How to douse the fire of rebellion?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was surprised by Sarita's words. I thought she will be clingy type. Clinging to Mannu as her damaad.

Loved Jagya and Dadisa's neutrality.

Empathised with Ganga.

Liked the way anandi tried to use carrot policy for the future to avoid present crisis.

Liked the way Pooja convincing Mannu to see the larger picture.

So far ok. But in case of pregnancy, things may take another turn.

Mannu is hot blooded.

Pooja is cool and she will readily sacrifice for Mannu's happiness.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Smart Sarita understood that Anandi was dangling a carrot in front of Mannu and Pooja.
Anandi knows very well that feelings which are so strong in childhood may not last till adulthood and preferences may change with time. After all she had personal experience in that.

Right now that is the only way to pacify them specially Mannu.

If they are opposed to Pooja Mannu relationship and they make their disapproval known to them it makes Mannu more determined.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Terribly disappointed with M and P.. Looks like they have learnt to effectively manipulate their families using emotional blackmail - M at the drop of a hat mouthing - ghar se chale jaayenge 😡, lying and then planning to hoodwink their near and dear ones.. Not even for moment they seem to think that this is wrong and that they are already in a mess..
this emotional blackmail stuff - why aren't J-G-or A - telling them to stop taking their parents for granted?? M-P need to be told a few home truths..that all out there in the world is not hunky dory - and romanticizing the outside world is plain stupditiy M-P have understood that whatever they do that will be accepted out - and that is tragic..

Edit - Day one when they were brought back - everyone was relieved..

day 2 - atleast thought that writers will get the family to talk to them individually to bring some sort of sense.. nothing of the kind was shown.. we just heard a few sentences from Anandi telling them to focus on their future life, studies, career - self dependence - but has that really made any impact??

Isn't some kind of talk/discussion required with these two impressionable teenagers.. agreed that they are not in a position now to listen to anything - but family needs to really talk..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: umam

Terribly disappointed with M and P.. Looks like they have learnt to effectively manipulate their families using emotional blackmail - M at the drop of a hat mouthing - ghar se chale jaayenge 😡, lying and then planning to hoodwink their near and dear ones.. Not even for moment they seem to think that this is wrong and that they are already in a mess..

this emotional blackmail stuff - why aren't J-G-or A - telling them to stop taking their parents for granted?? M-P need to be told a few home truths..that all out there in the world is not hunky dory - and romanticizing the outside world is plain stupditiy M-P have understood that whatever they do that will be accepted out - and that is tragic..

Edit - Day one when they were brought back - everyone was relieved..

day 2 - atleast thought that writers will get the family to talk to them individually to bring some sort of sense.. nothing of the kind was shown.. we just heard a few sentences from Anandi telling them to focus on their future life, studies, career - self dependence - but has that really made any impact??

Isn't some kind of talk/discussion required with these two impressionable teenagers.. agreed that they are not in a position now to listen to anything - but family needs to really talk..

agree wid u. even i was thinking wen they came back that M &P atleast think that all is not gud outside but it luks that they din't think as they were not forced in poverty as they'd money 1st 2 last 4 few days then bimla took them.and also i was thinking that CVs will show both families talking 2 them separately wat Aji told them ystrday.
i think J & DS r not neutral.both also wanted M & P 2 stay away permanently bcoz all knew that feeling change wid time.but they let it know subtly not like ganga as bluntly bcoz shes more concerned abt M's future.and she made it clear 2 Aji wen she told her that M is kid & doesn't know wats gud 4 him & wats happiness.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I was surprised by Sarita's words. I thought she will be clingy type. Clinging to Mannu as her damaad.

Loved Jagya and Dadisa's neutrality.

Empathised with Ganga.

Liked the way anandi tried to use carrot policy for the future to avoid present crisis.

Liked the way Pooja convincing Mannu to see the larger picture.

So far ok. But in case of pregnancy, things may take another turn.

Mannu is hot blooded.

Pooja is cool and she will readily sacrifice for Mannu's happiness.

agree except that J & DS neutral and P is cool & will sacrifice.
i don't think J & DS were/r neutral.they were not in favour of it but they din't show it straight 4ward like ganga bcoz shes mother who has 2 think abt her kid's future & shes emotnl also so said it bluntly.

and P i don't think is cool in anyway. she seems 2 me v.cunning.she 1st instigated M against his parents then she made a u-turn. and i don't think she"ll sacrifice. if she gets pregnant she"ll deftlly use it as a way 2 get mrd 2 mannu.oderwise she wudn't'd lied 2 her mom 4 such a big thing.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont think Pooja is cunnimg. She is somewhat stupid. She would not have thought that her mere wish for friendship will turn into early marriage. First move was hers. And then it snowballed. If she waited until her education is completed, she would have got a better match. Someone who is as cool. Mannu is too impulsive and takes decisions at the spur of the moment. Pooja's punishment is choosing mannu and thinking mannu is the best.

Actually Pooja should be grateful to Ganga for not accepting her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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May be a boys school is required nearby so that girls know that there is a choice of boys later in life and they do not really have to settle for the first one they come across and are friends with during their school years.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Based on the legal articles I posted elsewhere, even if the marriage is annulled, and there is a child out of the marriage, the child would still be a legal heir of BH. Ganga may still end up with Pooja's DNA in her family tree if not Pooja herself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I dont think Pooja is cunnimg. She is somewhat stupid. She would not have thought that her mere wish for friendship will turn into early marriage. First move was hers. And then it snowballed. If she waited until her education is completed, she would have got a better match. Someone who is as cool. Mannu is too impulsive and takes decisions at the spur of the moment. Pooja's punishment is choosing mannu and thinking mannu is the best.

Actually Pooja should be grateful to Ganga for not accepting her.

i disagree that P is stupid. nowhere i find her as stupid. shes cunning & it"ll cum out in future. shes not cool. but as its ur POV then u can hav it. i respect it but wat i'd learned & saw in life & also till in this show i can say shes cunning &do things slyly. thatswhy her moves were like that. i wudn't'd cared if she'd made 1ts move but the way she did was cheap.
but yes i agree M is impulsive .hes not 4 P nor P is suitable 4 M.
and P shud b grateful that ganga is directly telling her she doesn't want her 4 M.and also 2wards J & DS who r also not in favour but not saying openly
but i hope P's pregnancy shud b terminated if happens.oderwise it"ll luk like they used pregnancy as means 2 get mrd.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee

Based on the legal articles I posted elsewhere, even if the marriage is annulled, and there is a child out of the marriage, the child would still be a legal heir of BH. Ganga may still end up with Pooja's DNA in her family tree if not Pooja herself.



Maybe. But Pooja or her mother should not give the baby to BH people. If Abhi has a child, there will be more conflicts. Abhi is not only legal heir but also has direct bloodline.

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