Changing perception of relation-Meher took power from Abeer

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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is said that the world revolve around perceptions. Without understanding the real story most people assume certain things and act accordingly. Meher was at disadvantage till the world outside didn't know her relation with Abeer. She was the quintessential damsel in distress or the one faking that " No" to the attention received by the star charmer while her heart saying yes. Nissar warned Abeer upfront not to make use of it to disgrace Meher.
But Abeer didn't heed anything as he wanted to prove to Meher that he still has power over her, can still break her. But it was not the things that he did in vengeance that came out in newspaper, it was a thing he did out of genuine care that bought the whole issue from the can. No wonder neither Nissar and nor Meher was willing to listen to him. It was good that Nissar accused him and told he never expected his friend to be this cheap. And Meher told him he should be happy because he achieved what he wanted. He had been able to disgrace her in front of everyone. And she will ensure their relationship status is no longer a secret.
It was a beautiful scene in which Meher calls the whole office and speaks her relationship status in just 4 sentences. It was a beauty, hats off to dialogue writer and hats off to Asmita for carrying out that scene. It is not that easy to say the story your relationship as 4 single statements with a straight face. And it shows when she breaks down privately in her cabin, how much emotional pressure this lady has taken. I liked the way she told whatever Chemistry you see between me and Abeer is not because of present , but because of past.
Yes the office gossip continues. But it is no longer about the charming musician and the angry boss. But it is about the couple warring with each other. And yes now it hurts Abeer where it matters. Till that point gossip was about a girl who according to the office was someone who Abeer was trying to charm, but now it became gossip about his wife and their past. It hit him where it mattered and look at the way he came to punch the guys. Meher ke bare mein kuch bola tho. Seriously it will hurt when the finger is pointed inward than outward. And Meher did the right thing by changing the perception about their relation.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said. 👏
In the first scenario, Abeer had all the power. When he flirted with her in front of everyone-- he just looked like a charmer. Any rumours of them being together makes him look like a stud. The only person vulnerable was Meher in that scenario.

But now-- they are equals. She was his wife. He is equally vulnerable in any discussion about their relationship. By showing that she has nothing to hide it prevents her from being the victim.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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asmita completely nailed the scene and the scene later.that slow version of mere nishan was very apt.now if these gossipmongers could do something useful,but i dont expect much,atleast from mr and mrs sahni.

seeing meher's breakdown,i felt the same question that i always thought while watching such a scene,
will abeer feel anything if he witnesses such a scene??or will he be egoistic as ever??its not that i want meher to be shown as weak or something,but from whatever we have seen,abeer picturises meher as cold hearted,money minded,calculative woman with zero emotions.so will meher's tears over the pain of their broken relation change something for abeer??

y'days epi also hinted that the 2 dads had a great hand in mehbeer divorce.
ps:we need those fbs back,it has been a really long time since they showed them.hain na??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Meher took the power away from Abeer. He will no longer be able to use her past to force her to do something but unfortunately it will also lead to much more gossip a sample of which we already saw yesterday. Meher being more mature can handle it better then Abeer .
Another thing to look for is Sani being the business owner maybe tempted to do something about this whole situation so let's see how CVs take it forward !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said

Great post



Though abeer never wanted the past to come out infront of the people, but indirectly he created the situation which made meher to reveal the past...

The newspaper thing was not his fault, but nissar and meher were not ready to listen to him. Because in party he lowered himself by ill treating meher infront of everyone... So nissar thought he created this situation... Even meher is hurt, though she knows the newspaper issue was not his fault ,...somehow indirectly unintentionally abeer was the reason, that made thier past to come out infront of the world...



Best part was, instead of giving essay on thier past, meher revealed it just in the four sentences..
Where as in other shows...female lead might have given two -three paras lecture...


The emotional break down scene was superb...


Both of them nailed it..


The main issue between them is both are not happy with the separation
So, they blame each other for the breakdown of thier marriage...

That means, abeer and meher never wanted divorce, but maybe somehow the situations build up that lead to disaster of thier relationship
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ratna we need fbs a bit more. Meher's dad was fishing in muddy water. Somehow I feel he had some hand in this whole business than Meher's bua. Meher's bua can be a victim of situation, even I feel Abeer's dad would have been victim of circumstances because this man Meher's dad is a leech in real sense.
And Shyams things are not going to be easy for either of them. Now Abeer's image as a bachelor is going for a toss to be known as a divorcee. Now media will hunt down the reasons for their divorce. Paparazzi and page 3 reporters wont allow him to leave in peace. Also the image of a divorcee is not good for a man in the show business, especially one having huge female fans.
This confession of Meher can even break Abeer's career which will bring more clashes between them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes fero. Actually it was a sad situation. Both Meher and Nissar didn't listen to what Abeer wanted to say. If one of them had listened maybe Abeer would have calmed down a bit, instead of telling match stick if comes hear petrol will burn. But he forgets that not only the match stick but petrol will also burn in the situation.
And yes Meher told it as a fact, not as a dard bhari kahani. I loved the personal connect she gave to her mother and bua when she explained to them and then the perfect professional conduct she did in office. Abeer never expected this action by Meher and it took him by surprise when she was explaining in front of the office.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post Shruthi .
To me yesterday's episode was power pack of emotions except those two creepy fathers .

Neither of them cares their kids pain.

Kuber Malhotra , I can make his reason for his hatred to Abeer , bcz Abeer is not the way he wanted , and he is total control freak .

But Mehers father , I found him more creepy , all he cares is money and alchohol . He cannot see his daughters pain. It's my guess , I think Meher might be helping him financially too , still he is behaving weirdly. Now I can connect dots he might be reason in their divorce issue . Initially I thought Bua, not in a negative way , but I thought independent feminist bua too might have influenced Meher .

Kuber Malhotra obsessed with money Mehers father digs for money !! 🤢 This is so fishyy
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I divided it u know 😆
Taking a relaxing breath to give my view on Mehbeer .

Meher is something which we never saw . This girl seriously has the capability to make different rooms for different emotions unlike Abeer .

She was so composed , thought out revelation , every word she said added more weight to her heavy heart . She said very plainly not letting her pain to see light .

And then with every step to her cabin , she started crumbling , that was clearly showed and then her break down , releasing her pain in cabin . Asmita did a great job .

Abeer , I don't have words , I always thought and knew , Abeer is hiding pain behind his carefree , rude behaviour . When she said " 8 years back divorce " that sudden flash of pain on his face , he doesn't want hear about it .

It might be more difficult for Abeer , bcz he never showed his emotions, he every time denied to break , reasoning himself , he hates her .

At least Meher , cries in front of her mother and Bua , but Abeer can't even do that ( u know rock star image , simply kidding ) .

He dont show his pain, he shows his anger . Bcz he wants to hate her , in which he is successfully failing .

He wanted her presence in his award function bcz it's a special day for him and that y he even said ghar ki Laxmi !! Though painted it with different shade named as hate !!


Abeer said it , " though we both cannot understand each other , we can know each other very well "

So he knew , Meher came to show him , she can survive without him and at that point , he was trying to his best to move on , forget her . She popped in his office , Abeer who is phattu in managing emotions poured his anger . If he too might have behaved indifferently with Meher, not heeding her presence . Trust me , meher might have broken even more . ( I feel )


These two are still crazily in love , waited 8 years for fate to throw another chance ( with intentions even she was not aware , she jus wants his presence ) and when it came , she couldn't deny it . U know heart and its games . Both are denying to accept that they still love each other.

Meher wants to prove she can live without him, though she knows , only he can be her love . And Abeer wants to hate her , bcz she left him . Aisa Kya hua inn donom ke beech mai Want to know more of flash back soon .


I don't know what I have scribbled , just my views .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And yes forgot about Nissar and Abeer , great bonding they share u know . People think that Nissar is not understanding Abeer , Nissar is not to be blamed . When it comes to Meher , right from the beginning , Abeer does , what he jus wants , never listened Nissar . He is not being biased here . He responded like anyone , who knows what is going between Meher and Abeer .
But Nissar should have asked once , what happened .!!

And about grapevine , he always felt it proud , when others gossiped about him and Meher , he even enjoyed , bcz she was tagged to him , not with someonelse .

But he lost his nerves yesterday , bcz it's not just gossiping accusing Meher and Abeer for ruining their marriage . No good husband can hear , third person talking about his wife and he raised his hands to punch him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yesterday's epi was very much a turning point in the show I would say! It changed the whole views of all office members..it gave a new change in abeer wer he could not stand anyone talkin against meher..that was nt the rock star abeer but he was just meher ex husband!

Asmita totally nailed the scene ...the way she said the whole past to all in just few words n tat too wit a straight face...its freakin hard to Tel someone abt ones bitter past...but she did it and it was kinda necessary so tat abeer stops this childish acts and yes I loved it the way abeer was hurt..qen she said 8 saal pehle divorce ...abeer just closed his eyes and gulped..tat showed the amount of pain he is in..n the moment meher finished her part n she started walkin..she looked at abeer n moved..she was all breaking and finally shattered the moment she was in her cabin..the pain the agony and the whole past has shattered the two almost beyond repair..



Abeer and nisaar bonding as frend is amazing..inly a true fren can be straight forward and explain to his fren tat he was the one who provoked and he was wrong!


Hats off to asmitha and pearl fr their wonderful act!
Edited by neetha - 10 years ago

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