. After abruptly, summarily, without any enquiry, expelling her, and making her sit outside in the sun because of which she has to be admitted in hospital.


Contrast this with the mollycoddling and pampering of a completely unapologetic and unrepentant Pooja who has committed a bigger crime.

I rest my case here.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Which school lets go of an under aged kid caught drinking in the premises?
What does any school management do when they find that kids have some bad habits and addictions?

They are expelled.

All these things are committed within the premises.

All the offences committed by Pooja where were they committed? In school campus or outside the campus?

Should Anandi punish the kid for meeting boy out of school hours? She is a day scholar in this school.

Under whose protection did all this happen their parents or exclusively under school principal's protection ?

What were the school rules that Pooja broke apart from bunking classes?

That school was meant for rehabilitating child brides but which school will have rule saying that their school kids cannot be married off or which schools have rules that say that the girls can't run away with boys?

There are two different roles one is part of Sarita's only family member and the other is principal

The principal has not even entered the scene yet already dissecting the actions based on pure imaginations.
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Nidhi deliberately breaking rules she was the one who went and sat in the hot sun.It was her choice to sit in the hot sun to gain sympathy from Anandi school management not to mention the viewers. Don't recall Anandi making her sit in the sun .





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Posted: 10 years ago
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@rohini
Ghar ki murgi is not daal barabar in all cases na?

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Anyways Time and her fellow students will prove to be a punishment for Pooja

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I cannot believe the argument that Nidhi deserves summary dismissal without any hearing, and can be asked to sit in the sun, that she needs to be taken back only after being admitted to hospital and after cringing and begging.


But Pooja will be escorted home lovingly by per guardian and principal rolled into one. Well I must say Shiv Niketan sets a terrific example that all schools must follow.


@ chahanya. Here ghar ki murgi is being treated royally while the outsider gets the short shrift.

What I dont get is the justification of the double standard.

As Missesha explained,

Pooja is guilty of more than Bal Vivah. She ran away from school without informing and eloped and married a boy.

Is that permitted in school rules? If it is it is a strange school indeed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The girl ran away from home NOT from school.

The girl didn't care about her education and cut school for the most foolish of reasons and for that she deserves punishment


As for mollycoddling - tht was done by Anandi who is considered as family member by Sarita.
A family member's role in dealing with the errant kid is way different from the way a principal who deals with an errant student.

The principal and school has not even entered the picture and making judgments on the principal already.

Ideally Nidhi should not have been taken back she should have been sent back home. Why did Anandi take her back?Why is that not questioned? After all drinking in the campus is not permissble too.

Even what Nidhi did is legally not permissible. What is the age for consuming alcohol and possession of alcohol?

If Pooja should be suspended for eloping and getting married then Nidhi should have been suspended too to make an example out her.

If Pooja has to be suspended then Nidhi also should have been suspended and not taken back at all.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aparna, what most of us protesting is that why no punishment at all is given to Pooja.
The least she can deserve is the punishment for bunking school. Even that has not happened.

Nidhi was wrong and was punished and later when she realized her mistakes her apologies were accepted.

Pooja has not been confronted by any one in a strict manner and she has not realised her folly, right from bunking school to getting married and returning. But as per the story till now she has been excused by her own mother, and her school principal.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well u r talking about punishment to pooja , but one fact is when real life any girl or boy runs from school they themselves doesnt come to school because of shame , so parent normally changes there school so that no one comes to know about what happen in past.
but in pooja mannu case both r not thinking that what will happen when we will go to school or we will roam in the market .

basically this whole track started nicely , even mannu realsing his mistake related to ratan was also perfect, but pooja mannu marriage part was not ended properly. both parent just thought we got our children , raat gayi baat gayi.

we have to see what next for mannu and pooja , when they will start there social life .

i m not expecting punishment to pooja or mannu but yes scene was needed where anandi is bit introvert , thinking i m running shiv niketan and if tommorrow any other girl will run with any boy as a natural feeling then what i will do. all these things cvs should have shown. but anandi approach was not that deep. cVS should have shown this emotional battle within anandi.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with the topic maker.When that incident happened I argued for Nidhi very strongly.

If anandi wants to get away with softpedalling Pooja's mistake, she should have treated Nidhi with more compassion. She made her a spectacle in front of other students.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with rohini and missesha
No one is asking Anandi to expel Pooja from school but the thing is Anandi have not even questioned her when she was bunking school Anandi came to know Pooja is spending time with Mannu what she did ?o let me see she was busy lecturing BH people as if Jagya and Ganga does not know how to handle their son but Anandi was carefree from her own student??

while Nidhi was expelled from school She was punished for drinking Pooja is being pampered Anandi is such a double standard character She becomes very strict with Nidhi type girls but she is busy pampering Pooja She can be strict to anyone but if Jagya gets strict to his son for his rude behavior Anandi lectures him on parenting ? What kind of iconic character is Anandi cvs ??

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